As a game designer, I know how creative and inspiring it can be to play. But we can all benefit from being more playful—and the act of playing a game can be more about just having fun. Ready, set, play!
1. They make us more social.
Games bring us together. Think of how many people you’ve met while playing sports, board or video games. Yes, we often think of the stereotype of a gamer playing in their locked room but, as many of us know, playing games is an experience that is enjoyed best when you share it with others—online or offline. There is value in the social nature of games.
When playing together we share a common ground, what in games we call a “magic circle” that helps break the ice between people who might not know each other—and often marking the beginnings of a new friendship. The magic circle defines the invisible yet unbreakable boundaries set by the rules of a game. Within it we feel safe to be playful and share common experiences without being judged.
Imagine playing a simple game like the folk game Ninja. Before the game began, you were wondering around your usual business. But while playing, you are transformed in this fierce ninja, battling your opponents within the magic circle of the game. In the game, you don’t care who the person you are playing with is, but how well you play together.
2. They empower us to be creative.
Games trigger our creative juices—through solving problems, navigating complex systems, and managing resources. What games do is present us with hard problems; like solving a puzzle or defeating a boss. As players we need to be creative and come up with good ideas to solve those problems.
Games also empower us to change the rules. Whether it’s creating fan art for your favorite Final Fantasy heroes or building your very own Minecraft Empires, there is no reason why we shouldn’t look at games as open systems. With a variety of easy and free to access tools more and more players are becoming makers of games.
While we might think changing the rules is hard to do, think of kids-play and how you might have hacked your favorite toys or games when young. Growing up in Athens, Greece, I played with all the kids on the street, and some were older and some were younger. We played soccer and tag and we would change rules and tweak them so the younger kids could play and it would work for all. There’s always freedom to change the rules and turn a game you love into something new.
3. They help us develop empathy.
Consider the act of playing with others. You’re trying to guess your opponent’s strategy and think what are they going to do next. Or you think of your team and wonder, how can I support my co-player to beat this goal?
When playing games, by default you have to develop these sorts of skills such as understanding someone else’s’ point of view. There’s the great Plato quote: “You can discover more about a person in an hour of play than in a year of conversation.”
4. They make us act playful and silly.
There is a shared sense of humor when you play games that creates a safe environment for us to be silly. And when you think of our everyday endeavors and going through life as adults, we’re not really encouraged to be playful. But when we play games, we relax and become more receptive and less judgmental. They make us more playful in our way of being and experiencing life.
I particularly love games that take place in public spaces or offices for that reason since if you think about it in these worlds we’re encouraged to be kind of serious since there are social norms of how to behave. But playing a game creates a safety net for us to act out silly things without feeling afraid of being judged.
5. They force us to tinker.
There is something to be said about the action of tinkering within games. It’s all about trial and error. Any game you play—ever—you will probably suck at it in the beginning. And you will fail many times. But, strangely, even if you will fail, you probably won’t feel so bad about it.
So let’s say you are playing a super hard game and you’re really struggling and you’re like, I lost again! But then you say, now I know what I’m going to do next. And you try again. Whereas in real life you might fail and be depressed about it and not try again because you think, I’m not good at this. In games, you are in the state of flow and you still have confidence. It’s a strange but lovely thing.

Join the GOOD community in Organizing an Office Recess—and to create your own game. Click here to say you’ll DO it, and get tips on creating your own game from this toolkit, which is part of Mozilla’s Maker Party. Find out how you can be involved—to attend an event, make something online to share with the community, and/or create your own event and teach or learn with your peers.

Illustration by Jessica de Jesus.


  • Man’s dog suddenly becomes protective of his wife, Internet clocks the reason right away
    Dogs have impressive observational powers.Photo credit: Canva

    Reddit user Girlfriendhatesmefor’s three-year-old pitbull, Otis, had recently become overprotective of his wife. So he asked the online community if they knew what might be wrong with the dog.

    “A week or two ago, my wife got some sort of stomach bug,” the Reddit user wrote under the subreddit /r/dogs. “She was really nauseous and ill for about a week. Otis is very in tune with her emotions (we once got in a fight and she was upset, I swear he was staring daggers at me lol) and during this time didn’t even want to leave her to go on walks. We thought it was adorable!”

    His wife soon felt better, butthe dog’s behavior didn’t change.

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    Girlfriendhatesmefor began to fear that Otis’ behavior may be an early sign of an aggression issue or an indication that the dog was hurt or sick.

    So he threw a question out to fellow Reddit users: “Has anyone else’s dog suddenly developed attachment/aggression issues? Any and all advice appreciated, even if it’s that we’re being paranoid!”

    The most popular response to his thread was by ZZBC.

    Any chance your wife is pregnant?

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    The potential news hit Girlfriendhatesmefor like a ton of bricks. A few days later, Girlfriendhatesmefor posted an update and ZZBC was right!

    “The wifey is pregnant!” the father-to-be wrote. “Otis is still being overprotective but it all makes sense now! Thanks for all the advice and kind words! Sorry for the delayed reply, I didn’t check back until just now!”

    Redditors responded with similar experiences.

    Anecdotal I know but I swear my dog knew I was pregnant before I was. He was super clingy (more than normal) and was always resting his head on my belly.

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    So why do dogs get overprotective when someone is pregnant?

    Jeff Werber, PhD, president and chief veterinarian of the Century Veterinary Group in Los Angeles, told Health.com that “dogs can also smell the hormonal changes going on in a woman’s body at that time.” He added the dog may “not understand that this new scent of your skin and breath is caused by a developing baby, but they will know that something is different with you—which might cause them to be more curious or attentive.”

    The big lesson here is to listen to your pets and to ask questions when their behavior abruptly changes. They may be trying to tell you something, and the news may be life-changing.

    This article originally appeared last year.

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