A new ad has caught some attention lately for its jarring message behind a seemingly innocuous high school romance. If you’re not a fan of spoilers, watch the ad below before reading on.


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To call it eye-opening would be an understatement. Like an optical illusion, once you see it for what it really is, there’s no going back to your original viewpoint. If the disorienting ending and replay of crucial scenes recalibrated the way you think about the modern high school experience, then Sandy Hook Promise, the nonprofit behind the ad, has achieved its purpose.

Organized by family members who lost loved ones to the Sandy Hook Elementary School shooting nearly four years ago, the nonpartisan group hopes to spread awareness with this public service announcement about the early warning signs we often fail to see or dismiss. Sandy Hook Promise co-founder and managing director Nicole Hockley lost her six-year-old son in the Sandy Hook massacre and aims to educate people over the course of the organization’s “Know the Signs” campaign. In an interview with Adweek, she said, “When you don’t know what to look for, or can’t recognize what you are seeing, it can be easy to miss warning signs or dismiss them as unimportant. That can lead to tragic consequences.”

Not sure what kind of behavioral red flags be mindful of? According to Sandy Hook Promise, there are a few warning signs that, when combined and observed over a period of time, can signal someone might be considering violence or self-harm. For instance, an intense obsession with firearms combined with aggressive behavior, lack of control, or sudden changes in academic performance should be cause for concern. Extreme isolation from peers can exacerbate an underlying problem, as can mental illness. Of course, explicit threats of violence—whether seen in person or via social media—should never be ignored, since the majority of shooters tell someone beforehand.

Being aware of early indicators has never been more important, considering that 186 school shootings took place between the 2012 Sandy Hook massacre and this past June. Averaged out, that’s nearly one shooting per week. Until American legislators catch up with the rest of the world on gun control, we have to take it upon ourselves to prevent horrific acts of violence.

  • Man’s dog suddenly becomes protective of his wife, Internet clocks the reason right away
    Dogs have impressive observational powers.Photo credit: Canva

    Reddit user Girlfriendhatesmefor’s three-year-old pitbull, Otis, had recently become overprotective of his wife. So he asked the online community if they knew what might be wrong with the dog.

    “A week or two ago, my wife got some sort of stomach bug,” the Reddit user wrote under the subreddit /r/dogs. “She was really nauseous and ill for about a week. Otis is very in tune with her emotions (we once got in a fight and she was upset, I swear he was staring daggers at me lol) and during this time didn’t even want to leave her to go on walks. We thought it was adorable!”

    His wife soon felt better, butthe dog’s behavior didn’t change.

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    Girlfriendhatesmefor began to fear that Otis’ behavior may be an early sign of an aggression issue or an indication that the dog was hurt or sick.

    So he threw a question out to fellow Reddit users: “Has anyone else’s dog suddenly developed attachment/aggression issues? Any and all advice appreciated, even if it’s that we’re being paranoid!”

    The most popular response to his thread was by ZZBC.

    Any chance your wife is pregnant?

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    The potential news hit Girlfriendhatesmefor like a ton of bricks. A few days later, Girlfriendhatesmefor posted an update and ZZBC was right!

    “The wifey is pregnant!” the father-to-be wrote. “Otis is still being overprotective but it all makes sense now! Thanks for all the advice and kind words! Sorry for the delayed reply, I didn’t check back until just now!”

    Redditors responded with similar experiences.

    Anecdotal I know but I swear my dog knew I was pregnant before I was. He was super clingy (more than normal) and was always resting his head on my belly.

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    So why do dogs get overprotective when someone is pregnant?

    Jeff Werber, PhD, president and chief veterinarian of the Century Veterinary Group in Los Angeles, told Health.com that “dogs can also smell the hormonal changes going on in a woman’s body at that time.” He added the dog may “not understand that this new scent of your skin and breath is caused by a developing baby, but they will know that something is different with you—which might cause them to be more curious or attentive.”

    The big lesson here is to listen to your pets and to ask questions when their behavior abruptly changes. They may be trying to tell you something, and the news may be life-changing.

    This article originally appeared last year.

  • Throughout history, women have stood up and fought to break down barriers imposed on them from stereotypes and societal expectations. The trailblazers in these photos made history and redefined what a woman could be. In doing so, they paved the way for future generations to stand up and continue to fight for equality.

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    Why mass shootings spawn conspiracy theories

    Mass shootings and conspiracy theories have a long history.

    While conspiracy theories are not limited to any topic, there is one type of event that seems particularly likely to spark them: mass shootings, typically defined as attacks in which a shooter kills at least four other people.

    When one person kills many others in a single incident, particularly when it seems random, people naturally seek out answers for why the tragedy happened. After all, if a mass shooting is random, anyone can be a target.

    Pointing to some nefarious plan by a powerful group – such as the government – can be more comforting than the idea that the attack was the result of a disturbed or mentally ill individual who obtained a firearm legally.


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