In the week after the Oscars, I remained fairly silent on the issue of the disparaging jokes host Chris Rock made against Asians and Asian-Americans. I didn’t have the energy to direct attention toward yet another example of the ridicule Asian-Americans receive in the media because dwelling on such negativity often leaves me more exhausted and disillusioned than angry. Besides, other people had already taken to Twitter and other media outlets to express their discontent, and pretty much everything that I had to say had already been said.


But after hearing an interview on Public Radio International with Laura Kung, the mother of the 8-year-old girl hired to act as a prop for Rock’s tasteless, cruel joke about Asian-Americans, I realized there was one crucial, missing part of the conversation surrounding the poor choice at the Oscars. Kung revealed that she had no idea what her daughter Estie Kung’s appearance would entail until the rehearsal, after they had already signed a binding contract, which illuminates a flaw in the casting process.

In the joke, Rock brought out three Asian-American children, introducing them as “Ming Zhu, Bao Ling, and David Moskowitz” of PricewaterhouseCoopers, the accounting firm that counts the Oscar votes. The bit was supposed to be a reprise of a joke Rock had made when he first hosted the Academy Awards in 2005, but in a ceremony that so pointedly criticized Hollywood for its failure to represent racial diversity, the already bad joke came across as especially awful because of its reinforcement of stereotypes that Asians are good at math and, even worse, condone child labor.

“I did wonder, ‘Why all Asians?’” Kung said of the casting call. “But I assumed there was a bigger picture, a more complex joke given all the emphasis placed on diversity at the Oscars this year.”

After hearing the entirety of the joke for the first time, Estie’s parents were not happy but remained optimistic, hoping it would at least incite dialogue about the treatment of Asian-Americans in the performing arts.

“This was not ok and should never have happened,” Kung said. “But the angrier people are and more people talk about it, the better it will be moving forward.”

And it did spark an uproar—almost every media outlet published a criticism of the joke, and notable public figures, including actress Constance Wu and basketball player Jeremy Lin, took to Twitter to express their rage.

But beyond the obvious insensitivity and hypocrisy of the joke, the exploitation of Estie and the two boys revealed a complex and troubling power struggle among racial minorities in the United States.

Most of the discussion around race in America in recent years has been focused around the black-white binary. Which is fair, I should add, considering the history of slavery and the disproportionate impact that racism has on black Americans, from police brutality to imprisonment to limited access to higher education. But that makes the status of Asians in the United States a difficult one to grasp. On one hand, we enjoy a fairly privileged status as a minority group, mostly thanks to the stereotype of being a “model minority”: hardworking, upwardly mobile, close to imitating whiteness. On the other, Asians still face exclusion, prejudice, and discrimination at the hands of power structures that privilege whiteness above other ethnicities.

Unfortunately, this results in anti-black sentiment in Asian communities, especially immigrant communities, and vice versa. The recent conviction of Peter Liang, the former NYPD officer charged with killing an unarmed black man and the first officer to be sentenced for a line-of-duty shooting in more than a decade, is a prime example of this—many Asian-Americans protested the ruling, brushing aside the fact that he was guilty of murdering an innocent black man and calling him a scapegoat used to appease public outrage over police brutality. Another historic example is the 1992 Rodney King riots, which represented an eruption of race and class struggles between Asian and black communities in Los Angeles.

What Rock’s joke at the Oscars effectively showed millions of people is one of the most insidious and deeply entrenched legacies of racism: minority groups being pitted against each other. It’s an easy, shortsighted fix that elevates one minority group at the expense of others, distracting them from focusing on how to upend racist systems as a whole. Most people don’t realize how these dynamics arise when they engage in this sort of infighting, but unfortunately, Rock knew what he was doing and, worse, didn’t apologize for it.

There is no easy solution, no easy formula to follow to interrogate our own biases and prejudices so that we don’t perpetuate the very racism we seek liberation from. But there are ways to ensure a more accountable society, and one of those is transparency, and the dialogue that arises from it. Not to dabble in hypotheticals, but the Oscars joke may have been avoided or at least written better if Rock had been more up-front about the content during the audition process. Almost everything can benefit from greater transparency, from individuals owning up to their own internal prejudices to organizations opening up their hiring or casting processes. When people become more transparent, they open themselves to conversation and growth in a way that is both responsible and respectful. Rock’s Oscars joke may have sparked a dialogue about perceptions of Asian-Americans, which some argue is better than if he had ignored us altogether, but there are better ways to incite these kinds of difficult and important conversations—through honesty, transparency, and mutual respect.

  • Man’s dog suddenly becomes protective of his wife, Internet clocks the reason right away
    Dogs have impressive observational powers.Photo credit: Canva

    Reddit user Girlfriendhatesmefor’s three-year-old pitbull, Otis, had recently become overprotective of his wife. So he asked the online community if they knew what might be wrong with the dog.

    “A week or two ago, my wife got some sort of stomach bug,” the Reddit user wrote under the subreddit /r/dogs. “She was really nauseous and ill for about a week. Otis is very in tune with her emotions (we once got in a fight and she was upset, I swear he was staring daggers at me lol) and during this time didn’t even want to leave her to go on walks. We thought it was adorable!”

    His wife soon felt better, butthe dog’s behavior didn’t change.

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    Otis knew before they did. Canva

    Girlfriendhatesmefor began to fear that Otis’ behavior may be an early sign of an aggression issue or an indication that the dog was hurt or sick.

    So he threw a question out to fellow Reddit users: “Has anyone else’s dog suddenly developed attachment/aggression issues? Any and all advice appreciated, even if it’s that we’re being paranoid!”

    The most popular response to his thread was by ZZBC.

    Any chance your wife is pregnant?

    ZZBC | Reddit

    The potential news hit Girlfriendhatesmefor like a ton of bricks. A few days later, Girlfriendhatesmefor posted an update and ZZBC was right!

    “The wifey is pregnant!” the father-to-be wrote. “Otis is still being overprotective but it all makes sense now! Thanks for all the advice and kind words! Sorry for the delayed reply, I didn’t check back until just now!”

    Redditors responded with similar experiences.

    Anecdotal I know but I swear my dog knew I was pregnant before I was. He was super clingy (more than normal) and was always resting his head on my belly.

    realityisworse | Reddit

    So why do dogs get overprotective when someone is pregnant?

    Jeff Werber, PhD, president and chief veterinarian of the Century Veterinary Group in Los Angeles, told Health.com that “dogs can also smell the hormonal changes going on in a woman’s body at that time.” He added the dog may “not understand that this new scent of your skin and breath is caused by a developing baby, but they will know that something is different with you—which might cause them to be more curious or attentive.”

    The big lesson here is to listen to your pets and to ask questions when their behavior abruptly changes. They may be trying to tell you something, and the news may be life-changing.

    This article originally appeared last year.

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    Why mass shootings spawn conspiracy theories

    Mass shootings and conspiracy theories have a long history.

    While conspiracy theories are not limited to any topic, there is one type of event that seems particularly likely to spark them: mass shootings, typically defined as attacks in which a shooter kills at least four other people.

    When one person kills many others in a single incident, particularly when it seems random, people naturally seek out answers for why the tragedy happened. After all, if a mass shooting is random, anyone can be a target.

    Pointing to some nefarious plan by a powerful group – such as the government – can be more comforting than the idea that the attack was the result of a disturbed or mentally ill individual who obtained a firearm legally.


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