Who knew that debt could massage your ego? A recent Ohio State study found that the more credit card and college loan debt 18 to 27-year-olds held, the higher their self-esteem and the more they felt they had control over their lives. The biggest boost in confidence benefited those in the bottom 25 percent in total family income.


Rachel Dwyer, the lead researcher on the study, says there should be a clear difference between feeling good about credit card debt and school debt. But apparently, there’s not. She explained:

We thought educational debt might be seen as a positive because it is an investment in their future, while credit card debt could be viewed more negatively…Surprisingly, though, we found that both kinds of debt had positive effects for young people.

Excuse me for being a Debbie downer, but this self-assurance worries me. A little well-strategized debt is fine, and I can understand not wanting to worry about debt when you’re an undergrad—your earning power almost doubles from high school to college graduation. But tons of credit card debt? This gain in confidence seems like a classic case of reveling in short-term material comfort before reality catches up. Sorta like retail therapy after a breakup. Or, I don’t know, the foreclosure crisis.

Not even the school debt explanation is airtight, though. I’m starting to hear weary comments from my over-30 friends that their Masters degrees in journalism or business or ethnomusicology are at best not worth the five-figure pricetag, at worst completely useless. With the oversaturation of students in grad school, that kind of debt is by no means a guaranteed investment.

Plus, a college education may falsely present a foolproof way out of poverty. Even though the poor and working class young people in the study enjoyed the biggest morale benefits from their debt, they’re going to have the most trouble paying it off. I remember reading Anya Kamenetz’s Generation Debt back in 2006—the year I graduated from college—and being scared shitless by the stories of poor kids with degrees, struggling to pay their $700 monthly loan payments.

Perhaps the most telling takeaway from the study is that people do start worrying about what they owe after the age of 28—when deferred loans kick in, babies start being born, and college futons are replaced with actual couches. As we adjust to the fact that our future is bleaker than our parents’, hopefully we’ll start to think twice about how much debt we choose to carry on our shoulders, or at least be able to assess how much we can handle.

photo (cc) by Flickr user Ghirigori Baumann

  • Man’s dog suddenly becomes protective of his wife, Internet clocks the reason right away
    Dogs have impressive observational powers.Photo credit: Canva

    Reddit user Girlfriendhatesmefor’s three-year-old pitbull, Otis, had recently become overprotective of his wife. So he asked the online community if they knew what might be wrong with the dog.

    “A week or two ago, my wife got some sort of stomach bug,” the Reddit user wrote under the subreddit /r/dogs. “She was really nauseous and ill for about a week. Otis is very in tune with her emotions (we once got in a fight and she was upset, I swear he was staring daggers at me lol) and during this time didn’t even want to leave her to go on walks. We thought it was adorable!”

    His wife soon felt better, butthe dog’s behavior didn’t change.

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    Otis knew before they did. Canva

    Girlfriendhatesmefor began to fear that Otis’ behavior may be an early sign of an aggression issue or an indication that the dog was hurt or sick.

    So he threw a question out to fellow Reddit users: “Has anyone else’s dog suddenly developed attachment/aggression issues? Any and all advice appreciated, even if it’s that we’re being paranoid!”

    The most popular response to his thread was by ZZBC.

    Any chance your wife is pregnant?

    ZZBC | Reddit

    The potential news hit Girlfriendhatesmefor like a ton of bricks. A few days later, Girlfriendhatesmefor posted an update and ZZBC was right!

    “The wifey is pregnant!” the father-to-be wrote. “Otis is still being overprotective but it all makes sense now! Thanks for all the advice and kind words! Sorry for the delayed reply, I didn’t check back until just now!”

    Redditors responded with similar experiences.

    Anecdotal I know but I swear my dog knew I was pregnant before I was. He was super clingy (more than normal) and was always resting his head on my belly.

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    So why do dogs get overprotective when someone is pregnant?

    Jeff Werber, PhD, president and chief veterinarian of the Century Veterinary Group in Los Angeles, told Health.com that “dogs can also smell the hormonal changes going on in a woman’s body at that time.” He added the dog may “not understand that this new scent of your skin and breath is caused by a developing baby, but they will know that something is different with you—which might cause them to be more curious or attentive.”

    The big lesson here is to listen to your pets and to ask questions when their behavior abruptly changes. They may be trying to tell you something, and the news may be life-changing.

    This article originally appeared last year.

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    Why mass shootings spawn conspiracy theories

    Mass shootings and conspiracy theories have a long history.

    While conspiracy theories are not limited to any topic, there is one type of event that seems particularly likely to spark them: mass shootings, typically defined as attacks in which a shooter kills at least four other people.

    When one person kills many others in a single incident, particularly when it seems random, people naturally seek out answers for why the tragedy happened. After all, if a mass shooting is random, anyone can be a target.

    Pointing to some nefarious plan by a powerful group – such as the government – can be more comforting than the idea that the attack was the result of a disturbed or mentally ill individual who obtained a firearm legally.


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