When Jess Zimmerman reported for her annual gynecological exam last February, her doctor was interested in assessing more than just her vaginal health—he wanted to talk about her weight. “He asked what I ate, but he didn’t wait for an answer,” Zimmerman writes. “I had to exercise more, he said, having no idea how much I was exercising. I also needed to eat less [of] whatever it was I was eating.” When it came time for another checkup, her experience of being bullied by a doctor who “made incorrect guesses about my habits based on my body” made her think twice about making another appointment. “Something as mild as a pre-smear dressing-down can seriously wreck your trust in doctors for a while,” Zimmerman says.

In 2007, researchers from Yale University asked more than 2,000 men and women to report the weight-related stigma they’ve experienced in their everyday lives. Across a range of BMIs, women were more than twice as likely as men—10.3 percent to 4.9 percent—to report “daily or lifetime discrimination due to weight/height.” This discrimination comes from all sides—employers, teachers, family members, even doctors. And heightened health care discrimination against overweight women has been shown to deter them from seeking needed medical help.


“Our research shows that obese women who experience stigma because of their weight during a health care experience are more likely to avoid, cancel, and delay future medical services because of these experiences,” says Rebecca Puhl, director of research at Yale University’s Rudd Center for Food Policy & Obesity and a co-author of the study. That’s particularly troublesome in light of the fact that weight-based stigma can actually cause medical problems. Says Puhl, “we know from many studies that individuals who experience weight stigmatization are at increased risk of depression, anxiety, low self-esteem, suicidal thoughts, eating disorders, binge eating, higher calorie intake, and avoidance of physical activity.”

Across America, both male and female waistlines are expanding—today, one-third of adults in the United States are obese—and the shift has huge implications for the gendering of health care in this country. The ways some doctors are approaching this phenomenon says more about culture than it does science. Puhl says health care discrimination targeted at overweight women can be attributed to “stringent ideals of female physical attractiveness,” which expect women to keep their weight down irrespective of their actual health status. Meanwhile, overweight men are dealing with the “myth of men,” says bariatric surgeon Dr. Joseph Colella. Men subscribe to the “myth of being larger creatures,” Colella says. Doctors, too, can buy into that image. When men show up for a checkup carrying a few extra pounds, “they may be perceived to carry the weight better,” Colella says.

Stigma may deter overweight women from seeking health care generally, but it does increase their participation in one medical procedure: Colella says that 80 percent of all patients who undergo bariatric weight-loss surgery—which reduces the size of the stomach to restrict food intake—are women. Colella explains this by saying that women are more likely to be aware of weight-related medical problems. But the fact that far more women than men undergo surgery in an attempt to lose weight can not be wholly explained as a positive. In fact, this health care gender divide isn’t good for men or women. When women seek health care, they can be bullied out of making their next regular checkup—or compelled to staple their stomachs. When men visit the doctor, potentially problematic weight gain may simply be ignored.

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  • Man’s dog suddenly becomes protective of his wife, Internet clocks the reason right away
    Dogs have impressive observational powers.Photo credit: Canva

    Reddit user Girlfriendhatesmefor’s three-year-old pitbull, Otis, had recently become overprotective of his wife. So he asked the online community if they knew what might be wrong with the dog.

    “A week or two ago, my wife got some sort of stomach bug,” the Reddit user wrote under the subreddit /r/dogs. “She was really nauseous and ill for about a week. Otis is very in tune with her emotions (we once got in a fight and she was upset, I swear he was staring daggers at me lol) and during this time didn’t even want to leave her to go on walks. We thought it was adorable!”

    His wife soon felt better, butthe dog’s behavior didn’t change.

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    Otis knew before they did. Canva

    Girlfriendhatesmefor began to fear that Otis’ behavior may be an early sign of an aggression issue or an indication that the dog was hurt or sick.

    So he threw a question out to fellow Reddit users: “Has anyone else’s dog suddenly developed attachment/aggression issues? Any and all advice appreciated, even if it’s that we’re being paranoid!”

    The most popular response to his thread was by ZZBC.

    Any chance your wife is pregnant?

    ZZBC | Reddit

    The potential news hit Girlfriendhatesmefor like a ton of bricks. A few days later, Girlfriendhatesmefor posted an update and ZZBC was right!

    “The wifey is pregnant!” the father-to-be wrote. “Otis is still being overprotective but it all makes sense now! Thanks for all the advice and kind words! Sorry for the delayed reply, I didn’t check back until just now!”

    Redditors responded with similar experiences.

    Anecdotal I know but I swear my dog knew I was pregnant before I was. He was super clingy (more than normal) and was always resting his head on my belly.

    realityisworse | Reddit

    So why do dogs get overprotective when someone is pregnant?

    Jeff Werber, PhD, president and chief veterinarian of the Century Veterinary Group in Los Angeles, told Health.com that “dogs can also smell the hormonal changes going on in a woman’s body at that time.” He added the dog may “not understand that this new scent of your skin and breath is caused by a developing baby, but they will know that something is different with you—which might cause them to be more curious or attentive.”

    The big lesson here is to listen to your pets and to ask questions when their behavior abruptly changes. They may be trying to tell you something, and the news may be life-changing.

    This article originally appeared last year.

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    Why mass shootings spawn conspiracy theories

    Mass shootings and conspiracy theories have a long history.

    While conspiracy theories are not limited to any topic, there is one type of event that seems particularly likely to spark them: mass shootings, typically defined as attacks in which a shooter kills at least four other people.

    When one person kills many others in a single incident, particularly when it seems random, people naturally seek out answers for why the tragedy happened. After all, if a mass shooting is random, anyone can be a target.

    Pointing to some nefarious plan by a powerful group – such as the government – can be more comforting than the idea that the attack was the result of a disturbed or mentally ill individual who obtained a firearm legally.


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