In a powerful statement to boarding schools everywhere, Phillips Exeter Academy and Phillips Academy Andover have announced that this fall will bring about the conversion of several single-sex dorms into gender neutral housing. The move is meant to accommodate transgender and nonbinary students and breaks a long-standing academic tradition of segregating student housing according to sex.

The announcement came just this week, but the conversion has been in the works for two years, according to NPR. The conversation which led to the progressive decision came when Alex Myers, an Exeter teacher, met with transgender students to discuss their experiences in all aspects of campus life, academic and otherwise.


Myers recalls that the biggest issue was within the realm of dorm segregation. “Consistently, what came up as ‘What needs work’ was housing. If you don’t understand yourself to be a girl or a boy, living in a space that’s designated just for boys or just for girls feels really uncomfortable,” he said.

Exeter’s all-gender dorms will house between 20 and 30 students, giving each their own rooms and maintaining the standard shared bathrooms, albeit renovated ones to provide more privacy.

Alex Myers was not only an Exeter student before he was a teacher, but he was the first openly transgender student in the school’s history. The long incubation period prior to this fall’s implementation wasn’t a result of controversy or persuasion, but rather of the time required to determine how to implement such dorms in a fashion that still bred inclusion among all students in all housing accommodations.

To the first point, John Palfrey, the head of school at Exeter, said that this practice, rather than breaking tradition, continues it. “Our idea is to bring young people from all over the world, from all walks of life, from all backgrounds—and, frankly, from all gender and sexuality backgrounds. So I see this as entirely in keeping with our long tradition.”

Palfrey maintains there’s been no controversy at all over the decision, stating, “The reaction to this announcement has been 100 percent positive.”

  • Man’s dog suddenly becomes protective of his wife, Internet clocks the reason right away
    Dogs have impressive observational powers.Photo credit: Canva

    Reddit user Girlfriendhatesmefor’s three-year-old pitbull, Otis, had recently become overprotective of his wife. So he asked the online community if they knew what might be wrong with the dog.

    “A week or two ago, my wife got some sort of stomach bug,” the Reddit user wrote under the subreddit /r/dogs. “She was really nauseous and ill for about a week. Otis is very in tune with her emotions (we once got in a fight and she was upset, I swear he was staring daggers at me lol) and during this time didn’t even want to leave her to go on walks. We thought it was adorable!”

    His wife soon felt better, butthe dog’s behavior didn’t change.

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    Otis knew before they did. Canva

    Girlfriendhatesmefor began to fear that Otis’ behavior may be an early sign of an aggression issue or an indication that the dog was hurt or sick.

    So he threw a question out to fellow Reddit users: “Has anyone else’s dog suddenly developed attachment/aggression issues? Any and all advice appreciated, even if it’s that we’re being paranoid!”

    The most popular response to his thread was by ZZBC.

    Any chance your wife is pregnant?

    ZZBC | Reddit

    The potential news hit Girlfriendhatesmefor like a ton of bricks. A few days later, Girlfriendhatesmefor posted an update and ZZBC was right!

    “The wifey is pregnant!” the father-to-be wrote. “Otis is still being overprotective but it all makes sense now! Thanks for all the advice and kind words! Sorry for the delayed reply, I didn’t check back until just now!”

    Redditors responded with similar experiences.

    Anecdotal I know but I swear my dog knew I was pregnant before I was. He was super clingy (more than normal) and was always resting his head on my belly.

    realityisworse | Reddit

    So why do dogs get overprotective when someone is pregnant?

    Jeff Werber, PhD, president and chief veterinarian of the Century Veterinary Group in Los Angeles, told Health.com that “dogs can also smell the hormonal changes going on in a woman’s body at that time.” He added the dog may “not understand that this new scent of your skin and breath is caused by a developing baby, but they will know that something is different with you—which might cause them to be more curious or attentive.”

    The big lesson here is to listen to your pets and to ask questions when their behavior abruptly changes. They may be trying to tell you something, and the news may be life-changing.

    This article originally appeared last year.

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    When one person kills many others in a single incident, particularly when it seems random, people naturally seek out answers for why the tragedy happened. After all, if a mass shooting is random, anyone can be a target.

    Pointing to some nefarious plan by a powerful group – such as the government – can be more comforting than the idea that the attack was the result of a disturbed or mentally ill individual who obtained a firearm legally.


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