When you’re just starting your business, there are a lot of benefits to being small. You’re nimble, fluid, you can adapt quickly to new situations. But for every advantage, there’s a challenge. It’s hard to stand out, hard to land important meetings, hard to get people to deliver things when you need them. It’s even hard to negotiate pricing with vendors because you can’t offer them any true sort of scale: If you own a small cafe, you’re probably not paying the same price for your vegetables as is TGIFriday’s (assuming, of course, that TGIFriday’s actually serves vegetables).One of the tricks I’ve used to help overcome the burdens of being the little guy, is being SMART. Yes, business-strategy acronyms can be corny, but this is a truly useful one you can use for project management, in meetings, when sending out proposals, with goal-setting-pretty much whenever. It conditions you to be deliberate, to maximize your opportunities, and to get things done. It’s also one of the only dorky business school acronyms I’ve ever found useful.S – SpecificThis is the easiest of the bunch. Chances are, if you’re motivated enough to start a company, you’re pretty good at asking for what you want. That said, the importance of being specific can’t be overstated. What is it you want, by when, for what purpose, and from whom?M – MeasurableEver asked someone to “look into” something for you? Yeah. That can be pretty vague, and could mean anything from a thorough investigation to two minutes of googling. Regardless of what side of the request you’re on, make sure it gets fulfilled with something concrete. Promise to deliver an email of relevant links. Ask for a one-page summary of everything you need to know. Setting up deliverables enables both parties to establish trust and goes a long way towards establishing who works with whom later on, because people do business with people they like to do business with.A – AssignableIt’s as simple as it sounds: Who’s needs to do what? Any call or meeting should end with every person involved knowing exactly what they’re responsible for. Send a meeting recap, go around the room if you have to. Just make sure you’ve got a method in place to ensure everyone understands their role. R – Reasonable/RealisticA small business that can’t deliver on expectations is a small business on its way out. Can you get them that presentation by the end of the day? If not, don’t agree to it. You’ll end up sending something sub-par. This is also important when setting goals. Can you really improve your website’s traffic by a factor of 10 this year? Maybe, but you should know the likelihood of it going in. Now, realistic doesn’t mean simple. You obviously need to push yourself, but making sure you’re operating within the realm of feasibility will allow you to plan more accurately.T – Time-boundThis is, far and away, the most important piece of the puzzle. Unsurprisingly, it’s the one that most of us are bad at. Usually, we try to be polite: “Could you get that back to me when you get a chance?” There’s a theorem that posits the amount of time a task will take to complete is equal to the amount of time allotted for that task. Knowing this, it’s not a huge shock that “when you get a chance” often ends up meaning “never.”If you’re asking for something or promising to deliver something, always attach a time to it. “I’ll get that to you by the end of the day.” “Could you have that to me by Thursday at noon?” It’s not about being demanding; it’s about being precise. It’s about holding yourself and others accountable. And it’s the key to getting things done.The Takeaway: The SMART system is an easy way to facilitate productivity that can be applied to almost any situation. See, look: Thanks for reading this post. There’s a bunch more on the way, which I’d like it if you read as well [specific request]. If you find them helpful, don’t hesitate to GOODMark them or leave a comment [measurable]. I’m going to write them and send them to my editor, who’s going to make them sound like English. Then, they’ll be here for you to read [assignable]. The next one will be up in two weeks [time-bound]. That all sounds reasonable, right?

  • Man’s dog suddenly becomes protective of his wife, Internet clocks the reason right away
    Dogs have impressive observational powers.Photo credit: Canva

    Reddit user Girlfriendhatesmefor’s three-year-old pitbull, Otis, had recently become overprotective of his wife. So he asked the online community if they knew what might be wrong with the dog.

    “A week or two ago, my wife got some sort of stomach bug,” the Reddit user wrote under the subreddit /r/dogs. “She was really nauseous and ill for about a week. Otis is very in tune with her emotions (we once got in a fight and she was upset, I swear he was staring daggers at me lol) and during this time didn’t even want to leave her to go on walks. We thought it was adorable!”

    His wife soon felt better, butthe dog’s behavior didn’t change.

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    Otis knew before they did. Canva

    Girlfriendhatesmefor began to fear that Otis’ behavior may be an early sign of an aggression issue or an indication that the dog was hurt or sick.

    So he threw a question out to fellow Reddit users: “Has anyone else’s dog suddenly developed attachment/aggression issues? Any and all advice appreciated, even if it’s that we’re being paranoid!”

    The most popular response to his thread was by ZZBC.

    Any chance your wife is pregnant?

    ZZBC | Reddit

    The potential news hit Girlfriendhatesmefor like a ton of bricks. A few days later, Girlfriendhatesmefor posted an update and ZZBC was right!

    “The wifey is pregnant!” the father-to-be wrote. “Otis is still being overprotective but it all makes sense now! Thanks for all the advice and kind words! Sorry for the delayed reply, I didn’t check back until just now!”

    Redditors responded with similar experiences.

    Anecdotal I know but I swear my dog knew I was pregnant before I was. He was super clingy (more than normal) and was always resting his head on my belly.

    realityisworse | Reddit

    So why do dogs get overprotective when someone is pregnant?

    Jeff Werber, PhD, president and chief veterinarian of the Century Veterinary Group in Los Angeles, told Health.com that “dogs can also smell the hormonal changes going on in a woman’s body at that time.” He added the dog may “not understand that this new scent of your skin and breath is caused by a developing baby, but they will know that something is different with you—which might cause them to be more curious or attentive.”

    The big lesson here is to listen to your pets and to ask questions when their behavior abruptly changes. They may be trying to tell you something, and the news may be life-changing.

    This article originally appeared last year.

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    Why mass shootings spawn conspiracy theories

    Mass shootings and conspiracy theories have a long history.

    While conspiracy theories are not limited to any topic, there is one type of event that seems particularly likely to spark them: mass shootings, typically defined as attacks in which a shooter kills at least four other people.

    When one person kills many others in a single incident, particularly when it seems random, people naturally seek out answers for why the tragedy happened. After all, if a mass shooting is random, anyone can be a target.

    Pointing to some nefarious plan by a powerful group – such as the government – can be more comforting than the idea that the attack was the result of a disturbed or mentally ill individual who obtained a firearm legally.


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