For the second week in a row, Lena Dunham’s Lenny Letter has us talking, and this time the center of our attention is (as it should be all the time for people who Know) Lupita Nyong’o, and she’s writing about why she chose to take her career to Broadway.


Nyong’o has apparently been asked, “Why would such a big star choose to do such a small play?” while doing press for the play Eclipsed, a show about the captive wives of a rebel officer during the Liberian Civil War. Never mind the fact that asking an actor why they took to the theater instead of the screen is mostly a dumb question—since, as we remember it, Thespis first set foot on a stage and not a Steven Spielberg movie set all those millennia ago—anyone reading the description of Eclipsed shouldn’t have to ask why a woman, and especially a woman of color, would want to take a “small” role in a play over a “big” role in Hollywood. And even though she doesn’t say it outright, Nyong’o’s essay is just one more example of how far behind film is in the modern entertainment landscape.

The actress writes beautifully about pushing back against what was expected of her as an Academy Award winner by pursuing a lower visibility project of greater personal importance, and the challenge of finding roles for women that aren’t merely exercises in tropes. “I think as women, as women of color, as black women, too often we hear about what we ‘need to do,’” writes Nyong’o. “The chance to appear in Eclipsed after winning an Oscar was an opportunity to share in the incredible (and too rare) freedom of playing a fully rendered African woman. The playwright, Danai Gurira, has conceived a drama where the only people onstage are women.”

[quote position=”full” is_quote=”true”]So often women of color are relegated to playing simple tropes: the sidekick, the best friend, the noble savage, or the clown. A simple and symbolic peripheral character who doesn’t have her own journey or emotional landscape.[/quote]

And while Nyong’o does not say outright that roles as rich as hers in Eclipsed are not available to her in Hollywood, the implication of her entire essay is just that. The ill-fated Nina Simone biopic Nina has endured waves of justifiable criticism in the past few months for essentially putting its star, Zoe Saldana, in blackface to play the musical legend. There was a whole lot wrong with that decision (and with the rest of that production, it seems), but Saldana herself can hardly be faulted for seizing the opportunity to play a character so nuanced and historically significant as Simone.

Maybe she got tired of playing the sexy warrior alien. Or the sexy military officer of the future. Or the sexy assassin. Maybe Zoe Saldana got tired of being a trope and saw a different path, and as a woman of color in Hollywood it’s not like you can tell her with a ton of genuine hope to wait it out for a better role. As Nyong’s says in her essay, “As an African woman, I am wary of the trap of telling a single story,” adding that, “So often women of color are relegated to playing simple tropes: the sidekick, the best friend, the noble savage, or the clown. We are confined to being a simple and symbolic peripheral character—one who doesn’t have her own journey or emotional landscape.”

So to find a better role, a role that let her explore the humanity and reality of being a woman of color that is also being creatively helmed by women, she turned down other projects to pursue a “small” part in the theater. And it’s pretty clear that TV content creators are getting the memo about more diverse programming, too. When you watch the annual awards season run it’s almost uncomfortable to see how the big screen has been lapped by the small one. The #OscarsSoWhite spectacle looked even more ridiculous alongside the Screen Actors Guild and Golden Globe Awards where the winners and nominees in the TV categories provided a much richer tapestry on the race and gender spectrums than almost any of the motion picture fair.

While he was presenting at the SAG Awards, actor Idris Elba even welcomed viewers at home to “diverse TV” as the crowd of actors gave a sort of “Oh no he didn’t!” half cheer half groan. Elba would take home two trophies that night for his roles in the series Luther and the Netflix movie Beasts of No Nation. The latter didn’t even net him an Oscar nod, despite the fact that his peers bestowed him with the honor of best supporting actor in a film.

For her part, Nyong’o has of course not left film behind, and says in her Lenny essay that she’s working on few projects as of this writing. But she also notes that she’s taken an active role in making future parts more suitable for her. “Partly because of the conversation the industry has been having about women and racial and cultural representation, I have recently decided to participate more fully in the development of roles I choose in the future.”

That’s great news. Performers should feel empowered to help shape the roles they are expected to inhabit, and it’s especially great to think of women having a real, meaningful say in how their characters are brought to life. But how many more testimonials will we have to read or migrations from film to TV—and to theater—will we see by incredibly talented performers looking for better, more nuanced material?

There is more serialized programming available than ever before. People are consuming TV shows like their lives depend on it, and you can even watch hundreds of hours of shows featuring female leads. Meanwhile, Broadway is experiencing a remarkable wave of interest thanks to the Pulitzer Prize-winning, 16 Tony nomination earning spectacle Hamilton, which was written by and stars Puerto Rican performer Lin-Manuel Miranda. Even the historically male-dominated restaurant industry rained down prizes on female chefs at the James Beard Awards!

And now, Lupita Nyong’o has written a lovely essay about turning down glitzier film projects to take a meaningful, nuanced role for a woman of color on Broadway. It’s just too bad she has to.

  • Man’s dog suddenly becomes protective of his wife, Internet clocks the reason right away
    Dogs have impressive observational powers.Photo credit: Canva

    Reddit user Girlfriendhatesmefor’s three-year-old pitbull, Otis, had recently become overprotective of his wife. So he asked the online community if they knew what might be wrong with the dog.

    “A week or two ago, my wife got some sort of stomach bug,” the Reddit user wrote under the subreddit /r/dogs. “She was really nauseous and ill for about a week. Otis is very in tune with her emotions (we once got in a fight and she was upset, I swear he was staring daggers at me lol) and during this time didn’t even want to leave her to go on walks. We thought it was adorable!”

    His wife soon felt better, butthe dog’s behavior didn’t change.

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    Otis knew before they did. Canva

    Girlfriendhatesmefor began to fear that Otis’ behavior may be an early sign of an aggression issue or an indication that the dog was hurt or sick.

    So he threw a question out to fellow Reddit users: “Has anyone else’s dog suddenly developed attachment/aggression issues? Any and all advice appreciated, even if it’s that we’re being paranoid!”

    The most popular response to his thread was by ZZBC.

    Any chance your wife is pregnant?

    ZZBC | Reddit

    The potential news hit Girlfriendhatesmefor like a ton of bricks. A few days later, Girlfriendhatesmefor posted an update and ZZBC was right!

    “The wifey is pregnant!” the father-to-be wrote. “Otis is still being overprotective but it all makes sense now! Thanks for all the advice and kind words! Sorry for the delayed reply, I didn’t check back until just now!”

    Redditors responded with similar experiences.

    Anecdotal I know but I swear my dog knew I was pregnant before I was. He was super clingy (more than normal) and was always resting his head on my belly.

    realityisworse | Reddit

    So why do dogs get overprotective when someone is pregnant?

    Jeff Werber, PhD, president and chief veterinarian of the Century Veterinary Group in Los Angeles, told Health.com that “dogs can also smell the hormonal changes going on in a woman’s body at that time.” He added the dog may “not understand that this new scent of your skin and breath is caused by a developing baby, but they will know that something is different with you—which might cause them to be more curious or attentive.”

    The big lesson here is to listen to your pets and to ask questions when their behavior abruptly changes. They may be trying to tell you something, and the news may be life-changing.

    This article originally appeared last year.

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    Why mass shootings spawn conspiracy theories

    Mass shootings and conspiracy theories have a long history.

    While conspiracy theories are not limited to any topic, there is one type of event that seems particularly likely to spark them: mass shootings, typically defined as attacks in which a shooter kills at least four other people.

    When one person kills many others in a single incident, particularly when it seems random, people naturally seek out answers for why the tragedy happened. After all, if a mass shooting is random, anyone can be a target.

    Pointing to some nefarious plan by a powerful group – such as the government – can be more comforting than the idea that the attack was the result of a disturbed or mentally ill individual who obtained a firearm legally.


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