Ethan Austin initially moved back into his childhood bedroom in Newport Beach, California as a freshly minted American University law school grad, awaiting his Bar exam results. Austin was scoring in the 99th percentile on practice tests and feeling confident. Then, in the summer of 2007, he got an email linked to a list of those who’d passed. His name wasn’t there. He’d failed the California Bar exam.


“I felt horrible,” says Austin. He’d done well in law school and was embarrassed. He adds, “no one wants to be a failure.” He took a day or two to sulk and, fittingly, watched a lot of Arrested Development. Suddenly, he wasn’t a guy crashing his parents’ house for a brief break before a bright and busy future in law, he was a guy living with his folks, indefinitely.

But something started churning in the back of Austin’s mind. He had a wild idea for creating a crowdfunding website, something everyday people could use to raise money for all sorts of charitable endeavors.

Back in law school, he’d done a marathon raised funds for St. Jude’s, one of the 25 approved nonprofit partners for the run. He got a rush from raising his first $2,500 from family and friends, but then hit a wall. “I had to get more creative,” recalls Austin. So he promised he’d run the marathon in a banana costume, and soon started training in it, running around Washington, D.C. dressed like a banana and passing out business cards directing people to his fundraiser.

He raised more than $6,000, and came to a realization—there should be a platform for people to fundraise for whatever matters most to them.

Despite spending his days at home on a regimented schedule in preparation to retake his Bar exam, the notion that he should create this other thing nagged at him. He told his friends his fundraising platform idea, but none of them were willing to quit their jobs and start a company with him, and he didn’t have the guts to do it on his own.

In February 2008, he retook the Bar, and a chapter in his life began to close, even before he got the results back. He heard from an ex-girlfriend who’d met a woman named Desiree Vargas at a Super Bowl party. She, like Austin, was full of ideas for a sort of pick-your-cause fundraising site.

“Most people would just nod,” as he described crowdfunding to them—back before crowdfunding was a term—remembers Austin. But once he talked to Vargas, “We both finally felt like, ‘ah, somebody else gets it.’” He began to think, “this could be something really big.”

Within a month, the two had agreed to go into business together, developing what would become GiveForward. They each fundraised small amounts of startup capital in their respective hometowns. Remotely, they pored over wireframes, created an original business plan, figured out their LLC structure, and by August the new business partners had moved to Chicago and launched the site.

During that busy startup period, Austin received a surprise text from a friend congratulating him on passing the Bar. Austin hadn’t even known the results were coming out. “I was definitely so committed at that point and excited about what we were doing with GiveForward,” says Austin, that he no longer considered practicing law.

Austin moved to Chicago, scraping by as a freelance writer, all the while building GiveForward—without taking a salary—living off some savings his late father had left him (and a steady diet of cereal and burritos). He says that he would give anything to have his father back, but at the same time, it was what he left him—inspiration, and yes, that inheritance—that allowed him to start a platform that helps families going through difficult circumstances.

Today, GiveForward has helped people raise over $128 million toward all sorts of needs—from covering their loved ones’ medical bills to recovering from home fires. Vargas—who lost her grandfather to lung cancer—and Austin were both made more compassionate by their families’ health battles. “[But] I don’t think we understood at the time the scope of how big the problem really was,” says Austin.

He’s where he is today because of that sensitivity, because back at law school he cared more about raising money and running around in a banana suit than studying, and because, when he needed it, his mother did what most families would do if they could.

The free rent and food his mother provided, says Austin, “gave me time to decide what I really wanted to do.” He adds, “had I not been living at home, I do not think I would be doing what I’m doing today.”

  • Man’s dog suddenly becomes protective of his wife, Internet clocks the reason right away
    Dogs have impressive observational powers.Photo credit: Canva

    Reddit user Girlfriendhatesmefor’s three-year-old pitbull, Otis, had recently become overprotective of his wife. So he asked the online community if they knew what might be wrong with the dog.

    “A week or two ago, my wife got some sort of stomach bug,” the Reddit user wrote under the subreddit /r/dogs. “She was really nauseous and ill for about a week. Otis is very in tune with her emotions (we once got in a fight and she was upset, I swear he was staring daggers at me lol) and during this time didn’t even want to leave her to go on walks. We thought it was adorable!”

    His wife soon felt better, butthe dog’s behavior didn’t change.

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    Otis knew before they did. Canva

    Girlfriendhatesmefor began to fear that Otis’ behavior may be an early sign of an aggression issue or an indication that the dog was hurt or sick.

    So he threw a question out to fellow Reddit users: “Has anyone else’s dog suddenly developed attachment/aggression issues? Any and all advice appreciated, even if it’s that we’re being paranoid!”

    The most popular response to his thread was by ZZBC.

    Any chance your wife is pregnant?

    ZZBC | Reddit

    The potential news hit Girlfriendhatesmefor like a ton of bricks. A few days later, Girlfriendhatesmefor posted an update and ZZBC was right!

    “The wifey is pregnant!” the father-to-be wrote. “Otis is still being overprotective but it all makes sense now! Thanks for all the advice and kind words! Sorry for the delayed reply, I didn’t check back until just now!”

    Redditors responded with similar experiences.

    Anecdotal I know but I swear my dog knew I was pregnant before I was. He was super clingy (more than normal) and was always resting his head on my belly.

    realityisworse | Reddit

    So why do dogs get overprotective when someone is pregnant?

    Jeff Werber, PhD, president and chief veterinarian of the Century Veterinary Group in Los Angeles, told Health.com that “dogs can also smell the hormonal changes going on in a woman’s body at that time.” He added the dog may “not understand that this new scent of your skin and breath is caused by a developing baby, but they will know that something is different with you—which might cause them to be more curious or attentive.”

    The big lesson here is to listen to your pets and to ask questions when their behavior abruptly changes. They may be trying to tell you something, and the news may be life-changing.

    This article originally appeared last year.

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