What should you do if you need to build a team fast? Community engagement in a workspace can feel like herding cats, or even alligators. Collaboration should have an air of fun and levity, while also keeping its structure. What are some methods that you can use at your nonprofit, tech company, university, or even at a mom-and-pop store?


Here’s a snapshot of how to generate a meaningful and effective collaboration session:

1. Drop the titles.

Nothing is more off-putting than hot shots who think they’re hot shots. When you work as a team, make a conscious effort to toss the job titles, degrees, ego, judgement, and instead build as one.

2. Build a space and begin your recess.

Collaboration often entails moving furniture. Clear out the chairs! Make people stand. People think better and at a more rapid pace while on their feet. Lay out paper, pens, and Post-its on tables to make people share their ideas. Then, post these thoughts on a “board of ideas” and come back together as a group.

3. Move people closer to the board of ideas.

Some people tend to be cautious and hang back rather than jump into a collaborative session. A designer named Joe Brown teaches a trick to get people to engage by moving objects behind the team: use tables or large objects so that people can’t back away from the Board of Ideas. In a tighter space, people hesitate to move to the back of the room; instead, this physical hurdle encourages people to add new ideas to the collaborative session.

4. “Yes, and” is the most important rule at the start of collaboration.

At Stanford’s d.school, students and executives move into the design thinking sessions by setting the tone for a collaborative mindset by playing a game called “Yes, and.” This game goes like this:

Say an idea and the next person must build upon that idea. For example:

(Person 1) “We are going on a hot-balloon ride and I’ll bring some figs.”

(Person 2): “Yes, and I will bring the water guns.”

(Person 3): “Yes, and after that we will write a story about the adventure.”

The “Yes, and” framing helps the group to build upon each person instead of blocking the collaborative spirit, which, at its infancy, is the genesis of a fine teamwork session.

5. Open up, democratize and refine.

Collaboration sessions have a strong affinity for thick pens and colorful Post-its. After people post their thoughts on the board of ideas, have the group vote on the best ideas using even smaller colored Post-it notes. A democratic method helps people to find equal footing in the voting process and bring the group towards a more united goal in the collaboration.

Here’s to more opportunities to build and learn, both at work and the playground of life.

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  • Man’s dog suddenly becomes protective of his wife, Internet clocks the reason right away
    Dogs have impressive observational powers.Photo credit: Canva

    Reddit user Girlfriendhatesmefor’s three-year-old pitbull, Otis, had recently become overprotective of his wife. So he asked the online community if they knew what might be wrong with the dog.

    “A week or two ago, my wife got some sort of stomach bug,” the Reddit user wrote under the subreddit /r/dogs. “She was really nauseous and ill for about a week. Otis is very in tune with her emotions (we once got in a fight and she was upset, I swear he was staring daggers at me lol) and during this time didn’t even want to leave her to go on walks. We thought it was adorable!”

    His wife soon felt better, butthe dog’s behavior didn’t change.

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    Girlfriendhatesmefor began to fear that Otis’ behavior may be an early sign of an aggression issue or an indication that the dog was hurt or sick.

    So he threw a question out to fellow Reddit users: “Has anyone else’s dog suddenly developed attachment/aggression issues? Any and all advice appreciated, even if it’s that we’re being paranoid!”

    The most popular response to his thread was by ZZBC.

    Any chance your wife is pregnant?

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    The potential news hit Girlfriendhatesmefor like a ton of bricks. A few days later, Girlfriendhatesmefor posted an update and ZZBC was right!

    “The wifey is pregnant!” the father-to-be wrote. “Otis is still being overprotective but it all makes sense now! Thanks for all the advice and kind words! Sorry for the delayed reply, I didn’t check back until just now!”

    Redditors responded with similar experiences.

    Anecdotal I know but I swear my dog knew I was pregnant before I was. He was super clingy (more than normal) and was always resting his head on my belly.

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    So why do dogs get overprotective when someone is pregnant?

    Jeff Werber, PhD, president and chief veterinarian of the Century Veterinary Group in Los Angeles, told Health.com that “dogs can also smell the hormonal changes going on in a woman’s body at that time.” He added the dog may “not understand that this new scent of your skin and breath is caused by a developing baby, but they will know that something is different with you—which might cause them to be more curious or attentive.”

    The big lesson here is to listen to your pets and to ask questions when their behavior abruptly changes. They may be trying to tell you something, and the news may be life-changing.

    This article originally appeared last year.

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    Why mass shootings spawn conspiracy theories

    Mass shootings and conspiracy theories have a long history.

    While conspiracy theories are not limited to any topic, there is one type of event that seems particularly likely to spark them: mass shootings, typically defined as attacks in which a shooter kills at least four other people.

    When one person kills many others in a single incident, particularly when it seems random, people naturally seek out answers for why the tragedy happened. After all, if a mass shooting is random, anyone can be a target.

    Pointing to some nefarious plan by a powerful group – such as the government – can be more comforting than the idea that the attack was the result of a disturbed or mentally ill individual who obtained a firearm legally.


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