Were Donald Trump’s comments about kissing women and “grabbing them by the p—-” really just “locker-room talk,” as he asserts?


Professional athletes already have come out against the characterization, asserting that the type of language Trump used isn’t heard in pro locker rooms—and even if it were, it wouldn’t be acceptable. Still, Trump’s comments are but an extreme example of the sometimes-sexist hypermasculinity bred in men’s locker rooms, which recent studies have shown is central to college athletes’ social development in those environments.

But those are 20-year-olds, not 70-year-olds. So the question remains: What about the locker rooms Trump might be more accustomed to using?

Trump owns 17 golf courses, about which he often boasts of their high-level quality. Included in each of these clubs are locker rooms that Trump is very proud of—so proud, in fact, that he gives tours of his women’s locker rooms while they are occupied. (On that occasion, he reportedly checked with an attendant before entering to ensure no one was undressed—though accusations exist regarding him strolling into locker rooms during his pageants while contestants were changing outfits.)

Trump’s golf course clubhouse locker rooms are are so beloved that lotteries have been held to determine locker assignment at Trump resorts.

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One course in particular has been in the news lately, as allegations that Trump said that some hostesses at his Trump National Golf Club Los Angeles in Rancho Palos Verdes, California, “weren’t pretty enough,” forcing managers to scramble to schedule “the most attractive women” to work when Trump was visiting.

The course, according to the Los Angeles Times, is Trump’s largest real estate holding in Southern California and boasts of top-notch amenities and spectacular views—and without question, the scenery is stunning.

According to the website’s description of the locker rooms, Trump National Los Angeles is:

Offering lockers and shower facilities, our stately locker rooms are elegantly decorated and offer guests an area to freshen up or prepare for their round.

The lockers at the Trump National Golf Club Westchester sport even more amenities:

Superbly appointed locker rooms are a welcome respite from spirited competition. Changing facilities and lounges join an array of spa services including steam and massage, all in an atmosphere that revives the spirit.

But what about the language and behavior? Are these the scenes where the infamous “locker-room talk” takes place?

GOOD spoke to a recreational golfer who has played at the course multiple times and is a member of another club in the Greater Los Angeles area. He did not wish to be identified by name, but we can say he is an adult white male who is married and has children.

He says on the occasions he has played the course, the locker room and clubhouse have been very quiet. Only the restaurant and bar areas typically had conversation, and that usually included golfers talking about their just-completed rounds.

“Most people were simply enjoying a kick-ass view from the bar, watching the ocean,” he said.

The golfer described the course overall as difficult, but classy and high-end.

“I have nothing but good things to say (about the course),” adding that in his years at his own club and playing at others in the area, “I have never heard any racial or gender disrespect.”

This seems to indicate, based on the robust sample size of one person, that the “locker-room talk” of which Trump speaks isn’t a constant presence in his own locker rooms. Maybe things were different in the locker room of Trump’s United States Football League team, the New Jersey Generals, in the ’80s?

  • Man’s dog suddenly becomes protective of his wife, Internet clocks the reason right away
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    Reddit user Girlfriendhatesmefor’s three-year-old pitbull, Otis, had recently become overprotective of his wife. So he asked the online community if they knew what might be wrong with the dog.

    “A week or two ago, my wife got some sort of stomach bug,” the Reddit user wrote under the subreddit /r/dogs. “She was really nauseous and ill for about a week. Otis is very in tune with her emotions (we once got in a fight and she was upset, I swear he was staring daggers at me lol) and during this time didn’t even want to leave her to go on walks. We thought it was adorable!”

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    Girlfriendhatesmefor began to fear that Otis’ behavior may be an early sign of an aggression issue or an indication that the dog was hurt or sick.

    So he threw a question out to fellow Reddit users: “Has anyone else’s dog suddenly developed attachment/aggression issues? Any and all advice appreciated, even if it’s that we’re being paranoid!”

    The most popular response to his thread was by ZZBC.

    Any chance your wife is pregnant?

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    The potential news hit Girlfriendhatesmefor like a ton of bricks. A few days later, Girlfriendhatesmefor posted an update and ZZBC was right!

    “The wifey is pregnant!” the father-to-be wrote. “Otis is still being overprotective but it all makes sense now! Thanks for all the advice and kind words! Sorry for the delayed reply, I didn’t check back until just now!”

    Redditors responded with similar experiences.

    Anecdotal I know but I swear my dog knew I was pregnant before I was. He was super clingy (more than normal) and was always resting his head on my belly.

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    So why do dogs get overprotective when someone is pregnant?

    Jeff Werber, PhD, president and chief veterinarian of the Century Veterinary Group in Los Angeles, told Health.com that “dogs can also smell the hormonal changes going on in a woman’s body at that time.” He added the dog may “not understand that this new scent of your skin and breath is caused by a developing baby, but they will know that something is different with you—which might cause them to be more curious or attentive.”

    The big lesson here is to listen to your pets and to ask questions when their behavior abruptly changes. They may be trying to tell you something, and the news may be life-changing.

    This article originally appeared last year.

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