The #GamerGate fiasco and the fallout from the Ben Affleck/Sam Harris Islam showdown on RealTime with Bill Maher starkly illustrate the closing of the white male mind, even within territory that once seemed inhospitable to such conservative, retrograde beliefs.


Gamers, with their passionate and early adoptions of new technologies, and atheists, with their rejection of religion and dogma, have somewhat progressive reputations. But both #GamerGate and the relentless demonization of Islam these past few weeks have been led by angry men feeling that cultural floodgates have been opened that justify attacks upon the “other” without any nuance, thoughtfulness, or compassion.

Most #GamerGate folks are quick to assert that they aren’t the ones making death threats against women and that the real issue is “integrity” in gaming journalism (a claim based on a thoroughly-debunked illusion of impropriety). What’s amazing here is not necessarily the active perpetuators of #GamerGate harassment, it’s the broader gaming community’s apparent disinterest in fighting those threats and ensuring they do not occur again.

Game developer Zoe Quinn’s boyfriend, who got #GamerGate going with this bizarre, embarrassing, and sad post about their breakup says he still would do it all again even with the death threats. Among those who support his line of thinking actively or tacitly, there’s no pause to reflect on the experience of women who have been terrorized online or curiosity about the female experience in the gaming industry. Just the same relentless and narrow expression of anger and self-righteousness that tends to surface when members of an oppressive group are put on blast for their behavior or beliefs.

The followers of Sam Harris (I use the word “follower” very intentionally) insist that he is speaking brave and unassailable truths about Islam that many of us know are true but are afraid to say out loud. They view their critics as lame, politically-correct types who don’t have the guts to cite a few ambiguous polls, grab a random sampling of Koran quotes and make sweeping, inaccurate, and nasty generalizations about 1.6 billion people and their faith. Like the #GamerGate folks, they have precious little interest in the lived experience let alone perspective of this massive population.

Harris’ followers act like they’re outsiders speaking truth to power, but very few of them realize how much public policy is rooted in their worldview. We do engage in mass surveillance of Muslims, we do attempt to escape hard foreign policy challenges with glib generalizations about the “Muslim world,” and a lot of bombs are still hitting Muslim targets.

#GamerGate vigilantes and Sam Harris disciples are not interested in the lived experiences of the women they attack online or the Muslims with whom they have never interacted. So if #GamerGate is the “new culture war,” the New Atheists anti-Islam crusade is a more Youtube-friendly version of the same hawkish fear-mongering that has been embedded in international foreign policy since long before September 11. In both cases, very angry, mostly white men are lashing out against the “others” du jour, who happen to largely be women and people of color. Apparently, adopting new technologies and embracing rationalism can’t keep a lot people from adopting some very old and irrational habits.

  • Man’s dog suddenly becomes protective of his wife, Internet clocks the reason right away
    Dogs have impressive observational powers.Photo credit: Canva

    Reddit user Girlfriendhatesmefor’s three-year-old pitbull, Otis, had recently become overprotective of his wife. So he asked the online community if they knew what might be wrong with the dog.

    “A week or two ago, my wife got some sort of stomach bug,” the Reddit user wrote under the subreddit /r/dogs. “She was really nauseous and ill for about a week. Otis is very in tune with her emotions (we once got in a fight and she was upset, I swear he was staring daggers at me lol) and during this time didn’t even want to leave her to go on walks. We thought it was adorable!”

    His wife soon felt better, butthe dog’s behavior didn’t change.

    pregnancy signs, dogs and pregnancy, pitbull behavior, pet intuition, dog overprotection, Reddit stories, viral Reddit, dog instincts, canine emotions, dog owner tips
    Otis knew before they did. Canva

    Girlfriendhatesmefor began to fear that Otis’ behavior may be an early sign of an aggression issue or an indication that the dog was hurt or sick.

    So he threw a question out to fellow Reddit users: “Has anyone else’s dog suddenly developed attachment/aggression issues? Any and all advice appreciated, even if it’s that we’re being paranoid!”

    The most popular response to his thread was by ZZBC.

    Any chance your wife is pregnant?

    ZZBC | Reddit

    The potential news hit Girlfriendhatesmefor like a ton of bricks. A few days later, Girlfriendhatesmefor posted an update and ZZBC was right!

    “The wifey is pregnant!” the father-to-be wrote. “Otis is still being overprotective but it all makes sense now! Thanks for all the advice and kind words! Sorry for the delayed reply, I didn’t check back until just now!”

    Redditors responded with similar experiences.

    Anecdotal I know but I swear my dog knew I was pregnant before I was. He was super clingy (more than normal) and was always resting his head on my belly.

    realityisworse | Reddit

    So why do dogs get overprotective when someone is pregnant?

    Jeff Werber, PhD, president and chief veterinarian of the Century Veterinary Group in Los Angeles, told Health.com that “dogs can also smell the hormonal changes going on in a woman’s body at that time.” He added the dog may “not understand that this new scent of your skin and breath is caused by a developing baby, but they will know that something is different with you—which might cause them to be more curious or attentive.”

    The big lesson here is to listen to your pets and to ask questions when their behavior abruptly changes. They may be trying to tell you something, and the news may be life-changing.

    This article originally appeared last year.

  • Throughout history, women have stood up and fought to break down barriers imposed on them from stereotypes and societal expectations. The trailblazers in these photos made history and redefined what a woman could be. In doing so, they paved the way for future generations to stand up and continue to fight for equality.

  • ,

    Why mass shootings spawn conspiracy theories

    Mass shootings and conspiracy theories have a long history.

    While conspiracy theories are not limited to any topic, there is one type of event that seems particularly likely to spark them: mass shootings, typically defined as attacks in which a shooter kills at least four other people.

    When one person kills many others in a single incident, particularly when it seems random, people naturally seek out answers for why the tragedy happened. After all, if a mass shooting is random, anyone can be a target.

    Pointing to some nefarious plan by a powerful group – such as the government – can be more comforting than the idea that the attack was the result of a disturbed or mentally ill individual who obtained a firearm legally.


Explore More Articles Stories

Articles

Man’s dog suddenly becomes protective of his wife, Internet clocks the reason right away

Articles

14 images of badass women who destroyed stereotypes and inspired future generations

Articles

Why mass shootings spawn conspiracy theories

Articles

11 hilarious posts describe the everyday struggles of being a woman