Paul Rieckhoff, the executive director and founder of Iraq and Afghanistan Veterans of America (a Choose GOOD partner), is on a mission to improve the lives of the soldiers who’ve fought on behalf of our country. A veteran himself, he understands just how important it is that our troops come home to a real nexus of support. He was kind enough to talk to us about his own post-war experience, the successes (and struggles) of IAVA, and his hope that the organization will work itself out of existence.What does IAVA do in human terms?We’re the first and largest Iraq and Afghanistan veterans’ group in America. We’re a nonprofit created by veterans to improve the lives of Iraq and Afghanistan vets and their families.So, when someone subscribes to our magazine and donates money to IAVA, where does that money go? Most immediately, it’s gone to support our fight for a new GI bill, to the push for better educational benefits for Iraq and Afghanistan Veterans. That money helped us bring vets to Washington, helped them organize communities, and helped them come together to find creative and innovative ways to get a new GI Bill that covers the full cost of college. [Read more about the GI Bill, which was signed into law this summer, here.]What’s the most difficult obstacle you face (as an organization)?Other than funding? I think detachment. There is an unprecedented level of detachment that exists between our community and the American public at large. So our biggest challenge is overcoming the gap that exists between the average civilian and the average soldier. We’re not that different. We come from your communities; we went to your high schools; we’re working at your jobs and living at your colleges.Before you went to Iraq, you’d gotten a degree from Amherst, coached high school football, and worked on Wall Street. Why did you enlist? I love my country. I really do. I wanted to give something back-I got to go to a good school, get a great education, and have a lot of opportunities. I felt a civic obligation to give something back. I also wanted a really intense experience-part of me wanted to jump out of airplanes and blow stuff up and shoot guns in that kind of 12-year-old kid type of fantasy. I don’t know if fantasy is the right word, but the action and excitement. The challenge, the chance to test my meddle and see what I was made of…that really drove me to the military. And my grandfather had been drafted and my father had been drafted, so there had been a tradition of service in my family.Can you describe the experience you had coming home from Iraq?It was pretty tough. I always tell people that when I got home, the biggest story was Janet Jackson’s exposed breast in the Super Bowl. So it was a pretty tough adjustment to go from walking patrols in Baghdad to coming home and seeing that that’s what the country was focused on. It definitely shocked me. It disappointed me. It angered me at some level. But it also inspired me to get involved and do something to change the way the country was connected to this war and the people who fought in it.If you could change one thing about media coverage of the wars, what would it be?We’d like to see more personal coverage-the stories about the people behind the numbers, not just the casualty numbers scrolling beneath the screen. That’s important. We’d also like to see a focus on veterans affairs. What’s happening at the VA? What people are facing in their local communities? How National Guardsmen or reserves are dealing with the stress? And also there are some amazingly heroic stories to come out of this war-folks who’ve done amazing things. I think they deserve a bit more recognition than they’ve gotten so far. But, the biggest thing we want people to do is look deeper and spend more time on it to understand it. It’s not just stay or go, it’s not just black or white, it’s not just democrat or republican. You’re probably not getting the whole picture from just CNN or Fox.What’s your definition of good?I think good is something that is significantly beneficial for everyone in some way or another. For me it kind of has a lot to do with service. It could be someone who drew an amazing picture that benefits all of us or it could be someone who laid down their life for someone else. I think it’s about creating and about sacrificing and about really trying to make a difference. On a macro scale, goodness, being good, and doing good are all about trying to change the world.Paul Rieckhoff is the author of Chaising Ghosts, a book that details his experiences as a First Lieutenant and Infantry Platoon Leader for the U.S. Army in Iraq and examines issues facing soldiers and their families. PHOTO Edouard Gluck

  • Man’s dog suddenly becomes protective of his wife, Internet clocks the reason right away
    Dogs have impressive observational powers.Photo credit: Canva

    Reddit user Girlfriendhatesmefor’s three-year-old pitbull, Otis, had recently become overprotective of his wife. So he asked the online community if they knew what might be wrong with the dog.

    “A week or two ago, my wife got some sort of stomach bug,” the Reddit user wrote under the subreddit /r/dogs. “She was really nauseous and ill for about a week. Otis is very in tune with her emotions (we once got in a fight and she was upset, I swear he was staring daggers at me lol) and during this time didn’t even want to leave her to go on walks. We thought it was adorable!”

    His wife soon felt better, butthe dog’s behavior didn’t change.

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    Otis knew before they did. Canva

    Girlfriendhatesmefor began to fear that Otis’ behavior may be an early sign of an aggression issue or an indication that the dog was hurt or sick.

    So he threw a question out to fellow Reddit users: “Has anyone else’s dog suddenly developed attachment/aggression issues? Any and all advice appreciated, even if it’s that we’re being paranoid!”

    The most popular response to his thread was by ZZBC.

    Any chance your wife is pregnant?

    ZZBC | Reddit

    The potential news hit Girlfriendhatesmefor like a ton of bricks. A few days later, Girlfriendhatesmefor posted an update and ZZBC was right!

    “The wifey is pregnant!” the father-to-be wrote. “Otis is still being overprotective but it all makes sense now! Thanks for all the advice and kind words! Sorry for the delayed reply, I didn’t check back until just now!”

    Redditors responded with similar experiences.

    Anecdotal I know but I swear my dog knew I was pregnant before I was. He was super clingy (more than normal) and was always resting his head on my belly.

    realityisworse | Reddit

    So why do dogs get overprotective when someone is pregnant?

    Jeff Werber, PhD, president and chief veterinarian of the Century Veterinary Group in Los Angeles, told Health.com that “dogs can also smell the hormonal changes going on in a woman’s body at that time.” He added the dog may “not understand that this new scent of your skin and breath is caused by a developing baby, but they will know that something is different with you—which might cause them to be more curious or attentive.”

    The big lesson here is to listen to your pets and to ask questions when their behavior abruptly changes. They may be trying to tell you something, and the news may be life-changing.

    This article originally appeared last year.

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    Why mass shootings spawn conspiracy theories

    Mass shootings and conspiracy theories have a long history.

    While conspiracy theories are not limited to any topic, there is one type of event that seems particularly likely to spark them: mass shootings, typically defined as attacks in which a shooter kills at least four other people.

    When one person kills many others in a single incident, particularly when it seems random, people naturally seek out answers for why the tragedy happened. After all, if a mass shooting is random, anyone can be a target.

    Pointing to some nefarious plan by a powerful group – such as the government – can be more comforting than the idea that the attack was the result of a disturbed or mentally ill individual who obtained a firearm legally.


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