Denise Cramsey is not in the business of solving problems; she’s in the business of telling stories. But sometimes the best stories involve a problem solved. Currently working on her eighth reality TV series, the 38-year-old executive producer has found the largest platform and audience of her 16-year career-ABC’s Extreme Makeover: Home Edition. Now in its fourth season, the Emmy-winning show regularly rates first in its Sunday evening time slot-tugging millions of viewer’s heartstrings with voyeuristic stories of home renovation and life transformation, punctuated with impeccable product placement.A distinctly American experiment in generosity, EMHE feels curiously closer to Cinderella than to, say, Horatio Alger. It happens like this: a team of producers led by Cramsey sifts through video submissions from families in impoverished conditions-like the Rogers family from 2006, which consisted of a single mother who cared for her incapacitated brother-in-law and home-schooled his three children, as well as eight of her own-all within a 900-square-foot shack in Alaska.

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It is a television show, of course. But more than that, it is actually a mission to go out and help people who need help.

Each episode features frosted-tipped male model turned TV carpentry personality Ty Pennington doing his best fairy godmother impression, as he and his team of designers turn a dilapidated shanty into a state-of-the-art suburban mansion in just one week. The Rogers place, for instance, grew to 4,800 square feet and was filled with computers and plasma screens, not to mention an Astroturfed backyard football field. The presence of the ubiquitous bullhorn through which Pennington emphatically encourages his crew reinforces the show’s aggressive Americana-as does the “extreme” in its title, which could refer not only to the speed with which a home gets transformed and the extent of the renovations, but also to the extreme differences in the show’s reception.The show has been criticized as endemic of a culture of suburban excess and instant gratification. And while EMHE does feature a glut of corporate sponsorships and conspicuous consumerism, consider the local volunteers (sometimes numbering in the hundreds) who congregate around the construction site day and night until the project is finished. Cramsey thinks the sense of communal compassion, in tandem with the show’s tear-jerking moments, is what distinguishes it from the legions of gimmicky reality shows that clutter the dial: “It is a television show, of course. It is a business, of course. But more than that, it is actually a mission to go out and help people who need help,” she says.On EMHE, the Johnsons’s house increased in size from 900 to 4,800 square feet. Here is what that difference looks like. When Cramsey left Syracuse University with degrees in newspaper journalism and economics, she dreamt, like many a wide-eyed journalism student, of writing for The New York Times. That didn’t quite happen. “I think I got rejected by every newspaper in the United States of America,” she says, chuckling. “But I did get a job at a local television station in Allentown, Pennsylvania. I was there for two and a half years and moved up from the assignment desk to writing to producing, and sort of caught the TV bug and have never looked back.”That TV bug took her through a host of successful reality-TV production jobs where she honed her narrative prowess-including the very popular Trading Spaces, which marked the first collaboration between Cramsey and Pennington. Despite helping so many people, Cramsey attributes her success to the spirit of altruism that surrounds the show. “I produced literally hundreds of episodes, and all I did was stand by and record people at the most intense moments of their lives,” she says. “People tell their own stories. And solve their own problems. I’m just there to record it.”

  • Man’s dog suddenly becomes protective of his wife, Internet clocks the reason right away
    Dogs have impressive observational powers.Photo credit: Canva

    Reddit user Girlfriendhatesmefor’s three-year-old pitbull, Otis, had recently become overprotective of his wife. So he asked the online community if they knew what might be wrong with the dog.

    “A week or two ago, my wife got some sort of stomach bug,” the Reddit user wrote under the subreddit /r/dogs. “She was really nauseous and ill for about a week. Otis is very in tune with her emotions (we once got in a fight and she was upset, I swear he was staring daggers at me lol) and during this time didn’t even want to leave her to go on walks. We thought it was adorable!”

    His wife soon felt better, butthe dog’s behavior didn’t change.

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    Girlfriendhatesmefor began to fear that Otis’ behavior may be an early sign of an aggression issue or an indication that the dog was hurt or sick.

    So he threw a question out to fellow Reddit users: “Has anyone else’s dog suddenly developed attachment/aggression issues? Any and all advice appreciated, even if it’s that we’re being paranoid!”

    The most popular response to his thread was by ZZBC.

    Any chance your wife is pregnant?

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    The potential news hit Girlfriendhatesmefor like a ton of bricks. A few days later, Girlfriendhatesmefor posted an update and ZZBC was right!

    “The wifey is pregnant!” the father-to-be wrote. “Otis is still being overprotective but it all makes sense now! Thanks for all the advice and kind words! Sorry for the delayed reply, I didn’t check back until just now!”

    Redditors responded with similar experiences.

    Anecdotal I know but I swear my dog knew I was pregnant before I was. He was super clingy (more than normal) and was always resting his head on my belly.

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    So why do dogs get overprotective when someone is pregnant?

    Jeff Werber, PhD, president and chief veterinarian of the Century Veterinary Group in Los Angeles, told Health.com that “dogs can also smell the hormonal changes going on in a woman’s body at that time.” He added the dog may “not understand that this new scent of your skin and breath is caused by a developing baby, but they will know that something is different with you—which might cause them to be more curious or attentive.”

    The big lesson here is to listen to your pets and to ask questions when their behavior abruptly changes. They may be trying to tell you something, and the news may be life-changing.

    This article originally appeared last year.

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    Why mass shootings spawn conspiracy theories

    Mass shootings and conspiracy theories have a long history.

    While conspiracy theories are not limited to any topic, there is one type of event that seems particularly likely to spark them: mass shootings, typically defined as attacks in which a shooter kills at least four other people.

    When one person kills many others in a single incident, particularly when it seems random, people naturally seek out answers for why the tragedy happened. After all, if a mass shooting is random, anyone can be a target.

    Pointing to some nefarious plan by a powerful group – such as the government – can be more comforting than the idea that the attack was the result of a disturbed or mentally ill individual who obtained a firearm legally.


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