Things are easier said than done, or so the old adage goes, and we couldn’t agree more. That’s why we do The GOOD 30-Day Challenge (#30DaysofGOOD), a monthly attempt to live better. Our challenge for December? Creative microphilanthropy.

You’ve filled near-empty parking meters. You’ve left money on stairwells to reward exercise. Some of you have even given money to hikers to encourage clean parks.

These individual acts of generosity are, in a word, enough. We live in a world where we too often focus exclusively on our own to-do lists and our own financial stability, and little else. So just by breaking out of that box, you accomplished something huge. But you know what might be even better? Basking in the company of others who have done something out of the ordinary too.

That’s what The Secret Society for Creative Philanthropy is all about: It’s essentially the GOOD 30-Day Challenge, made into a party. If you liked the little jolt of oxytocin that you got from your one creative act of microphilanthropy this month, imagine hearing 10 or 20 other stories just like yours. Trust us, the love gets pretty palpable.

It’s easy to get started. Give $100 each to some friends (we often start with 10), and ask them to give it away in some creative way over the course of a month. At the end of the month, host a party—bars, living rooms, workplaces, even campfires work—and invite everyone to share their experiences. You will notice strange similarities, hear delightful patterns, and be surprised by the ingenuity of your motley group of friends. Or so they tell us in Seattle, Boston, Minneapolis, New York, San Francisco, New Orleans, Washington D.C., and Athens, Georgia, where there are local chapters.

If $1,000 feels like a crazy amount of money, consider how much you spent on your last flat-screen television. If it still feels crazy, ask some others join you in donating to the pool. If you convince 10 friends to give away $100, your party is set. We’ve found that the $100 increment is perfect—it’s not enough to feel like a huge burden, but it’s not so little that they can get away with not taking it seriously.

And that’s just one way to collectivize your giving instincts. Check out the One Percent Foundation (named before Occupy redefined the term), which combines many people’s small donations, thus increasing the impact of small-scale philanthropists on great nonprofit organizations. Or get involved in Citizen Effect, where you can become a “citizen philanthropist” by picking a cause you care about and leveraging your social network to help people in your own community. Or go to a SPARK party, learn about ways in which grassroots organizations are improving the lives of girls and women around the world, and join this explosive community of philanthropic young professionals.

In other words, though the challenge is officially over, your adventures in creative microphilanthropy don’t have to end here. It’s a new year, after all. Make it a resolution. Make it a ritual. Make it a party. Your 2012 will be better for it.

Photo via (cc) Flickr user mwiththeat

  • Man’s dog suddenly becomes protective of his wife, Internet clocks the reason right away
    Dogs have impressive observational powers.Photo credit: Canva

    Reddit user Girlfriendhatesmefor’s three-year-old pitbull, Otis, had recently become overprotective of his wife. So he asked the online community if they knew what might be wrong with the dog.

    “A week or two ago, my wife got some sort of stomach bug,” the Reddit user wrote under the subreddit /r/dogs. “She was really nauseous and ill for about a week. Otis is very in tune with her emotions (we once got in a fight and she was upset, I swear he was staring daggers at me lol) and during this time didn’t even want to leave her to go on walks. We thought it was adorable!”

    His wife soon felt better, butthe dog’s behavior didn’t change.

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    Otis knew before they did. Canva

    Girlfriendhatesmefor began to fear that Otis’ behavior may be an early sign of an aggression issue or an indication that the dog was hurt or sick.

    So he threw a question out to fellow Reddit users: “Has anyone else’s dog suddenly developed attachment/aggression issues? Any and all advice appreciated, even if it’s that we’re being paranoid!”

    The most popular response to his thread was by ZZBC.

    Any chance your wife is pregnant?

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    The potential news hit Girlfriendhatesmefor like a ton of bricks. A few days later, Girlfriendhatesmefor posted an update and ZZBC was right!

    “The wifey is pregnant!” the father-to-be wrote. “Otis is still being overprotective but it all makes sense now! Thanks for all the advice and kind words! Sorry for the delayed reply, I didn’t check back until just now!”

    Redditors responded with similar experiences.

    Anecdotal I know but I swear my dog knew I was pregnant before I was. He was super clingy (more than normal) and was always resting his head on my belly.

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    So why do dogs get overprotective when someone is pregnant?

    Jeff Werber, PhD, president and chief veterinarian of the Century Veterinary Group in Los Angeles, told Health.com that “dogs can also smell the hormonal changes going on in a woman’s body at that time.” He added the dog may “not understand that this new scent of your skin and breath is caused by a developing baby, but they will know that something is different with you—which might cause them to be more curious or attentive.”

    The big lesson here is to listen to your pets and to ask questions when their behavior abruptly changes. They may be trying to tell you something, and the news may be life-changing.

    This article originally appeared last year.

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    Mass shootings and conspiracy theories have a long history.

    While conspiracy theories are not limited to any topic, there is one type of event that seems particularly likely to spark them: mass shootings, typically defined as attacks in which a shooter kills at least four other people.

    When one person kills many others in a single incident, particularly when it seems random, people naturally seek out answers for why the tragedy happened. After all, if a mass shooting is random, anyone can be a target.

    Pointing to some nefarious plan by a powerful group – such as the government – can be more comforting than the idea that the attack was the result of a disturbed or mentally ill individual who obtained a firearm legally.


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