Every year, I experience a sense of frustration ahead of the barrage of ads (Coca-Cola, Nike, AT&T, or Wal-Mart, as the case may be) that use black actors and are exclusively targeted towards Black History Month. Yes, these corporate titans care very much about the black experience, past, present, and future—these good-natured advertisements are our proof. But don’t check for that cute little girl in afro puffs asking her Idris Elba-doppelganger daddy why the all-new-for-2015 Chevy Impala is like Harriet Tubman (I-95 being the Underground Railroad, naturally) come April. By then it’ll be back to business as usual, and most of the faces on the flat screen will once again be white.

[youtube ratio=”0.5625″ position=”standard” ]


History is curated by those who would have the most to lose in the face of its harshest truths. And the oppressed and marginalized do not have much hope in accessing these truths, about themselves and about their oppressors, without a concerted desire for knowledge. Even during this month of February, quarantined as our sole annual celebration of black American greatness, the ever-present system of white supremacy dictates whom we’re to focus on and how. The sanitized histories of Martin Luther King Jr., Harriet Tubman, and Frederick Douglass are regurgitated annually, be it via adspeak or in lesson plans, made palatable for white consumption.

The message that these were great men and women is ratcheted up to 11 every February. This is, on its face, a good thing. But these tailored narratives are often devoid of a vital bit of context: That the respective struggles of these individuals were borne of a system that maimed and killed their brothers and sisters, physically and spiritually, actively nullifying their humanity. This tweaking of “black” history for the sake of maintaining the very advantages gained by the white majority over centuries of oppression and subjugation says, yes, Frederick Douglass was a former slave, but we needn’t spend too much time on slavery because that was ages ago. Sure, MLK was beaten and jailed, but he really was “one of the good ones.” Yet, his goodness (acknowledged by white America more readily in death than while he was alive and “agitating”) did not save him from an untimely death. Along with select leaders of struggles of the past, entertainers and athletes are pushed forward as proof of the undeniable upward trajectory of superficial black progress, and thus white progress, cuz see, we now let y’all amass fame and millions, whereas, in the words of Michael Richards, “Fifty years ago we’d have you upside-down with a fucking fork up your ass!” (insert Seinfeld bass line).

To this day, I am grateful to have had parents who believed that my education extended beyond the classrooms of the private schools they worked so hard to put me through; my mother and father often amended the lessons I’d learned with bits and pieces of the inconvenient truths pertaining to the formation of this country. Sadly, at the time I just couldn’t count on my teachers—all white and sometimes wary of teaching “black” history to the only black child in the class—for such insight.

In my early years of school, I got the distinct impression that black history was not my nation’s history, that black contributions and experience were marginal at best. In a European Civilization class, a teacher awkwardly had us do some role-playing, with me as the slave and a white classmate as my master. The teacher’s solution was to then, even more awkwardly, declare me the master and my classmate the slave, which only made things more embarrassing for all in the room. I had to sing “Dixie” in an elementary school play about the Civil War, having no idea of the context of the song I was belting out. I know far too much about European Neoclassicism and Baroque and Rococo, but far less than I’d like to admit about the masters of Africa and its diaspora. Knowledge of these women and men had to come from electives, sought out at my discretion in college classes. Learning about the Kingdom of Kush and the Mali Empire, Toussaint L’Ouverture, Nat Turner’s uprising, or the Civil War’s Buffalo Soldiers and WWII’s Tuskegee Airmen were endeavors I would have to embark upon on my own.

Folded into my frustration at what Black History Month has come to mean is the ignorance of those who cannot accept the notion of honoring blacks at all, February standing as an unforgivable affront to their whiteness. “Why isn’t there a White History Month?” someone will invariably ponder out loud. While the sentiment surrounding this month seems to be mainly one of reverence and cordiality (Black History Month feels like if you were bullied by some kid in school everyday, but on your birthday, he agreed to leave you alone, ya know, because it’s your birthday), this crowd rears its ugly head every year. These are usually the same types asking why there aren’t scholarships for white people, or why an NAAWP would be racist.

One is left to wonder, what exactly would be celebrated during this White History Month that hasn’t already been thoroughly covered for generations? So much of my education was specifically pointed at European, and then American, triumphs in the arts, warfare (but not genocide, oh heavens no), and science that my young mind began to believe my ancestors to be the losers in history by default. After being educated on the various touchstones of slavery and the civil rights movement, yet before the enlightenment that came with learning of the advanced empires of Africa and the strides made in many fields by her sons and daughters, I believed the toxic fallacy that Europe was the pinnacle of civilization, that ancient Egypt was such an outlier it wasn’t even really African. The #BlackHistoryIsAmericanHistory and #BlackHistoryYouDidntLearnInSchool tags (which point to black leaders and achievers throughout history that textbooks and 30-second ad spots may have missed) that have already cropped up on social media are vital, and reinforce the importance of taking pride in learning about one’s past. This pride, black pride, does not, however, have to come at the expense of non-black dignity.

If anything, Black History Month has become an extension of white supremacy in the subtlest of ways, with the system dictating the terms and conditions of how we’re to honor our forebears, whose deeds and experiences have been sanitized beyond recognition in some respects, and often sloppily co-opted. We’d be better served without the month, to be frank, as separating so-called “black” history from American history, European history, human history is the sort of slick pat-you-on-the-head-while-kicking-you-in-the-ass trickery that seems all too familiar to Black America in our “post-racial” society. In fact, it would be nice if as much energy was put into educating our youth, of all colors, of the deeds, good, bad and all in between, of the men and women of all shades who made the world what it is.

“Well you have Obama, so black people have made real strides,” the “Will someone please think of the white people?!” crowd will mention as proof that our racist history is now a closed chapter, deserving of no more reflection than the shortest month of the year can offer. But the sometimes subtle no-the-fuck-they-didn’t racism we’ve seen in everyone from elected officials to the peanut gallery (shout out to that “Somewhere in Kenya, a village is missing its idiot” bumper sticker) is actually proof that President Obama’s election upset the status quo in such a way as to reveal the deep roots of racial prejudice in this country.

  • Man’s dog suddenly becomes protective of his wife, Internet clocks the reason right away
    Dogs have impressive observational powers.Photo credit: Canva

    Reddit user Girlfriendhatesmefor’s three-year-old pitbull, Otis, had recently become overprotective of his wife. So he asked the online community if they knew what might be wrong with the dog.

    “A week or two ago, my wife got some sort of stomach bug,” the Reddit user wrote under the subreddit /r/dogs. “She was really nauseous and ill for about a week. Otis is very in tune with her emotions (we once got in a fight and she was upset, I swear he was staring daggers at me lol) and during this time didn’t even want to leave her to go on walks. We thought it was adorable!”

    His wife soon felt better, butthe dog’s behavior didn’t change.

    pregnancy signs, dogs and pregnancy, pitbull behavior, pet intuition, dog overprotection, Reddit stories, viral Reddit, dog instincts, canine emotions, dog owner tips
    Otis knew before they did. Canva

    Girlfriendhatesmefor began to fear that Otis’ behavior may be an early sign of an aggression issue or an indication that the dog was hurt or sick.

    So he threw a question out to fellow Reddit users: “Has anyone else’s dog suddenly developed attachment/aggression issues? Any and all advice appreciated, even if it’s that we’re being paranoid!”

    The most popular response to his thread was by ZZBC.

    Any chance your wife is pregnant?

    ZZBC | Reddit

    The potential news hit Girlfriendhatesmefor like a ton of bricks. A few days later, Girlfriendhatesmefor posted an update and ZZBC was right!

    “The wifey is pregnant!” the father-to-be wrote. “Otis is still being overprotective but it all makes sense now! Thanks for all the advice and kind words! Sorry for the delayed reply, I didn’t check back until just now!”

    Redditors responded with similar experiences.

    Anecdotal I know but I swear my dog knew I was pregnant before I was. He was super clingy (more than normal) and was always resting his head on my belly.

    realityisworse | Reddit

    So why do dogs get overprotective when someone is pregnant?

    Jeff Werber, PhD, president and chief veterinarian of the Century Veterinary Group in Los Angeles, told Health.com that “dogs can also smell the hormonal changes going on in a woman’s body at that time.” He added the dog may “not understand that this new scent of your skin and breath is caused by a developing baby, but they will know that something is different with you—which might cause them to be more curious or attentive.”

    The big lesson here is to listen to your pets and to ask questions when their behavior abruptly changes. They may be trying to tell you something, and the news may be life-changing.

    This article originally appeared last year.

  • Throughout history, women have stood up and fought to break down barriers imposed on them from stereotypes and societal expectations. The trailblazers in these photos made history and redefined what a woman could be. In doing so, they paved the way for future generations to stand up and continue to fight for equality.

  • ,

    Why mass shootings spawn conspiracy theories

    Mass shootings and conspiracy theories have a long history.

    While conspiracy theories are not limited to any topic, there is one type of event that seems particularly likely to spark them: mass shootings, typically defined as attacks in which a shooter kills at least four other people.

    When one person kills many others in a single incident, particularly when it seems random, people naturally seek out answers for why the tragedy happened. After all, if a mass shooting is random, anyone can be a target.

    Pointing to some nefarious plan by a powerful group – such as the government – can be more comforting than the idea that the attack was the result of a disturbed or mentally ill individual who obtained a firearm legally.


Explore More Articles Stories

Articles

Man’s dog suddenly becomes protective of his wife, Internet clocks the reason right away

Articles

14 images of badass women who destroyed stereotypes and inspired future generations

Articles

Why mass shootings spawn conspiracy theories

Articles

11 hilarious posts describe the everyday struggles of being a woman