It’s time to face some facts: As it stands now, it would take a small miracle to get Samy legally resettled into the United States. I’m not yet ruling it out, and neither is he, and there are certainly still some unlikely avenues worth exploring. But the bureaucratic systems that enable refugee resettlement in the United States and Thailand remain at odds, and have the end effect of putting Samy in a deadlock indefinitely.

Which doesn’t mean we’re going to stop trying to find a way to make it work. But it does mean it’s time to consider some other feasible final destinations for Samy—specifically, countries with more flexible immigration laws than the United States. There aren’t as many as you might think, but there are nations out there that allow refugees entry on a less-strict basis, and some that even allow their citizens to sponsor particular refugees’ resettlement directly, like Australia and Canada.

Here’s where it gets really interesting: it just so happens that Samy may have found another ally in a Canadian named William, who met Samy shortly after I did. He’s currently preparing Samy’s resettlement application for the Canadian government, which means that as it stands, the Great White North is the leading contender for becoming Samy’s new home.

But why is Canada so different from the United States? Marina Sharpe, our ever-handy, always-sagely human rights lawyer, explains: “The theory is that Canada wants to be a safe haven for persecuted people. And Canada recognizes that there are people in need of international protection who don’t meet the [United Nations’] very restrictive definition, and that there are people who maybe are refugees but can’t access refugee status because the country they fled to hasn’t signed the Convention—or for whatever reason.”

Canada’s government is aware—and I think the U.S. government should be as well—that the technical definition of a refugee excludes hundreds of millions of people who face threats like persecution, hunger, and disease exposure in their country of origin. This includes Samy: He’s persecuted, stateless, and unable to return home, and yet according to the United Nations, he is not technically a refugee. Which is why Canada’s more flexible resettlement criteria may give him a much better shot at starting a new life than the States can.

“Basically a lot of Canadian groups, especially church groups, have availed themselves of this Canadian law, that allows a group of Canadians to bring a person of humanitarian concern—so it doesn’t have to be a refugee—to Canada for resettlement, provided that the people bringing the person to the sponsors make an undertaking to support the person financially,” Sharpe says.

And that’s where the other big difference lies. In Canada, if you want to sponsor a refugee yourself, then there’s a legal framework in which you can do so. The sponsor will typically join a group of other people interested in helping, pledge to support the refugee, and make a commitment to financially support him or her for at least a year. “They allow these people to come to Canada provided they won’t become a burden on the state, which is why private individuals undertake to sponsor them,” Sharpe says. She calls this “another route,” noting that “it’s entirely outside the refugee sphere.”

The most proactive thing an American can do to help an individual refugee is either A) Donate some cash to, volunteer with, or find a job with a refugee group that does this sort of work, or B) Do what I’m doing and try your best to haplessly advocate for the individual, which includes making a bunch of long distance phone calls really late at night, bothering nice aide workers, and damning yourself to consistent frustration. (B is not recommended.)

This Canadian route is huge: It means that the biggest catch—the fickle, esoteric Thai government agency that hasn’t granted Samy refugee status—may actually have a straightforward workaround.

Which brings us back to William, a man who, it turns out, may be in a far better position to help Samy than I. Because he’s Canadian.

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    Dogs have impressive observational powers.Photo credit: Canva

    Reddit user Girlfriendhatesmefor’s three-year-old pitbull, Otis, had recently become overprotective of his wife. So he asked the online community if they knew what might be wrong with the dog.

    “A week or two ago, my wife got some sort of stomach bug,” the Reddit user wrote under the subreddit /r/dogs. “She was really nauseous and ill for about a week. Otis is very in tune with her emotions (we once got in a fight and she was upset, I swear he was staring daggers at me lol) and during this time didn’t even want to leave her to go on walks. We thought it was adorable!”

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    Girlfriendhatesmefor began to fear that Otis’ behavior may be an early sign of an aggression issue or an indication that the dog was hurt or sick.

    So he threw a question out to fellow Reddit users: “Has anyone else’s dog suddenly developed attachment/aggression issues? Any and all advice appreciated, even if it’s that we’re being paranoid!”

    The most popular response to his thread was by ZZBC.

    Any chance your wife is pregnant?

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    The potential news hit Girlfriendhatesmefor like a ton of bricks. A few days later, Girlfriendhatesmefor posted an update and ZZBC was right!

    “The wifey is pregnant!” the father-to-be wrote. “Otis is still being overprotective but it all makes sense now! Thanks for all the advice and kind words! Sorry for the delayed reply, I didn’t check back until just now!”

    Redditors responded with similar experiences.

    Anecdotal I know but I swear my dog knew I was pregnant before I was. He was super clingy (more than normal) and was always resting his head on my belly.

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    So why do dogs get overprotective when someone is pregnant?

    Jeff Werber, PhD, president and chief veterinarian of the Century Veterinary Group in Los Angeles, told Health.com that “dogs can also smell the hormonal changes going on in a woman’s body at that time.” He added the dog may “not understand that this new scent of your skin and breath is caused by a developing baby, but they will know that something is different with you—which might cause them to be more curious or attentive.”

    The big lesson here is to listen to your pets and to ask questions when their behavior abruptly changes. They may be trying to tell you something, and the news may be life-changing.

    This article originally appeared last year.

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