I remember the experience of applying for jobs after graduating from college. It was the summer of 2002 and I had just relocated from Minneapolis to Washington, D.C. I had earned a B.A. in International Relations and while I could wax poetic about Critical Constructivist Theory, none of my college classes taught me to write a clear and concise resume, the importance of networking, or prepared me for a conducting a job search. I relied on the advice and proofreading abilities of my parents and older sibling. Within three months of sending out resumes and leaving messages for employers, I was called in to interview for an entry-level position with an international non-profit organization. My father’s networking, on my behalf, paid-off: his colleague had a friend in a senior level position at the organization. I was hired (and was so relieved).


This article is not about the shortcomings of our educational system – although an important topic in itself. I am fully aware of how my upper/middle-class upbringing, educational opportunities, and guidance of family and friends opened many doors for me in my career. I don’t pretend for a minute that I would have had the same career trajectory, made sound decisions along the way, without a team of supporters rallying behind me.

In his article, Getting Youth Back on the College and Career Path, Cameron Schuster announced the creation (implementation?) of the Pathfinder Fellowship, a joint effort of GOOD/Corps and The California Endowment to help disadvantaged youth get on a college or career-ready path. Chrysalis, which was approached to participate, is a non-profit that provides low-income and homeless individuals with the support and resources needed to find and retain a job. We serve an older population (average age 42) that has many barriers to employment: low-income, low academic achievement, unstable housing, criminal history and substance abuse. While our involvement wasn’t obvious at first, it became clear that our program could also help young people by instilling in them the values, skills and healthy work habits to prepare them for a lifetime of career success.

Besides having proper identification, there is only one requirement to receiving Chrysalis’ services: being ready and willing to work. Our program is based on a self-directed job search model. As the saying goes, “If you give a man to fish, you feed him for a day…” By providing a hand up, not a hand out, individuals learn the importance of self-reliance and the satisfaction that comes with setting and achieving goals.

The Chrysalis’ Employment Program has a systematic approach to preparing people for employment. Some methods are simple: bus tokens to get to and from interviews, professional work attire, practice interviews and computers to conduct job searches. Some aren’t so simple: changing the way a person views themselves. We often speak about the necessity of having computer skills to land a job in today’s workplace. But what’s harder to quantify is perhaps the most valued service we offer: the opportunity to regain your dignity and self-respect.

As we near the end of the 12 week Pathfinder Fellowship program, Chrysalis will welcome the ten Fellows to our center on Main St. in downtown Los Angeles for an Employment “crash course” of sorts. The curriculum will include, what we call, “soft skills” – those oh-so-important qualities that employers look for in job candidates, such as: reliable, punctual, team-player, flexible, good communicator. Since few job searches are successful without a clear plan of action, we will also cover goal-planning and the basics of cover letters, resumes and thank you notes.

For people who don’t have the supportive network and guidance of parents and friends who are rallying on their sidelines, like I did, Chrysalis can fill that gap.

You can empower homeless and low-income adults give a hand up, not out by donating to our cause. $25 gives one hour of computer training, $50 gives two hours of practice interviews and $100 gives four hours of resume writing assistance. Contribute to The Power of an Hour campaign here.

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  • Man’s dog suddenly becomes protective of his wife, Internet clocks the reason right away
    Dogs have impressive observational powers.Photo credit: Canva

    Reddit user Girlfriendhatesmefor’s three-year-old pitbull, Otis, had recently become overprotective of his wife. So he asked the online community if they knew what might be wrong with the dog.

    “A week or two ago, my wife got some sort of stomach bug,” the Reddit user wrote under the subreddit /r/dogs. “She was really nauseous and ill for about a week. Otis is very in tune with her emotions (we once got in a fight and she was upset, I swear he was staring daggers at me lol) and during this time didn’t even want to leave her to go on walks. We thought it was adorable!”

    His wife soon felt better, butthe dog’s behavior didn’t change.

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    Otis knew before they did. Canva

    Girlfriendhatesmefor began to fear that Otis’ behavior may be an early sign of an aggression issue or an indication that the dog was hurt or sick.

    So he threw a question out to fellow Reddit users: “Has anyone else’s dog suddenly developed attachment/aggression issues? Any and all advice appreciated, even if it’s that we’re being paranoid!”

    The most popular response to his thread was by ZZBC.

    Any chance your wife is pregnant?

    ZZBC | Reddit

    The potential news hit Girlfriendhatesmefor like a ton of bricks. A few days later, Girlfriendhatesmefor posted an update and ZZBC was right!

    “The wifey is pregnant!” the father-to-be wrote. “Otis is still being overprotective but it all makes sense now! Thanks for all the advice and kind words! Sorry for the delayed reply, I didn’t check back until just now!”

    Redditors responded with similar experiences.

    Anecdotal I know but I swear my dog knew I was pregnant before I was. He was super clingy (more than normal) and was always resting his head on my belly.

    realityisworse | Reddit

    So why do dogs get overprotective when someone is pregnant?

    Jeff Werber, PhD, president and chief veterinarian of the Century Veterinary Group in Los Angeles, told Health.com that “dogs can also smell the hormonal changes going on in a woman’s body at that time.” He added the dog may “not understand that this new scent of your skin and breath is caused by a developing baby, but they will know that something is different with you—which might cause them to be more curious or attentive.”

    The big lesson here is to listen to your pets and to ask questions when their behavior abruptly changes. They may be trying to tell you something, and the news may be life-changing.

    This article originally appeared last year.

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    Why mass shootings spawn conspiracy theories

    Mass shootings and conspiracy theories have a long history.

    While conspiracy theories are not limited to any topic, there is one type of event that seems particularly likely to spark them: mass shootings, typically defined as attacks in which a shooter kills at least four other people.

    When one person kills many others in a single incident, particularly when it seems random, people naturally seek out answers for why the tragedy happened. After all, if a mass shooting is random, anyone can be a target.

    Pointing to some nefarious plan by a powerful group – such as the government – can be more comforting than the idea that the attack was the result of a disturbed or mentally ill individual who obtained a firearm legally.


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