The Trump administration Attorney General, Jeff Sessions, recently ruled not to grant asylum to immigrants who have cited domestic abuse as a threat to their safety. “The mere fact that a country may have problems effectively policing certain crimes — such as domestic violence or gang violence — or that certain populations are more likely to be victims of crime, cannot itself establish an asylum claim,” Sessions wrote in his ruling. For some women, remaining in the region where they face violence can ultimately become a death sentence.


Femicide has little coverage in international media, so a pair of illustrators has launched a project to pay tribute to these victims of violence. No Estamos Todas (We Are Not All Here) enlisted an illustrator to do portraits of victims of femicide and then distribute it on social media.

Visualizing the victims

The NET project began in September 2017, when they discovered freelance reporter Frida Guerrera Villalvazo’s blog, which for the last 10 years has “denounce[d] violations of human rights” and shed light on femicides. Her information on the deaths of women, along with an online map pinpointing the areas of femicides, ultimately served as a call to action for two women illustrators who created NET.

“We try to look up the lives of these women, what did they do, what did they like. But we couldn’t find it,” one of the NET creators — who wished to remain anonymous, out of safety — told GOOD via Skype. “We tried just to imagine, to write down their names, and — as this list was endless — we thought it would be a nice idea to invite more people to join in our project.”

[quote position=”full” is_quote=”true”]Why speak of them only in the way they were killed?[/quote]

The duo then started messaging other illustrators with the seeds of their idea. Little by little, they gained more support. One illustrator offered to work on their logo and “identity.” From there, they started sharing information on femicides with illustrators interested in creating work for the account. They started to reach out to friends — some of whom “just ignored” them, they say — before taking to social media to contact illustrators they admired. They started with a list of Mexican illustrators and soon broadened their focus to include artists from other countries.

The feed currently includes art from illustrators in Guatemala, Peru, and more.

Sketches of a memory

NET sends each illustrator a case and as much information as they can find on the femicide. Each illustration features the femicide victim’s name, age, and location; in instances where no name is available, the description includes an ellipsis. This often sparks a discussion, even before the illustration goes live on the account.

“Some of them talk to us like ‘because of the project I realized that there was another femicide near me, and I didn’t know it had that name.’ Or [they] just start being conscious about it … and that’s what we’re trying to do, to start a conversation,” says one of NET’s creators.

But raising awareness about the issue of femicide also means addressing how these women are depicted after their death.

[quote position=”full” is_quote=”true”]They probably never thought they would die that way.[/quote]

For NET, the importance lies in creating a lively and touching tribute for each woman. The gruesome details of the murder are already covered by some of the more sensational media outlets — often in misogynistic ways, NET says — and the organization wants to shift the focus.

“They had a life before. And they probably had dreams, and they probably never thought they would die that way,” says NET’s co-creator. “So why speak of them only in the way they were killed?”

In some cases, the organization received details about each woman from family members.

They did not ask for the details about her death. Instead, they sought out tidbits about her life.

One family mentioned that the loved one they lost loved dogs and the color purple. So the illustration created to honor Dany — who was 15 years old — shows her holding a small dog in her arms. Her shirt is a light purple, and the flowers around her vary in shades of blue and purple. Illustrator Karla Alcazar, based in Mexico, depicted Dany in an aesthetic similar to her other figures — serene yet playful and surrounded by nature.

But there isn’t always information about each woman.

In these cases, illustrators use their imaginations to fill in the blanks. NET doesn’t reach out to families directly; they let families come to them if they are interested. The group remains anonymous for safety reasons and also to keep the focus on the mission, not on individual people.

“I don’t want a note to be written like she [was] the one with the idea, the one that illustrated. Because, yeah, we thought of the idea between two people, but the reality is that today more than 300 people have worked with us,” NET’s co-creator says.

Joining a movement

NET also emphasizes that the organization is just one way to raise awareness.

“There are also other projects working with this — people writing, people doing maps, people going to NGOs and actually changing the laws. This is just a part of the movement,” NET’s co-founder says.

But NET’s impact continues to grow.

As the illustrations get shared more and more across social media channels, families have been reaching out to NET to ask if they could illustrate someone they lost.

The community doesn’t charge for illustrations.

“All the efforts are totally free and totally voluntary,” NET’s co-founder says. “At the beginning, one [mother] asked us if she can buy an illustration of her daughter, and we told her it was a gift. So now we are trying to illustrate as a gift.”

Each illustration serves a small gesture of empathy and validation; a gift to families who might never get closure.

Or as NET puts it: Their project is a way “to honor their lives not the way they were killed.”

  • Man’s dog suddenly becomes protective of his wife, Internet clocks the reason right away
    Dogs have impressive observational powers.Photo credit: Canva

    Reddit user Girlfriendhatesmefor’s three-year-old pitbull, Otis, had recently become overprotective of his wife. So he asked the online community if they knew what might be wrong with the dog.

    “A week or two ago, my wife got some sort of stomach bug,” the Reddit user wrote under the subreddit /r/dogs. “She was really nauseous and ill for about a week. Otis is very in tune with her emotions (we once got in a fight and she was upset, I swear he was staring daggers at me lol) and during this time didn’t even want to leave her to go on walks. We thought it was adorable!”

    His wife soon felt better, butthe dog’s behavior didn’t change.

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    Otis knew before they did. Canva

    Girlfriendhatesmefor began to fear that Otis’ behavior may be an early sign of an aggression issue or an indication that the dog was hurt or sick.

    So he threw a question out to fellow Reddit users: “Has anyone else’s dog suddenly developed attachment/aggression issues? Any and all advice appreciated, even if it’s that we’re being paranoid!”

    The most popular response to his thread was by ZZBC.

    Any chance your wife is pregnant?

    ZZBC | Reddit

    The potential news hit Girlfriendhatesmefor like a ton of bricks. A few days later, Girlfriendhatesmefor posted an update and ZZBC was right!

    “The wifey is pregnant!” the father-to-be wrote. “Otis is still being overprotective but it all makes sense now! Thanks for all the advice and kind words! Sorry for the delayed reply, I didn’t check back until just now!”

    Redditors responded with similar experiences.

    Anecdotal I know but I swear my dog knew I was pregnant before I was. He was super clingy (more than normal) and was always resting his head on my belly.

    realityisworse | Reddit

    So why do dogs get overprotective when someone is pregnant?

    Jeff Werber, PhD, president and chief veterinarian of the Century Veterinary Group in Los Angeles, told Health.com that “dogs can also smell the hormonal changes going on in a woman’s body at that time.” He added the dog may “not understand that this new scent of your skin and breath is caused by a developing baby, but they will know that something is different with you—which might cause them to be more curious or attentive.”

    The big lesson here is to listen to your pets and to ask questions when their behavior abruptly changes. They may be trying to tell you something, and the news may be life-changing.

    This article originally appeared last year.

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