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Activism paired with social activities makes for a fun way to connect with a politically engaged community.

In between courses of English pea bisque and roasted Jidori chicken during a recent dinner, a group of 40 strangers were all talking on their cell phones. It’s a typical scene at The Standard Hotel in downtown Los Angeles, but tonight, the callers had a distinct mission. They were each making calls to their senators, asking for support of undocumented youths who were brought to the United States as children, and whose protected statuses under the Obama-era’s Deferred Action for Childhood Arrivals (DACA) program are now in jeopardy. For some of these callers, it was their first experience phoning up a lawmaker. And for others, it was their first time meeting DACA recipients, also known as DREAMers, who shared their stories of struggle and activism throughout the evening.

The gathering was part of a Dinners for DACA series helmed by SameSide, a company operating out of L.A. and Denver, with a unique business model that blends social activism with fun, engaging activities. Their goal is to bring budding activists into the fold. For this particular event, each participant purchased a $35 ticket for a casual three-course dinner and introduction on ways they could help DREAMers and their families. SameSide streamlined this experience by providing easy phone scripts and postcards to send to legislators too.

This company’s approach is part of a growing trend of folks trying to find creative methods to build stronger community activism that extends past a one-time march or donation, or the ubiquitous social media slacktivsm that plays out in Facebook screeds.

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Co-founders — and brother-sister duo — David Legacki, 40, and Nicole àBeckett, 36, first came up with the idea of SameSide soon after Donald Trump was elected president. After àBeckett attended the Women’s March in Washington, D.C. in January 2016, she wanted to figure out a way to sustain that energy and engagement. She had experience participating in politics, having worked under former L.A. Mayor Antonio Villaraigosa and current Mayor Eric Garcetti, but she wanted to create a new form of social engagement. That’s when she partnered with Legacki, a former U.S. Navy SEAL, who had a similar ideas about community building.

“I was working on Airbnb Experiences at the time and I was wondering if there was a way to marry building community and experiences with fun, unique individuals at a local level,” Legacki says.

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SameSide held their first event in March 2017 in support of Sara Hernandez, a progressive L.A. candidate running for a vacated seat in the 34th Congressional District. Legacki and àBeckett managed to bring out 10 people to phone bank for Hernandez, and topped it off with a local brewery tour. “Everyone was intimidated at first, but by the end of the phone-banking experience, they were joking with one another, giving each other high fives and were able to convert people over to Sara Hernandez’s campaign,” Legacki says.

This test-run showed Legacki and àBeckett that their business model could work, that people just needed an easy entry point into activism. “We created this to make grassroots political action accessible, and [we are doing this] through music, arts and culture events, things that people can relate to and feel comfortable [attending],” says àBeckett.

Since then, SameSide has held a bevy of events with similar letter-writing and phone-banking engagement. They’ve hosted dance, music, and comedy festivals that support refugees, a wine tasting for Planned Parenthood, a yoga class supporting the homeless population, and an urban-garden tour and lunch aimed to aid low-income families.

While SameSide has hosted some free events and are looking into other models, typically their experiences are ticketed, ranging from $15 to $100. These events aren’t fundraisers. Hosts are allowed to set their own prices — 85% goes directly to them, and 15% goes to SameSide for marketing and operations. Legacki and àBeckett says charging for these experiences is crucial to their model.

They’ve deduced that if hosts were to volunteer their time and resources, they wouldn’t be able to put on these events on a consistent basis, so that’s where incentivizing the experiences comes in. The hosts can choose what they want to do with the money, either donating it to a cause or keeping it for themselves.

In return, SameSide asks the hosts to helm these experiences at least twice a month, to ensure they don’t become one-off events. Legacki says they approach leaders from diverse ethnic and socioeconomic backgrounds, as a way to also bring people out to underserved communities and “spark a huge political movement.”

“If they’re hosting twice a month, then those letters start adding up in legislators’ letter-boxes and emails, and phone calls start adding up,” Legacki says.

Legacki and àBeckett are now working on expanding SameSide to other cities throughout California, Colorado, and North Carolina, and strategizing on new locations where they’ll be most influential for this year’s midterm elections.

There’s still a lot of work to be done, just like for activists and DREAMers Claudia Roldan of Coalition for Humane Immigrant Rights of Los Angeles’ California Dream Network, and Karen Zapien, Dream Team LA‘s chief policy analyst, who both attended the dinners for DACA event. Their attendance at the SameSide event and their interactions with these newcomers to activism was just the beginning. By helping with SameSide’s indirect action campaign, Roldan and Zapien were not just fighting for themselves, but also for everyone else whose lives are in limbo. Roldan is no stranger to action. Recently she protested in a legislator’s office, where she and other DACA recipients led a chant: “If you don’t let us dream, we won’t let you sleep.”

That mantra could be a good motto for the mission of SameSide too.

  • Man’s dog suddenly becomes protective of his wife, Internet clocks the reason right away
    Dogs have impressive observational powers.Photo credit: Canva

    Reddit user Girlfriendhatesmefor’s three-year-old pitbull, Otis, had recently become overprotective of his wife. So he asked the online community if they knew what might be wrong with the dog.

    “A week or two ago, my wife got some sort of stomach bug,” the Reddit user wrote under the subreddit /r/dogs. “She was really nauseous and ill for about a week. Otis is very in tune with her emotions (we once got in a fight and she was upset, I swear he was staring daggers at me lol) and during this time didn’t even want to leave her to go on walks. We thought it was adorable!”

    His wife soon felt better, butthe dog’s behavior didn’t change.

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    Otis knew before they did. Canva

    Girlfriendhatesmefor began to fear that Otis’ behavior may be an early sign of an aggression issue or an indication that the dog was hurt or sick.

    So he threw a question out to fellow Reddit users: “Has anyone else’s dog suddenly developed attachment/aggression issues? Any and all advice appreciated, even if it’s that we’re being paranoid!”

    The most popular response to his thread was by ZZBC.

    Any chance your wife is pregnant?

    ZZBC | Reddit

    The potential news hit Girlfriendhatesmefor like a ton of bricks. A few days later, Girlfriendhatesmefor posted an update and ZZBC was right!

    “The wifey is pregnant!” the father-to-be wrote. “Otis is still being overprotective but it all makes sense now! Thanks for all the advice and kind words! Sorry for the delayed reply, I didn’t check back until just now!”

    Redditors responded with similar experiences.

    Anecdotal I know but I swear my dog knew I was pregnant before I was. He was super clingy (more than normal) and was always resting his head on my belly.

    realityisworse | Reddit

    So why do dogs get overprotective when someone is pregnant?

    Jeff Werber, PhD, president and chief veterinarian of the Century Veterinary Group in Los Angeles, told Health.com that “dogs can also smell the hormonal changes going on in a woman’s body at that time.” He added the dog may “not understand that this new scent of your skin and breath is caused by a developing baby, but they will know that something is different with you—which might cause them to be more curious or attentive.”

    The big lesson here is to listen to your pets and to ask questions when their behavior abruptly changes. They may be trying to tell you something, and the news may be life-changing.

    This article originally appeared last year.

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    When one person kills many others in a single incident, particularly when it seems random, people naturally seek out answers for why the tragedy happened. After all, if a mass shooting is random, anyone can be a target.

    Pointing to some nefarious plan by a powerful group – such as the government – can be more comforting than the idea that the attack was the result of a disturbed or mentally ill individual who obtained a firearm legally.


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