Sleep is a quintessential restorative therapy that humans cannot live without. After a day of rumbling with hustle and bustle, one needs a restful moment to relax and retire into a tranquil slumber. However, for scientific minds, sleep isn’t just about climbing on the bed and dozing off. It is also about which side of the bed one picks for sleeping. In the past few months, a debate has been stirring the feeds of TikTok, regarding the correlation between the side of the bed one sleeps on and their personality. In a viral video, celebrity content creator Jordan Howlett (@jordan_the_stallion8) unfurled the science behind this connection with some brilliant research-based facts.

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Representative Image Source: Pexels | Olly

Jordan is the founder of what he calls the “Fast Food Secrets Club.” He is also a famed public figure, popular for sharing tidbits of modern wisdom, love of food, and opinions on various topics brewing with a sense of humor. This particular video by Jordan is a #stitch video with Angelina & Skyler (@renovatingourhome) who posted a video saying she doesn’t have a regular side on the bed that she chooses to sleep on. She asked TikTokers if not picking a side on the bed was actually crazy. Jordan’s video opens with repeating Angelina’s video.

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Representative Image Source: Pexels | Kampus

Then, Jordan responds to it saying, “I don’t think people understand, if you share a bed with somebody, you’ll know that there’s a side. You pick a side of the bed and you normally do not change sides, especially with married couples. And did you actually know, that research suggests that psychologically speaking, humans will pick a side of the bed due to attitude towards work, personality, and income?”


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He went on to elaborate on what this research says about people picking different sides of the bed. He revealed that people who sleep on the left side of the bed, have “a more positive outlook on life. They can deal with heavy workloads. They’re not easily phased by stressful days, and they are calmer in a crisis than their counterpart. And they are more confident.” On the other side, people who sleep on the right side of the bed “earn more money, have a less positive outlook on life, but are more prepared for worst-case scenarios than their counterparts.” He concluded the video by adding, “People who are claustrophobic, naturally choose to sleep near the wall.”


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As it turns out, many studies have been carried out on this connection between bed’s side and personality traits. According to USA Today, one study conducted by OnePoll for Slumber Cloud analyzed the sleeping preferences of 2,000 Americans. The researchers found that someone who sleeps on the left side of the bed is more likely to be left-brained, imaginative, and creative. Lefties also prefer oldies music, drama flicks, and beer and often lean more left politically. And those who sleep on the right side are probably more right-brained, analytical, and logical. They may also enjoy rock music, action movies, and wine.


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However, there are always other factors operating behind this choice. According to the study, 40 percent of people select the side of the bed that’s easiest for them to get in and out of, while 31 percent make their decision based on what their partner prefers. Another 25 percent choose the side that has the best view of the TV. True to what the study says, people in the comment section expressed that they usually chose sides of the bed based on how close it is to the door, the bathroom, the TV, or their nightstand.

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“For me, it doesn’t matter which side of the bed I sleep on, as long as I’m closer to the door. It’s so I can get to the kids if needed,” commented @cleverusernamehere104. @justapeachlol added, “I sleep on the left side because I want easier access to the bathroom in the middle of the night.” @nonspecificnomenclature said, “I sleep on the side closest to the door so if someone breaks in they have to go through me to get to her.”

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Image Source: TikTok | @danamarie1113

@kpnp79 also said that they have designated bed sides even in hotels, “We even stick to the same side of the bed in hotels,” and @luvmy3nerds said the same thing, “Even in a hotel room we sleep on the same sides.” Other people gave hilarious and witty responses to the video. For example, @ms.smo quipped, “And people who sleep in the middle of the bed have been single for too long!” @_jamie_luv burst into a hysteria of laughter emojis and said, “I sleep closest to wherever I can charge my phone!”



You can follow Jordan Howlett on TikTok and Instagram for contemporary wisdom and food-related content.

  • Young boy struggles through painful stutter until his singing videos change everything 
    Photo credit: WQAD News 8/YouTubeLando sings.
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    Young boy struggles through painful stutter until his singing videos change everything 

    “One kids courage to show up, speak up, and sing his voice free.”

    A boy named Lando is gaining attention online after people started sharing and liking the two very different kinds of videos he creates. In one, he candidly speaks with a severe stutter. In the other, he sings smoothly, without the same pauses and repetitions that appear when he talks.

    Perhaps it’s the dramatic contrast that has people liking and clicking. For whatever reason, as Lando shares on his website, #stutterfreelando, he’s created an awareness movement around stuttering “born from one kid’s courage to show up, speak up, and sing his voice free.”

    The young entertainer is easy to like

    Finding a young person navigating his speech difficulties so charismatically and confidently is admirable. He’s not wavering under the spotlight. He’s shining.

    His family shares about their experience and the methods they’ve found helpful with his stutter on their website:

    “This is a family journey. We’re one of millions of families around the world navigating stuttering to learn what works, what doesn’t, and figuring it out as we go. Some of what we share helps Lando. Some might not. We’re learning that every stutterer is different. No more hiding.”

    Facing a severe stutter can be more complicated than practicing with a speech therapist.

    Traditional therapy hasn’t given us the breakthroughs we need. Therapists are trying. We are trying. But we refuse to sit quietly and hope it clicks. So we built this, a movement where our family shares what we’re learning out loud. Real strategies. Real techniques. Lando’s good days and the hard ones. Not a highlight reel. Not a gofund me. Real life.”

    @stutterfreelando

    50,000 followers on Instagram and the news is coming to do a segment on my journey! 🎉 What started as simply sharing the journey of living with a stutter has grown into an amazing community. Thank you to every single person who follows, supports, and encourages this page. Your kindness and positivity mean the world. Together we’re helping show that stuttering is nothing to hide, it’s something we can talk about and grow through. So grateful for all of you. Here’s to the next chapter! ❤️ #stutter #journey #kids #inspire #awareness

    ♬ CELEBRATION – Forrest Frank

    It feels good to join a winning team

    After watching any of his videos, it’s clear why so many people keep coming back.

    In one clip, Lando talks about reaching 50,000 followers on Instagram and an upcoming interview with a local news outlet. The message expressed with gratitude and happiness is simple, but it takes time for him to get there. That process draws people in.

    “Congratulations on your followers, add one more”

    “Great work buddy!”

    “Ah Lando, I’m really enjoying your videos”

    “That excitement is so cute! I love how supportive everyone has been!”

    “Great job little man keep it going. You inspire a lot of people with the same problem.”

    “thankyou for sharing, your super cool.”

    @stutterfreelando

    You asked, he delivered! 🎤 Someone requested Lando take on the ultimate internet classic, Never Gonna Give You Up” and let me tell you, he absolutely CRUSHED it. Singing has been such a powerful part of his journey, and moments like this show just how far confidence and courage can take you💙 #StutteringAwareness #FindingYourVoice #RickRoll #NeverGonnaGiveYouUp #proudparent

    ♬ Never Gonna Give You Up – Remastered 2022 – Rick Astley

    Singing allows his words to come out in a continuous flow

    The difference isn’t subtle. In speech, words can stall and be difficult to get out. In song, they move by the rhythm that reduces stops. These are some of the comments you can find on just one of his singing videos posted above:

    “GOD BLESS YOU LANDO!!!!! YOU ARE ABSOLUTELY AMAZING!!!!!”

    “The eyebrows at the end was fire.”

    “You are an inspiration”

    “Brilliant buddy”

    “… sounding smooth.”

    “Lando with the great voice!!!”

    “Now … this kid has charisma!!!”

    @stutterfreelando

    Big shoutout to Jermaine, Lando’s barberfor this incredible surprise 🙌⚾️ My son was beyond excited to receive this custom Phillies jersey, such a thoughtful and meaningful gift. It’s more than just a jersey, it’s support, encouragement, and belief in what he’s building 💙❤️ Moments like this remind us how powerful community can be. Thank you for always showing love and helping him share his voice with confidence! 🫶 #stutter #fluency #phillies #inspire #journey

    ♬ original sound – Stutterfreelando

    A courageous little showman

    Lando’s videos stand out not just for singing or stuttering, but because both are available, openly shared, without one being hidden or edited out of view. There’s no attempt to turn it all into a single narrative of struggle or success. Instead, what people see is a boy using his voice as it is.

    There is something instinctive about the way people rally around a kid like Lando. Sharing the hard parts and the moments that come more easily gives everyone a clear way to respond. Cheering him on, leaving a positive comment, or even just watching and listening allows each of us to take a small part in that effort.

    It’s less about celebrating the win and more about recognizing the work and the courage to keep going. Lando is talking and singing it out loud.

  • Homeowners swear by this simple ice cold hack that thoroughly makes your toilets cleaner
    Photo credit: CanvaMany believe cleaning the toilet properly starts by filling it with ice cubes.

    Most people welcome a new cleaning hack, especially if it involves the bathroom. Cleaning the toilet isn’t a fun task and getting it thoroughly spotless can get stinky real quick. However, there’s one hack that many homeowners say gets their toilets cleaner with less elbow grease. It involves emptying your ice tray.

    There are experts who recommend putting ice cubes down the toilet whenever it is time to clean.

    Toilet cleaning starts with your freezer

    This understandably sounds weird. Many people might remember flushing ice cubes down the toilet as a superstitious ritual during the winter months to “summon” a snow day from school. But to clean the toilet? That sounds like just as much as a myth. 

    But there is a logic to it and many homemakers suggest it. First, let’s get this out of the way and say that ice cubes aren’t being flushed to replace regular toilet cleaner. It’s actually being used to help the cleaner be more effective.

    So…how could ice help clean my toilet?

    Ice in the toilet bowl acts as a support for the toilet cleaner. Often, toilet cleaner drips down the side of the toilet bowl into the water and down the pipe. The ice allows the cleaner to cling to the bowl and its sides for longer, penetrating filth and disinfecting it more effectively.

    Here’s the gist on how it works: first, take a bowl of ice cubes and pour them into the toilet. Make sure you’re not filling it to the brim. Next, take your preferred toilet cleaning solution and pour/spray it onto the ice. Let the mixture sit for about 15 minutes to allow the cleaning solution to cling and disinfect the bowl. After that, use a toilet brush to stir and agitate the ice, ensuring that it is scraping all sides of the bowl. By this time, the ice should have melted enough to flush. 

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    Wait… ice cubes in the toilet?! 🧊😳 This cleaning trick blew my mind — and it actually works! Watch ‘til the end to see the magic happen! 👇✨ #lifehack #fyp #DIY #hometips #cleantok #cleanwithme #tiktokhacks #viral #tiktokdiy #tolet #ice #homecaretips

    ♬ I Think I Like When It Rains – WILLIS

    There are additional bonuses to using ice with toilet cleaner. The ice can also act as an abrasive pumice stone in addition to your toilet brush, scraping off mildew, mineral build-up, or other yucky things that could be stubbornly clinging to the bowl. The flushed ice could help clean the pipe similarly, dislodging filth and grime in conjunction with the toilet cleaner on its way down.

    Another benefit is reducing odor. Ice is known to absorb smells and could make cleaning a little less smelly. It’s one of the reasons why many restaurants, clubs, and bars put ice in men’s urinals.

    Many people who frequently travel and live in an RV also recommend flushing ice down their toilets. This is not just to clean the bowl, but to have the ice jostle and scrape the nasty stuff out of the black tank. While this method’s effectiveness in cleaning a black tank is put into question, critics still say that ice can help reduce smells and keep water in the black tank during hot days.

    Final tips (specifically “don’ts”)

    If you plan on giving this hack a try, be sure not to overflow your toilet with ice. Along with that, while most forms of ice work (cubes, crushed, or chips), putting larger blocks of ice in the toilet won’t do any good and could clog things up if they’re too big.

    It’s also important to use one cleaning solution and not mix a bunch together. Mixing cleaning products together could create fumes that are dangerous to inhale. It’s best to use your preferred cleaner and choose a different one next time if you’re getting the results you want.

  • Facebook group helps families without a ‘village’ find surrogate grandparents
    Photo credit: CanvaSurrogate grandparents laughing with small child.

    Raising kids today doesn’t match the historical “it takes a village” experience many grew up with. Not because people don’t care, but because life doesn’t seem to line up that way anymore. Families are spread out across the country and sometimes the world. Few grandparents live just up the street. There’s no built-in help for childcare and no extra sets of hands when things get overwhelming.

    In response to that missing piece in raising kids, some people have looked for other ways to create something similar. One path is Surrogate Grandparents – USA, a Facebook-based community that connects older adults with families.

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    An older man helps a boy water the plants.
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    Missing out on grandparents nearby, some find new ones online

    Founded in 2015, Surrogate Grandparents – USA offers a platform that works like a community bulletin board. The goal is to bring together families bereft of nearby grandparents with older adults looking to share that kind of family role.

    Over 14,000 members hope to make a surrogate family connection and the possibility of building real love. They describe the opportunity on their Facebook page as follows:

    “A surrogate grandparent is a volunteer or mentor who forms a supportive, grandparent-like relationship with a child or family who may not have local grandparents. These relationships can begin online or in person, often through platforms designed to connect families and older adults.”

    The typical online pattern might look like a family posting on the page that their children don’t have nearby grandparents and would love a consistent older presence in their lives. Someone responds. They all start talking. Then, they meet in person.

    Those introductions can turn into something steady with regular check-ins. Children receive the face-to-face guidance and experience that an older generation can offer. The surrogate grandparents gain a sense of purpose they hadn’t anticipated at this stage of their lives.

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    A family picnic.
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    Surrogate grandparent success stories

    One success story was shared in Newsweek. In 2019, Deborah Whatley, then aged 64, joined the Facebook group with her husband. Hoping to fill a need within their own lives, they connected with the Nelsons, and a beautiful relationship quickly blossomed.

    The families share photos, meet in person about every month, and text regularly. “We’ve met up more times than I can count,” explained Whatley. “I just wanted to feel included. I have the time, the energy, and the desire. Discovering the surrogate grandparents group instantly brought light back into a part of my life that had turned dark,” she added.

    CBS News reported that Anteres Anderson Turner and Louis Turner wished to extend their own family while raising twin boys. Janet Firestein Daw welcomed the idea of grandchildren in her life, saying, “I was getting older and I wanted to get down on the floor and play Legos and trains and read books.”

    After meeting through the Facebook group, the relationship between the two families really worked. Daw continued, “It’s indescribable for me, because I haven’t had that experience before to be that grandparent, and I love it.”

    Facebook closes the page

    Earlier this year, the Facebook group became inaccessible. There haven’t been any publicly reported reasons from Facebook itself. However, an administrator for the page shared, “Surrogate Grandparents-USA group was unfortunately erroneously removed by Meta. We are actively working to have it reinstated.”

    Thankfully, the page was reopened in time. In an Instagram post dated April 11, 2026, they said, “This morning, my Surrogate Grandparents-USA group was officially reinstated.” The post continues, “What a journey this has been—stressful, emotional, and at times incredibly disheartening. But I never stopped believing in the purpose of this community…and the power of speaking up when something isn’t right.”

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    An extended family at the park.
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    A shift in how family works

    The structures that used to hold families together aren’t as automatic as they once were. For a long time, grandparents lived nearby. Neighbors remained for decades. Communities were tighter, and lives were more interwoven. Support existed from a simple proximity.

    But families move. Relationships change. Career and circumstance have stretched people farther apart. Places like Surrogate Grandparents – USA fill roles that certain families are missing. It may not work for everyone, but for many, it’s a chance to build community in a whole new way.

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