“If you don’t like something, change it” – The Holstee Manifesto

Last year, as we prepared for our first true holiday season, a friend asked what our ‘Black Friday strategy’ would be. It didn’t take long to realize this day is very far from the spirit of Holstee because it encourages people to go on autopilot, rather than ask questions and live an examined life. So we decided to balance it with a positive, collective response now called Block Friday.

Instead of focusing on what not to do, Block Friday was created as a reminder to make intentional actions on this day—whether it’s making time for a potluck with friends, pick-up football with family, or supporting small businesses—whatever it is, it’s an intentional decision. To do this, we’re asking as many people as possible one simple question, “What are you Blocking Friday for this holiday season?” There’s no wrong answer to this question.

We’re inviting all people, companies, and organizations to share what they are Blocking Friday, November 23, off for in the form of quick video declarations. We already have hundreds of people sharing their intentions for the day and growing, with early support from folks like Seth Godin, Sandbox Network, Maria Popova of Brainpickings, and the Center for Social Innovation.

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We are regularly adding all videos tagged #blockfriday to the playlist. We’re excited to work with more like-minded people and organizations to spread the word about spending the holiday mindfully and to continue to share commitments from individuals from all walks of life.

This is Block Friday’s first official year but we think there could be good reason for it to make an annual appearance.

So, we formally ask you: This holiday season, what are you Blocking Friday for?

About Holstee
Founded in 2009, Holstee exists to encourage a more mindful lifestyle through the goods they design and the messages they share with the world.

Embeddable Block Friday playlist available here, Hashtag: #blockfriday

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    Dogs have impressive observational powers.Photo credit: Canva

    Reddit user Girlfriendhatesmefor’s three-year-old pitbull, Otis, had recently become overprotective of his wife. So he asked the online community if they knew what might be wrong with the dog.

    “A week or two ago, my wife got some sort of stomach bug,” the Reddit user wrote under the subreddit /r/dogs. “She was really nauseous and ill for about a week. Otis is very in tune with her emotions (we once got in a fight and she was upset, I swear he was staring daggers at me lol) and during this time didn’t even want to leave her to go on walks. We thought it was adorable!”

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    Girlfriendhatesmefor began to fear that Otis’ behavior may be an early sign of an aggression issue or an indication that the dog was hurt or sick.

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    The most popular response to his thread was by ZZBC.

    Any chance your wife is pregnant?

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    The potential news hit Girlfriendhatesmefor like a ton of bricks. A few days later, Girlfriendhatesmefor posted an update and ZZBC was right!

    “The wifey is pregnant!” the father-to-be wrote. “Otis is still being overprotective but it all makes sense now! Thanks for all the advice and kind words! Sorry for the delayed reply, I didn’t check back until just now!”

    Redditors responded with similar experiences.

    Anecdotal I know but I swear my dog knew I was pregnant before I was. He was super clingy (more than normal) and was always resting his head on my belly.

    realityisworse | Reddit

    So why do dogs get overprotective when someone is pregnant?

    Jeff Werber, PhD, president and chief veterinarian of the Century Veterinary Group in Los Angeles, told Health.com that “dogs can also smell the hormonal changes going on in a woman’s body at that time.” He added the dog may “not understand that this new scent of your skin and breath is caused by a developing baby, but they will know that something is different with you—which might cause them to be more curious or attentive.”

    The big lesson here is to listen to your pets and to ask questions when their behavior abruptly changes. They may be trying to tell you something, and the news may be life-changing.

    This article originally appeared last year.

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