People who grew up poor list things that ‘rich kids’ will never understand and it is heartbreaking

People who hail from poor families feel powerless because they may get what they urgently ‘need’ but not what they ‘want’

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Neha B.

Aug 27, 2024

By Neha B.

August 27, 2024

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Growing up wealthy can be a privilege, but it often shields people from understanding fundamental realities of life. Those who grow up less affluent often have these lessons ingrained in their very being. On Reddit, a user named u/bobtheglob71 shared a post in the r/askreddit group, asking its 48 million members, “Redditors who grew up poor, what is something that ‘rich kids’ will never understand?” The comment section is filled with heartbreaking stories.

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According to surveys, nearly 38 million people in America alone struggle with poverty, and the number escalates to more than 700 million globally. From squeezing toothpaste tubes for every last drop to wearing worn-out clothes at celebrations, poverty often strips away life’s simple joys. In this Reddit post, nearly 1,500 people shared things they believe rich kids will never understand. Here are ten agonizing experiences, both physical and emotional, that users say most “rich kids” won’t ever truly grasp.

1. Feeling guilt for spending money

“Feeling guilty about costing your parents money.” – u/AllPurposeNerd “Guilt over spending anything on myself even if I need it (work clothes for example).” – u/MueryK “Watching your parents stress over money and not really being able to help shapes your entire childhood. Everything you get has a layer of guilt attached, even though my parents did the best they could to shield me from it. That’s why I still compulsively avoid luxury items in my 30s.” – u/MercurialMagician

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2. Not having vacations

“Family vacations were nonexistent.” – u/personofinterest18 “Poor families don’t do that. I had never had a family vacation. Winter meant hauling firewood.” – u/sekret_one “When I was a kid, we never ate out. Even fast food was a treat. The only vacation we went on was to a free beach on the Jersey Shore.” – u/identifyinsurrection

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3. Experiencing crippling hunger

“True hunger. I don’t mean that casual ‘I guess I should eat…’ feeling, I mean that hollow, cramping pain deep in your stomach, the hunger that feels like your own body is eating itself from the inside out and that drives you crazy to the point you’ll eat anything you can chew through just to try and keep the pain away. Nobody should have to feel that, poor or not, especially a child.” – u/korbah

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4. Wearing unwashed clothes to school

“Wearing the same shit to school almost every day.” – u/skelatorshred “Always getting second-hand school uniforms, which are way too large and look comical even 4 years later.” – u/reedherring “Getting laughed at and bullied at school because your clothes have holes, are smelly and your family can’t afford new ones neither does your family own a laundry machine.” – u/[deleted]

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5. Duct taping shoes

“Duct taping your shoes when the soles start falling off so they’ll last a few more months.” – u/sexypineapple14 “Sewing shoes back together with fishing line, or gluing them back together.” – u/bcoftheimplication7

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6. Feeling powerless and bullied

“Amount of time feeling powerless.” – u/hot_bite “Being bullied for being poor.” – u/terminallyalone “How much it can hurt when rich kids bully the poor kids. Not all do it, but most did when I was at school.” – u/ok_ambassador886

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7. Using newspaper instead of toilet paper

“Recall never having toilet roll. We always used newspapers, and this is in the 90s, so not exactly a million years ago. A few months back, one of my children moaned because I didn’t buy the toilet roll with the coconut scent added. It was that moment that I realized I had succeeded in dragging them as far away from the hell that was my childhood as I possibly could.” – u/idealminds “Toilet paper was a luxury.” – u/carolynearle

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8. Getting what you “need” and not “want” as Christmas gifts

“All my gifts for Christmas and Birthdays were something I needed or would need and had to be bought anyway. Like clothes, shoes, or school supplies. Never, never anything fun or just because I wanted it.” – u/freckledjezebel “The utter disappointment of waking up to very little on Christmas day, and wondering what you’d done wrong that year.” – u/optimal_tension9657 “Getting a donation box for Christmas of mostly tinned food and from that getting hair pins as my Christmas present. It’s weird looking back on this, I remember being so excited, the box was even wrapped up.” – u/reedherring

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9. Lack of privacy

“Living in close quarters with family can be nice if it’s optional. But being forced to share the living room with your sibling and father because you physically cannot afford to have your own privacy is exhausting and mentally draining.” – u/iwanttobeaplane “Privacy is a privilege. It’s different when you want alone time and can only lock yourself in your bathroom or car because you share a room with five other family members.” – u/whatyouegg_13

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10. Seeing parents skip meals

“Having dinner and knowing that your Mum isn’t eating, not because she isn’t hungry, but because she’s making sure her kids have food first.” – u/dragonsloveboxes “I’m 59 and a few years back I learned that my father sometimes didn’t eat dinner to make sure there was plenty for my brothers, sister, and myself.” – u/urgunnadownvoteme

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Travel is further along than most in recognizing this cultural shift. It’s also a useful case because the industry has started on the easy part of the problem but barely touched the rest.

Demographics matter, but not the way you’d think

The broader shift toward solo living is real. In 2025, 39.7 million Americans lived alone. That’s 29% of all households, up from 20% in 1975. Married couples, meanwhile, fell to 47% of households from 66% 50 years earlier.

Those numbers alone don’t explain solo travel. Some of that decline went to people living alone; some went to unmarried couples, who are still a party of two on a booking page. Married people take trips alone. Single people travel with friends, siblings and parents, and plenty of them have logged serious hours as an extra wheel. Living alone and vacationing alone are different behaviors with different causes.

What connects them is the erosion of a single assumption: that every adult arrives with a plus-one. That assumption is weakening at home, and it’s now encountering the booking page.

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One response by the travel industry has been to shave the single supplement. For example, the tour operator Tauck announced this year that it’s waiving the single supplement on a class of its riverboat cabins across more than 250 European river cruise departures and reducing it by up to US$600 on 105 land departures.

Another touring company has taken a more committed approach to adjusting its offerings: Aurora Expeditions sets aside 10 dedicated solo cabins on every sailing across its three ships, with no single supplement, through its 2026 and 2027 seasons.

Then there’s Norwegian Cruise Line, which was early to the shift. In 2010, it introduced Studio staterooms aboard Norwegian Epic: Small cabins designed for one passenger, sold at single-occupancy prices and arranged around a keycard-access Studio Lounge reserved for solo travelers. The trade-off is less private space, but at a price for one, with access to a room full of fellow travelers going it alone.

Norwegian then expanded solo categories in 2024 from nine ships to its full 19-ship fleet. But on ships without Studios, much of the expansion was relabeling. Cruise Critic reported that standard double-occupancy rooms would likely be reclassified rather than retrofitted. And by Norwegian’s own account, the Studio Lounge is reserved for guests in Solo Studios – so the fleetwide solo categories come with the discount but not the room full of other solo travelers.

That’s the difference between repricing and redesigning. The 2010 Studio was a purpose-built 100-square-foot (9 square-meter) cabin that cost Norwegian something to construct. The 2024 categories are, in many cases, the same rooms as before, with a new label and a discount. The solo traveler pays less than two people would, but it’s still more than half for a room sized and built for two. A cabin sold to one occupies the same space as a cabin sold to two, and the industry still counts berths.

There’s a cleaner approach. Yotel sells a room type it calls Solo – 114 square feet (about 10 square meters) in New York City, maximum occupancy one, at the bottom of its price range. Nothing was subtracted to make it. It was built at that size, for that guest, and priced accordingly. That’s what designing for one looks like, and it’s rare enough that a tiny room counts as progress.

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Traveling alone doesn’t mean being alone

A common mistake in designing for solo travelers is assuming that solitude is the product. It isn’t.

In the same 2026 data showing record interest in solo travel, Google found that searches for “travel groups” and “tour groups” also hit record highs. A Mastercard survey of more than 15,000 consumers across 11 countries found that 39% of international travelers had already taken a trip alone — and 7 in 10 international leisure travelers were interested in solo experiences built to connect them with like-minded people.

The contradiction makes sense when you acknowledge that privacy and isolation are two different things. A person can want total control over where to go, when to eat and when to return to the room – and still want company at dinner.

The issue with double-occupancy pricing is that it assumes the customer brings their own company. But when only one person books, the operator has to address the pricing problem – whether or how to discount; and a product problem – how to supply a social component. Waiving a solo supplement solves the first issue, but it ignores the second. Norwegian understood this in 2010 by creating its lounge for solo travelers.

The pitch is easier when the product is for one

For all these changes, travel advertising often still runs on couples: two glasses of wine, two lounge chairs, two silhouettes against a sunset. Sandals Resorts built an entire resort category around the premise.

When solo travel does appear, it gets a different script. The traveler is adventurous, on a journey of self-discovery. AARP’s current solo-travel guide emphasizes personal growth and self-reliance. Even Norwegian closes its solo pitch by reassuring the reader that “you’re pretty good company.”

The effect is to mark solo travel as exceptional at precisely the moment it stops being exceptional. Nobody reassures a couple that they will enjoy the balcony. Calling a solo traveler “brave” can be a compliment, but it can also reveal the assumption that traveling alone is abnormal, even when that’s changing.

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