Scan the internet for recent headlines involving Somalia and the return is pretty grim. Violence and unrest are the common threads, expected even. So when Ilwad (Elle) Elman voluntarily returned to Mogadishu, the Somali capital, three years ago while conflict still raged in the city, she was determined to be a positive force for change.


Elman runs the Elman Peace and Human Rights Center in Mogadishu, Somalia with her mother, aiding victims of rape and sexual assault, as well as rehabilitating child soldiers by teaching them vocational skills. Her holistic approach — implementing psychosocial counseling, skills training, and emphasizing the importance of sports, art, and literature — has empowered an entire generation of Somali youth to become agents for peace.

She draws inspiration from her father, an ardent peace activist in the 1990s who coined the popular Somali mantra “Put down the gun, pick up the pen.” Unfortunately, he was assassinated in 1996, but his words and the sentiment behind it live on in Elman and her work.

This year, Elman is targeting the biggest problems facing youth in Mogadishu—formerly renowned as one of the worst places in the world to be a woman, a failed state, and among the most dangerous cities in the world. She’s hard at work establishing a center for Somali youth, set on creating a safe learning environment where kids can learn the necessary social and economic skills they need to succeed.

The desire and potential of young people to become agents for change is remarkable in Somalia, Elman says.

“I have designed and implemented programs with great success that have supported thousands of disengaged combatant children and youth throughout south and central regions in Somalia,” she says, “and every year my case load grows bigger with higher numbers of young people disarming, desperate for alternative livelihoods.”

Elman has been successful in placing a consistent 85 percent average of young people in alternative livelihoods that deter them from contributing to armed conflict. The center even follows up with the youth that leave its doors with ongoing mentorships to check in on their progress and well being.

“After more than 20 years, it seems the world is finally focused on Somalia and the human needs in it,” Elman says. “The youth must be prioritized.”

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  • Man’s dog suddenly becomes protective of his wife, Internet clocks the reason right away
    Dogs have impressive observational powers.Photo credit: Canva

    Reddit user Girlfriendhatesmefor’s three-year-old pitbull, Otis, had recently become overprotective of his wife. So he asked the online community if they knew what might be wrong with the dog.

    “A week or two ago, my wife got some sort of stomach bug,” the Reddit user wrote under the subreddit /r/dogs. “She was really nauseous and ill for about a week. Otis is very in tune with her emotions (we once got in a fight and she was upset, I swear he was staring daggers at me lol) and during this time didn’t even want to leave her to go on walks. We thought it was adorable!”

    His wife soon felt better, butthe dog’s behavior didn’t change.

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    Otis knew before they did. Canva

    Girlfriendhatesmefor began to fear that Otis’ behavior may be an early sign of an aggression issue or an indication that the dog was hurt or sick.

    So he threw a question out to fellow Reddit users: “Has anyone else’s dog suddenly developed attachment/aggression issues? Any and all advice appreciated, even if it’s that we’re being paranoid!”

    The most popular response to his thread was by ZZBC.

    Any chance your wife is pregnant?

    ZZBC | Reddit

    The potential news hit Girlfriendhatesmefor like a ton of bricks. A few days later, Girlfriendhatesmefor posted an update and ZZBC was right!

    “The wifey is pregnant!” the father-to-be wrote. “Otis is still being overprotective but it all makes sense now! Thanks for all the advice and kind words! Sorry for the delayed reply, I didn’t check back until just now!”

    Redditors responded with similar experiences.

    Anecdotal I know but I swear my dog knew I was pregnant before I was. He was super clingy (more than normal) and was always resting his head on my belly.

    realityisworse | Reddit

    So why do dogs get overprotective when someone is pregnant?

    Jeff Werber, PhD, president and chief veterinarian of the Century Veterinary Group in Los Angeles, told Health.com that “dogs can also smell the hormonal changes going on in a woman’s body at that time.” He added the dog may “not understand that this new scent of your skin and breath is caused by a developing baby, but they will know that something is different with you—which might cause them to be more curious or attentive.”

    The big lesson here is to listen to your pets and to ask questions when their behavior abruptly changes. They may be trying to tell you something, and the news may be life-changing.

    This article originally appeared last year.

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