The human brain is a complex and capable organ. We put it through many troubling exercises, which might include thinking about work, play, what we have to do, what we can’t get to, and, probably, even thinking about thinking. T. Alexander Puutio, Ph.D., a teacher at Harvard and Columbia, shared with Psychology Today five habits that are making us dumber every day.

One of the first rules of problem-solving is understanding what’s causing the problem. Only then can we uncover the proper solutions. “Brain rot” can be linked to five common offenders that prevent us from reaching our fullest potential.

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5 major mental mistakes we make and the uncommon solutions:

1. Sleep deprivation

Getting enough sleep is extremely important for our health. Having a good night’s sleep tonight has direct effects on your cognitive abilities tomorrow—and even decades later. The National Heart, Lung, and Blood Institute reported on a study in 2024 that found adults in their ’30s and ’40s who had trouble sleeping showed poorer cognitive performance even a decade later. This decline wasn’t just from poor sleep quality but also the duration of poor sleep. “Skip it, and you degrade performance in measurable ways where our executive function dulls and our decision-making falters,” said Puutio. “Other research shows that even modest nightly sleep restriction impairs attention, working memory, mood, and judgment.”

Solution: Take time to be bored

The brain can restore itself in a ‘default state,’ according to Ashok Seshadri, M.D. of Mayo Clinic Health System. This is the normal way of recuperation, where we can internally reflect and encourage imagination. When the brain is extremely focused and performing an intense activity, it consumes large amounts of energy. The constant stimulation can be extremely hard on our nervous system. Taken in small doses, boredom is a helpful counterbalance to the highly stimulating and intense technological lives we live today. PsyPost shared on the benefits of finding moments for boredom, saying, “We need to embrace the pause. It is a space where creativity can prosper, emotions can be regulated, and the nervous system can reset.”

2. A fixed idea on how smart we are

It’s sometimes easy to get lost in an idea that we are only a certain level of smart. Even though we may learn new things, we think we have a limited bandwidth. Puutio writes, “By far the most performance-reducing habit is treating the brain as if it’s a fixed fixture. Psychologists call this the entity theory of intelligence, which is simply the belief that ability is innate and unchangeable.” We have a lifetime of learning behind us that suggests these thoughts just aren’t true.

Solution: The frustration zone

Proving this “fixed intelligence” idea wrong can be as simple as basic puzzle solving. The brain can reorganize and strengthen connections in response to hard tasks. Stepping just a little bit out of your intellectual comfort zone can have dramatic, positive effects. Occupational Therapist Sarah Bence wrote for Verywell Health, “Long-term brain-training activities can improve your working memory, verbal memory, and global functioning. Challenging yourself to try new activities can also improve brain functioning through a process called neuroplasticity.”

Science Direct published a study in July of 2025 about neuroplastic brain breakthroughs. It found that, “A deeper understanding of neuroplasticity—encompassing synaptic, structural, and functional adaptations—has dramatically expanded therapeutic possibilities.” And that, “… neuroplasticity-based interventions offer unprecedented opportunities for recovery, learning, and even cognitive enhancement…”

3. Our brains are lacking structure

You might have heard the term scatterbrained. Merriam-Webster dictionary defines it as, “Having or showing a forgetful, disorganized, or unfocused mind.” The brain prefers and flourishes doing the exact opposite of this. Puutio writes, “Our brains thrive on structure, purpose, and deadlines. Without them, we drift unfocused, sabotaging any spark of creativity we hoped to ignite.” He continues, “… even the most brilliant thinkers need disciplined structure to function at full capacity.”

Solution: Engaged in “single tasking”

It is a common belief that multitasking is not only an important ability but a true sign of intelligence. However, your brain cannot engage two cognitive tasks at once. It shifts focus back and forth between the two subjects. Carlos Alós-Ferrer, Ph.D., shared in Psychology Today that many modern techniques center around concentrating on one task at a time. Multitaskers are way less productive. A 2024 study in the National Library of Medicine found significant cognitive costs when people were task-switching. Tackling one obstacle at a time optimizes human performance and leads to improved cognitive function.

4. Filling our brains with low-grade distractions

Puutio writes, “It’s the mental equivalent of leaving candy on your desk when you’re on a diet.” He continues, “Place it in a steady drip of bad inputs, gossip, outrage, and low-grade distraction, and it will inevitably adapt downward.” Your brain is adaptive and will shift toward exactly where you send it. Scrolling through unhealthy images and engaging with toxic trolls on the Internet will inevitably cause you problems. Stimulating your mind with images just because you can, or you’re feeling lazy, can be a real energy drain.

Solution: Take a thought walk

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Mindful walking has important, positive effects on the brain. One specific technique can be establishing a rhythmic stride. A study in 2021 in the National Library of Medicine found that establishing a consistent pace supported short and long-term cognitive benefits. Participants in the study showed improvements in inhibitory control, selective attention, and overall executive function. Science Daily reported a 2023 study on walking that found regular walks strengthened the connections “in and between” brain networks. Taking a “thought walk” has also been shown to slow the onset of Alzheimer’s disease in older adults.

5. Alcohol

If you’ve had more than a few glasses of alcohol, you know exactly how it can change your thought patterns. Heavy drinking causes literal damage to the brain. Alzheimer’s disease is 41% more common in heavy drinkers, according to an autopsy-based study referenced by Puutio in his aforementioned Psychology Today article. Heavy drinkers were shown to have significantly higher odds of developing vascular brain lesions (as much as 133% higher probability). “Alcohol is perhaps the most obvious form of self-sabotage,” said Puutio. “[People] consuming eight or more alcoholic drinks per week is linked to clear markers of brain injury.”

Solution: Have a mocktail instead

The habit of not drinking has been a growing trend since the pandemic. A 2025 Gallup Poll shared by NPR found that only 50% of Americans aged 18 to 34 say they drink alcohol. And, 66% believe drinking even in moderation has harmful effects. According to the World Health Organization, scientists believe ‘any’ amount of alcohol can increase the risk of cancer, lead to depression and anxiety, and show negative effects on general health.

According to a story in the Houston Chronicle, restaurant franchises like Taco Bell are implementing a mocktail menu. The company hopes to boost its beverage sales to five billion dollars by the year 2030 by offering energy drinks and agua frescas of strawberry passion fruit, dragon fruit, berry, and mango peach. Business Insider reported that traditional bars will have to serve non alcoholic options to remain competitive. With more people consuming fewer alcoholic drinks or stopping completely, restaurants looking to maintain sales margins will have to adapt.

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The brain is a very complex organ that requires attention and positive habits to maintain healthy function. Many of the diseases that afflict the brain as we get older can be avoided or more successfully navigated through positive actions today. Every person has their own experiences when it comes to mental health and brain function, but the professionals seem to agree: treat yourself well or face the consequences.

  • The good life requires two things, self‑knowledge and friends – you can’t have one without the other
    Photo credit: Stephen Simpson/Stone via Getty ImagesFriends can see and know you in ways that you yourself never can.
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    The good life requires two things, self‑knowledge and friends – you can’t have one without the other

    A global study links nature connection with resilience, mindfulness and life satisfaction.

    Friends can help us with all kinds of things in life. How could I forget moving that piano for friends in Chicago? Fortunately, none of us ended up in the ER.

    One of the most important things friends do, though, might seem surprising: They help us get to know ourselves.

    Both in their 50s, Cindy and Ann had been friends since the second grade. Year after year, they never missed a birthday. Cindy would give Ann gourmet popcorn or maybe a sweatshirt from her alma mater, while Ann would give Cindy a special book on a topic that interested her, or maybe an old batch of family recipes. At one point, it dawned on Cindy just how thoughtful Ann’s gifts were. It wasn’t about the cost. “She really thinks about my life and what I’m doing,” Cindy said. “It’s amazing. Ann is just really thoughtful.”

    Cindy had always imagined herself as a thoughtful person, too. But in comparing the kinds of gifts they sent to each other, she realized that she was not thinking about Ann in the way that Ann was thinking about her. And so began her deliberate process of becoming more thoughtful – as a result of the self-insight she had gained from her friendship with Ann.

    As a philosopher and philosophical counselor, I’ve noticed the pronounced connection between friendship and self-knowledge in my counseling practice. Cindy and Ann are one example among many. I’ve come to the conclusion that to really know yourself, it’s necessary to have good friends.

    The link between self-knowledge and friendship was key for Aristotle, too, more than 2,000 years ago. “Eudaimonia” – roughly translated as living well, or happiness – often remains elusive, yet Aristotle believed it didn’t have to be. Eudaimonia is largely within people’s control, he said, so long as they aim at the right targets.

    Two of those targets are knowing yourself and having good friends. The two are tied together – you can’t develop self-knowledge in a vacuum. Happiness, for Aristotle, can never be a solitary pursuit.

    Knowing – and befriending – yourself

    Humans have a highly developed capacity to think about their thinking. This is possible because of a split in human consciousness: There is consciousness, and there is consciousness of consciousness – what is known as reflection or metacognition. Metacognition allows us to step back and note our thoughts and feelings, analyzing them almost as if they belonged to someone else.

    This split makes reason, self-knowledge and morality possible. We can deliberate about our thoughts, feelings and potential actions.

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    Self-knowledge isn’t the same as being intellectual or even intelligent. Instead, it’s about using self-awareness and reason to develop character.

    In Aristotle’s view, character arises from developing habits that lead to intellectual and moral virtue, so that personal integrity is possible. This, in turn, builds self-trust and self-respect, as you learn to rely on yourself to do what is right – what Aristotle called “enkratēs,” or continence.

    In other words, self-knowledge is developing a good relationship with yourself. In your own internal dialogue, you become another trusted friend to yourself, based on what you’ve seen in your friendships: virtues like generosity, courage, truthfulness and prudence. Self-knowledge and moral development are tied together and realized in community, as underscored by Aristotle scholar Joseph Owens.

    Friendship based on character

    Aristotle recognized three types of friendship. Some are based on utility, like a study-group friend. Others are based on pleasure, such as friends in an antique car club.

    The third and highest form of friendship, which can last a lifetime, is based on virtue, or “arete.”

    In these situations, Aristotle wrote, a friend becomes “another self.” These friendships are based on mutual goodwill and love for the other person’s character; they are not fundamentally transactional. Instead, they are anchored in care and concern for the other.

    Such friendships are few, but foster self-knowledge. As philosopher Mavis Biss emphasizes, a good friend has a perspective on you that you yourself do not. You can step back and analyze your desires, thoughts and feelings, but you can never actually observe yourself.

    That means self-knowledge always has a social dimension. True friends enhance each other’s insight and capacity for virtue. As you get to know your friend, you get to know yourself – and are challenged to become a better version of yourself.

    “To perceive and to know a friend, therefore, is necessarily in a manner to perceive and in a manner to know oneself,” Aristotle wrote in the “Eudemian Ethics.” The friend is a mirror that helps refine our thinking, perception and moral understanding.

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    A trusted and respected friend shares ideas, gives fresh perspective and magnifies life’s pleasures. Johner Images/Johner Images Royalty-Free via Getty Images

    Aiming at the good life

    In the end, what makes eudaimonia – the good life – possible? For Aristotle, it’s using reason to become our best selves. Knowledge and self-knowledge are the most desirable of all things, Aristotle argued: “One always desires to live because one always desires to know, and because one wishes to be oneself the object known.”

    And there’s no way to get there without good friendsA trusted and respected friend shares perceptions, enhances self-knowledge and magnifies life’s pleasures.

    The desire to know and be known is part of the quest for happiness. Knowledge of self, others and everything else is interconnected. For Aristotle, relationships are a portal into the realms of the vast and mysterious universe.

    This article originally appeared on The Conversation. You can read it here.

  • A shocking scientific study says water isn’t actually the best way to get hydrated
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    A shocking scientific study says water isn’t actually the best way to get hydrated

    “A little bit of protein, fat, and sugar are the ultimate hydration hack.”

    Are you up to speed on how much water you’re supposed to be drinking every day? One study tells us eight glasses a day, and the next few say 16. The University of St. Andrews in Scotland conducted its own study and found there’s a substitute that rehydrates the body more quickly and efficiently than water alone.

    The study focused on different drinks and their effect on the body’s rehydration. The results showed that water was not the best choice, and you might be surprised at one of the best alternatives.

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    One of the best beverage choices for rehydrating the body is milk. It contains proteins, fats, and lactose. Lactose is the naturally occurring sugar that is found in milk. Combined with the sodium (salt) and potassium (electrolytes), these elements slow down the fluid from emptying out of the stomach. This helps keep a person’s body hydrated.

    In this way, milk is a far better provider for hydration than water. Yes, water contains trace amounts of salts and electrolytes, but it does not contain lactose, proteins, or fats.

    Other drinks the study found helpful include colas, sports drinks, orange juice, lager beer, tea, and coffee. It’s important to note, however, that high levels of sugar or alcohol actually dehydrate the body. Caffeine was an aid to hydration as long as the levels weren’t too high. If your coffee or tea has about 80 milligrams of caffeine, it’s in the best range for hydration.

    It’s important for people to maintain a healthy level of hydration throughout their day. Dehydration can affect the body in ways ranging from minor issues to serious, even dangerous, side effects, such as constipation, dizziness, heart issues, dry skin, and increased hunger and thirst.

    Constipation

    One reason constipation can occur is that there aren’t enough fluids to keep the pipes moving. This causes the intestines to slow down or completely stop eliminating waste. Besides being painful, dehydration-induced constipation risks include: vomiting, fever, abdominal cramps, bloating, rectal bleeding, and even diverticulitis (trapped waste in small pouches of the intestines that become irritated and inflamed).

    Dizziness

    Severely dehydrated people can not only face dizziness, but also delirium. When dehydrated, people can become unfocused and confused about their surroundings. It’s even possible to suffer hallucinations and delusions, leading to unsafe behavior and a need for urgent medical attention.

    Heart attacks

    Your heart rate is linked to blood pressure and blood volume. Volume is indirectly affected by the regulation of fluid intake. As your blood pressure and volume drop, the heart has to work harder to maintain a healthy, working body. If this state is prolonged, the stress can damage the heart and, in severe cases, cause heart attacks.

    Dry Skin

    Wrinkles are a normal part of the aging process, but dehydrated skin can cause fine lines to appear. These lines can feel itchy and may even crack open, creating entry points for bacteria. How do you know dry skin is dehydrated skin, though? There’s a simple test you can do to find out: gently pinch your skin between your pointer finger and thumb. If the skin returns to its original position within a few seconds, you’re good. If it doesn’t, you’re probably dehydrated.

    Hungry?

    Dehydration can often reveal itself as hunger. Your brain signals to the body that fluids are needed, and you feel that as a need for a full meal or snack. If you’ve just had something to eat and still feel hungry, try drinking a glass of something (like milk!). It will fill up your stomach and help rehydrate your body.

    This article originally appeared last year. It has been updated.

  • Woman says her husband keeps ‘ruining’ romance novels by acting them out before she reads them
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    Woman says her husband keeps ‘ruining’ romance novels by acting them out before she reads them

    “I genuinely don’t deserve him and also he is ruining my books.”

    Sometimes people reveal the climactic scene in a great book we’re reading before we even get there. It may be annoying, but most of the time, the ruined moment happens by accident.

    One woman shared this challenge in her Reddit thread, My husband is spoiling the spicy scenes in my romance books by acting them out before I get to them. Is it all a weird coincidence, or is their real genius hidden behind one man’s romantic gesture?

    My husband is acting differently in the bedroom

    A woman writing under the Reddit tag u/Embarrassed-Friend-8 shared she loves romance novels. Enough to consume four to five a month. Recently, her husband of 11 years started acting differently in the bedroom with what she describes as “themed” nights. She explains, “I’ll think ‘okay, that was fun and a little random’ and move on.” But then the real unexpected twist occurs. She continues, “A few days later I’ll be reading my book, hit a spicy scene and actually have to put my Kindle down bc it’s the same scene. Like, the same vibe, the same moves, occasionally almost the same setup.”

    She thinks he might be reading ahead and playing a fun little prank. But then the story beneath the story begins to reveal itself.

    “I read on my Kindle. He’d have to get into my account, figure out where I am in each book, read ahead, and then coordinate. He’s a big tech/numbers guy, so if he’s doing this I guarantee there’s a spreadsheet involved somewhere.   I’m honestly not even mad. Genuinely if this is what’s happening it might be the most unhinged romantic gesture anyone has ever done for me. But he is technically spoiling the books??”

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    A sexy dinner date.
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    People love a good role-play story

    As this story started to gain traction, the comments section filled up fast with amused, confused, and thoroughly invested people. It’s hard to resist a great story that begins with, “11 years and he’s still out here finding new ways to be surprising. I genuinely don’t deserve him and also he is ruining my books.” These are some of the Redditors’ thoughts:

    “Made the mistake of reading this post to my husband and I think I actually saw a light bulb turn on above his head — gonna start locking my Kindle…”

    “Book mark your favorite scenes…give him a selection so there’s still an element of surprise.”

    “You made me laugh so hard this morning!”

    “Yes, but ruining them in the BEST possible way!”

    “Absolute legend behavior, but you’re right, he needs to drop some DLC that isn’t in the source material for the real surprises.”

    “This is adorable and also sweet and romantic!”

    “I mean, the husband is looking at this as ‘ok, challenge accepted!’”

    “Girl, start reading some spicier stuff!”

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    The mystery is uncovered in a Reddit update

    In an update to the original post, the woman shared that she was very appreciative of the comments and support from readers of her posting. “Turns out you all were right. He had access to my shared Kindle library and got this idea for a prank, but once he did it a few times he really got ‘invested.’” She continues, “He’s going to stop spoiling my books but we did come up with another arrangement, also thanks to the comments here. I’m going to give him a list of pre-approved spicy scenes and he’ll choose (in no specific order) which he wants to surprise me with.”

    This husband was willing to go the extra mile to keep their relationship moving in a healthy direction. And yet, there was one more little update she had to add in, “YES there was a spreadsheet. Chili pepper emojis for spice levels. A column for notes (needs wine, links to Spotify playlists, etc). Color coding. Multiple tabs. More organization than even I was expecting. It will be ongoing and is now shared so I can drop in my own chili peppers and notes.”

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    Romance novels are not just for the ladies

    Romance novels aren’t simply a niche. It’s one of the most widely read genres worldwide. It’s not just casual reading either. Romance readers are voraciously digesting an average of five novels per month. A 2021 study in Humanities & Social Sciences Communications found that most readers are in relationships and looking for little escape and relaxation. Writing that is exciting, easy, and fun to read matters more than the sexual content.

    What might be surprising is that romantic literature appeals to male readers more than you might think. In a 2025 survey conducted with fans of romance books by Talker Research, 63% of the men considered themselves die-hard fans. Also, men spend 364 hours annually reading romance compared to women, who spend 312 hours.

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    A little bit of romance matters

    Research shows that doing something new together can reignite connection. A 2024 study in Science Direct found that passion and intimacy are directly related to overall relationship satisfaction. And it’s not the big swings at romance that matter most. It’s the small, attentive actions that bring more intimacy.

    A 2023 review in the National Library of Medicine found that in the psychology of a romantic relationship, responsiveness, emotional attunement, and mutual investment build a stronger, lasting connection.

    Romance might seem like something we’re all supposed to instinctively know how to do. This husband is willing to invest time and creativity into his marriage, even if his first attempts didn’t land perfectly. What she thought was a small frustration slowly turned into a stronger connection. All of this good started by simply trying and reading a little ahead.

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