I recently visited a porn set (long story) where male stars perform an extraordinary move: They apply a condom in every scene. Condom use is rare in the straight porn world—though performers are required to undergo frequent blood tests in order to stay on set, condoms are not currently mandated, and they tend to be unpopular with consumers. But this particular title was meant to appeal to a relatively untapped demographic—buttoned-up women who prefer their performers use protection. Since this is all about the viewer, some performers keep the condoms on for the, uh, relevant shots, then remove them when they’re not visible. It can be easier to work that way.

To reduce the risk of sexually transmitted infections, every straight performer is routinely tested for HIV, hepatitis, chlamydia, and gonorrhea. When I asked one employee on set about herpes, she raised her hands and squished her mouth into the universal sign for “meh.” Given their job descriptions and the potential to contract herpes with or without a condom, porn performers will likely get herpes at some point in their careers, whether they use protection or not.


The sexual mores of the porn industry are admittedly unique. But even off the set, the seriousness of a genital herpes infection is often a matter of perception, and the affliction is both physical and psychological. According to the CDC, about 1 in 6 American adults is infected with genital herpes. The CDC says that herpes “can cause recurrent painful genital sores in many adults, and herpes infection can be severe in people with suppressed immune systems.” Then, this: “Regardless of severity of symptoms, genital herpes frequently causes psychological distress in people who know they are infected.” Most people don’t know.

Herpes has some serious physical side effects—it can sometimes be painful, may help facilitate the spread of HIV, and can (in very rare cases) pass an infection to a newborn through a newly infected mother. But mostly, it’s awkward. In 2007, a survey of 2,000 people listed herpes as the second most-stigmatized STD (the first was HIV), and the most taboo one. In the poll, 39 percent of people with genital herpes attested to facing stigma. And that kind of stigma helps herpes spread: 38 percent of people with herpes had invented an excuse to avoid sex during an outbreak instead of discussing their diagnosis with a partner. In response to the study, Jezebel declared herpes “so whatevs,” outed 2 out of its 5 writers as having the virus, and declared feeling “offended that people are, well, offended by our infection.”

Researchers are currently working on a vaccine that’s had some success in preventing one strain of the herpes virus. It’s hardly the most serious disease for scientists to tackle, but it does stand to change the cultural conversation about one of our most prevalent STDs. Once science has the power to eliminate herpes, we’ll have to start talking about it.

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  • Man’s dog suddenly becomes protective of his wife, Internet clocks the reason right away
    Dogs have impressive observational powers.Photo credit: Canva

    Reddit user Girlfriendhatesmefor’s three-year-old pitbull, Otis, had recently become overprotective of his wife. So he asked the online community if they knew what might be wrong with the dog.

    “A week or two ago, my wife got some sort of stomach bug,” the Reddit user wrote under the subreddit /r/dogs. “She was really nauseous and ill for about a week. Otis is very in tune with her emotions (we once got in a fight and she was upset, I swear he was staring daggers at me lol) and during this time didn’t even want to leave her to go on walks. We thought it was adorable!”

    His wife soon felt better, butthe dog’s behavior didn’t change.

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    Otis knew before they did. Canva

    Girlfriendhatesmefor began to fear that Otis’ behavior may be an early sign of an aggression issue or an indication that the dog was hurt or sick.

    So he threw a question out to fellow Reddit users: “Has anyone else’s dog suddenly developed attachment/aggression issues? Any and all advice appreciated, even if it’s that we’re being paranoid!”

    The most popular response to his thread was by ZZBC.

    Any chance your wife is pregnant?

    ZZBC | Reddit

    The potential news hit Girlfriendhatesmefor like a ton of bricks. A few days later, Girlfriendhatesmefor posted an update and ZZBC was right!

    “The wifey is pregnant!” the father-to-be wrote. “Otis is still being overprotective but it all makes sense now! Thanks for all the advice and kind words! Sorry for the delayed reply, I didn’t check back until just now!”

    Redditors responded with similar experiences.

    Anecdotal I know but I swear my dog knew I was pregnant before I was. He was super clingy (more than normal) and was always resting his head on my belly.

    realityisworse | Reddit

    So why do dogs get overprotective when someone is pregnant?

    Jeff Werber, PhD, president and chief veterinarian of the Century Veterinary Group in Los Angeles, told Health.com that “dogs can also smell the hormonal changes going on in a woman’s body at that time.” He added the dog may “not understand that this new scent of your skin and breath is caused by a developing baby, but they will know that something is different with you—which might cause them to be more curious or attentive.”

    The big lesson here is to listen to your pets and to ask questions when their behavior abruptly changes. They may be trying to tell you something, and the news may be life-changing.

    This article originally appeared last year.

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    Why mass shootings spawn conspiracy theories

    Mass shootings and conspiracy theories have a long history.

    While conspiracy theories are not limited to any topic, there is one type of event that seems particularly likely to spark them: mass shootings, typically defined as attacks in which a shooter kills at least four other people.

    When one person kills many others in a single incident, particularly when it seems random, people naturally seek out answers for why the tragedy happened. After all, if a mass shooting is random, anyone can be a target.

    Pointing to some nefarious plan by a powerful group – such as the government – can be more comforting than the idea that the attack was the result of a disturbed or mentally ill individual who obtained a firearm legally.


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