Here’s a problem I bet nobody had when they were trying to spring their friend from a refugee camp 20 years ago: suddenly discovering that he was in the middle of hostile territory-and risking his life-by happening to check Google one evening.

On my iGoogle homepage, next to my email inbox, calendar, and weather gadgets, I’d set up Google Latitude to beam in Samy’s location onto a small map. (Samy’s idea.) Usually, the information it provides isn’t exactly revelatory: Given his circumstances, it marks Samy’s location as being either in the Mae La refugee camp or Mae Sot, where he sometimes works. When it’s glitchy, it will place him somewhere in the Indian Ocean, but that’s about it.

Tonight, however, as the Latitude gadget loaded up I noticed it showed the little “Samy” cursor smack in the middle of Bangkok. I was stunned, and immediately assumed something had gone wrong. Samy isn’t legally allowed anywhere outside of the refugee camp, though the authorities turn a blind eye to his working in Mae Sot. If he’s caught by Thai authorities without documents anywhere else, he faces deportation to Burma, and then, potentially, death at the hands of the military for a crime he didn’t commit. I refreshed the page.

The only other time Samy had been to Bangkok was right after he made it across the border into Thailand for the first time. He and a few friends were hoping that the U.N. in Bangkok would be able to help them get out of the country, so they snuck around the many Thai checkpoints and made their way by foot to the Thai capital, over 150 miles away. They had decided to walk through the jungle, determining that a ragtag group of young foreign-looking men strolling down the side of the highway would be a quick way to raise eyebrows.

Once there, they had to lay low in a friend of a friend’s flat, scared out of their minds that the Thai police or the immigration authorities would find them and send them back to Burma. And then, after a few fruitless days-the U.N. couldn’t help them-they turned around and did it all over again in order to get back.

When the page reloaded, sure enough, Latitude still showed Samy in Bangkok. If this wasn’t a glitch, I figured he either had a damn good reason to be there or the authorities had brought him there, and either way, he was at significant risk. After a few minutes of anxious deliberation, I called him up and he answered almost immediately. He already knew what I was calling about. The first thing he did was apologize for not emailing me first to let me know that he had taken off. I didn’t really know how to respond to that.

“Everyone is shocked that I just came here,” he says, explaining that he hadn’t even had time to notify his friends back in Mae Sot either. It turns out that he had caught the eye of an aid group in Mae Sot, while the group was trying to help a Nepalese refugee that had somehow ended up in Thailand. They had become interested in Samy’s story after they saw him talking with the man. Did I not mention that Samy speaks Nepalese?

The group invited Samy to Bangkok, where their headquarters is located, to see if they could help him out. So it turns out they had arranged his safe passage to the city, and he was staying with friends. Still risky to be sure, but Samy was relatively safe.

Soon after we spoke, the surreality hit me: I was worried about my refugee friend, who’s in the process of trying to escape persecution from a military regime in a developing country, because a digital indicator notified me that he wasn’t in his refugee camp.

This hyper-connectivity had the effect of putting me in a position where I felt as involved in the events unfolding as I would had I lived two blocks away from Samy-checking the two mostly likely places he would be, not finding him, and panicking-despite the fact that I’m 8,000 miles away.

  • Man’s dog suddenly becomes protective of his wife, Internet clocks the reason right away
    Dogs have impressive observational powers.Photo credit: Canva

    Reddit user Girlfriendhatesmefor’s three-year-old pitbull, Otis, had recently become overprotective of his wife. So he asked the online community if they knew what might be wrong with the dog.

    “A week or two ago, my wife got some sort of stomach bug,” the Reddit user wrote under the subreddit /r/dogs. “She was really nauseous and ill for about a week. Otis is very in tune with her emotions (we once got in a fight and she was upset, I swear he was staring daggers at me lol) and during this time didn’t even want to leave her to go on walks. We thought it was adorable!”

    His wife soon felt better, butthe dog’s behavior didn’t change.

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    Otis knew before they did. Canva

    Girlfriendhatesmefor began to fear that Otis’ behavior may be an early sign of an aggression issue or an indication that the dog was hurt or sick.

    So he threw a question out to fellow Reddit users: “Has anyone else’s dog suddenly developed attachment/aggression issues? Any and all advice appreciated, even if it’s that we’re being paranoid!”

    The most popular response to his thread was by ZZBC.

    Any chance your wife is pregnant?

    ZZBC | Reddit

    The potential news hit Girlfriendhatesmefor like a ton of bricks. A few days later, Girlfriendhatesmefor posted an update and ZZBC was right!

    “The wifey is pregnant!” the father-to-be wrote. “Otis is still being overprotective but it all makes sense now! Thanks for all the advice and kind words! Sorry for the delayed reply, I didn’t check back until just now!”

    Redditors responded with similar experiences.

    Anecdotal I know but I swear my dog knew I was pregnant before I was. He was super clingy (more than normal) and was always resting his head on my belly.

    realityisworse | Reddit

    So why do dogs get overprotective when someone is pregnant?

    Jeff Werber, PhD, president and chief veterinarian of the Century Veterinary Group in Los Angeles, told Health.com that “dogs can also smell the hormonal changes going on in a woman’s body at that time.” He added the dog may “not understand that this new scent of your skin and breath is caused by a developing baby, but they will know that something is different with you—which might cause them to be more curious or attentive.”

    The big lesson here is to listen to your pets and to ask questions when their behavior abruptly changes. They may be trying to tell you something, and the news may be life-changing.

    This article originally appeared last year.

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    Why mass shootings spawn conspiracy theories

    Mass shootings and conspiracy theories have a long history.

    While conspiracy theories are not limited to any topic, there is one type of event that seems particularly likely to spark them: mass shootings, typically defined as attacks in which a shooter kills at least four other people.

    When one person kills many others in a single incident, particularly when it seems random, people naturally seek out answers for why the tragedy happened. After all, if a mass shooting is random, anyone can be a target.

    Pointing to some nefarious plan by a powerful group – such as the government – can be more comforting than the idea that the attack was the result of a disturbed or mentally ill individual who obtained a firearm legally.


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