Tomorrow, America heads to the polls to elect a president—one that will set the educational agenda for the next four years. President Obama and Governor Romney are so eager to tackle education that although the last presidential debate was about foreign policy, domestic education policy kept coming up. Moderator Bob Schieffer was even forced to interrupt Governor Romney’s soliloquy about how much he loves teachers by quipping, “I think we all love teachers.”

The second I heard Schieffer say that line I prayed that not a single teacher in America would be played for a sucker and hoodwinked into believing it. As a 17-year-old student and author, they sure aren’t fooling me, and they’re not fooling many of America’s educators, either.


A few days after the debate, I came across an essay on the site Students Last. They usually write education satire, but all the teacher love made them post a serious editorial. “America itself has, at least as of late, quite the abusive relationship with teachers—claiming to love teachers but repeatedly disrespecting them in a myriad of ways,” they wrote. If I may, let me continue their brilliant narration and extend it to how the candidates discount the voice of students and teachers.

To Governor Romney:

When you tell me that there is no better model than the current testing system and that you would expand testing in ways that haven’t been thought before, you are not showing love to students and teachers.

When you declare that class sizes do not matter, you are not showing love to students and teachers.

When you say that you would push Congress to reauthorize No Child Left Behind and when a dozen of your top education advisors worked for President George W. Bush, you are not showing love to students and teachers.

When you are running on a ticket with a man whose budget would gut billions in education spending, you are not showing love to students and teachers.

To President Obama:

When you blatantly ignore over 400 letters from parents, educators, and students expressing grave concern over your education policies in this nation, you are not showing love to students and teachers.

When you treat education as some competition or “Race to the Top,” you are not showing love to teachers and students. When research concludes that in a time of cuts to education budgets your Race to the Top program is too costly, you are not showing love to students. When your Race to the Top program has caused teaching to the test, billions of dollars in standardized testing, teacher evaluations tied to test scores, and the killing of creativity and the love of learning, you are not showing love to students and teachers.

When your Secretary of Education, Arne Duncan, says he has encountered “zero” opposition to the administration’s policies, you are not showing love to teachers and students. When Duncan remarked, “Students know what’s working and not working in schools before anyone else,” without having a comprehensive and transparent plan to involve students in his administration, you are not showing love to students and teachers.

Of course, Obama and Romney aren’t the only ones disrespecting students and teachers. They take their cues from the corporate reform crowd—I have a few words for them, too.

To the corporate reformers:

When you advocate for Teach For America corps members—recent college graduates whose only experience is a five-week training program—to teach in our country’s most disadvantaged schools, you are not showing love to students and teachers.

When you shut out the voices of teachers, parents, and students, in conferences, television talk shows, and panel discussions, you are not showing love to students and teachers.

When you push for charter schools to hijack and evict public schools even though on average they perform worse overall than public schools, you are not showing love to students and teachers.

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If Mr. Obama, Mr. Romney, and the corporate reformers they listen to love teachers and students, they should show it. Don’t trot out feel-good lines and attempt to mislead the public into believing that you are on the side of teachers and the students they serve.

So what do we do after Election Day? While most of the money is with those who want to privatize schools, bash teachers, test students, and measure and label everyone, we have power in numbers—the millions of young people, teachers, parents, and administrators who are fed up and waiting to be fired up.

Umair Haque in the Harvard Business Review puts it this way: “In status-quo preserving debates, both (or all) options are concerned with getting back to square one; how to maintain the status quo ante. Status quo-disrupting debates are concerned with getting past square one; not merely restoring a system to a previous states…” If we gut the old education regime and hatch a new renaissance of learning and creation, we will change history forever. The last thing we can do is punt the football and wait for government to act or the next generation to arouse change.

What we are yearning for is a movement of all the stakeholders in education—those who will opt-out of tests and will believe—as John Dewey did—that “education is a process of living,” that learning is about the learners, and according to Dave Cormier, “community as the curriculum.” We need students, parents, and educators committed to, as Laurel Felt suggests, “school spaces that look less like factories and more like labs, libraries, coffee shops, and meeting rooms,” and we need those stakeholders to unleash a conversation in their communities, places of worship, and schools on the future of learning.

We have to adapt, reinvent, and change the course of learning and thinking or go extinct. As John Lydon once declared, “Don’t accept the old order. Get rid of it.” Whatever happens on Election Day, it’s up to us to create a new order in education. Are you with me?

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This article was updated on 01/05/2021.

  • Voice actor explains why Americans instantly trust people with British accents, even if they’re lying
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    Americans have this strange love of British accents—so much so that even when someone is speaking absolute gibberish, we find ourselves transfixed and absurdly trusting them.

    Tawny Platis, a professional voice actor and content creator, expertly captured the phenomenon in her YouTube video, “Why Americans Love This Accent.” In the video, she analyzes why Americans find Billy Butcher’s voice so compelling despite the character’s violent and morally chaotic behavior on the TV show The Boys.

    Americans trust and love rough, working-class British masculinity

    “So Karl Urban is a New Zealander doing a Cockney, working-class, East End London accent,” Platis explained. Regardless of how well the actor nails the accent for his character, Butcher, Americans buy right into it anyway. “That’s because working-class English masculinity is coded in American media as authenticity,” she added.

    She goes on to give examples to help substantiate her point: “Every Guy Ritchie movie, British gangster film, and working-class antihero from Michael Caine to Tom Hardy has trained American audiences to hear that voice as unfiltered and honest.”

    A 2024 study published in SAGE Journals found that listeners unconsciously form social biases based on accents. People rapidly make assumptions about personality and identity.

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    Make ordinary information sound important

    The accent becomes a shortcut the brain uses to make immediate decisions about intelligence, honesty, confidence, warmth, and even competence. When it comes to characters like Butcher, the key detail isn’t so much the “Britishness” itself—it’s the association.

    “Butcher is using the working-class Brit voice to showcase honesty,” Platis said. “Butcher is a liar who manipulates Hughie, hides things from his team, and is willing to take out children. But the audience keeps forgiving him because his voice sounds like a man who’s earned the right to do all that, when he very much hasn’t.”

    Psychologists believe part of this effect comes from something called “processing fluency.” A 2023 study published in Scientific Reports found that increased exposure to certain accents reduced listeners’ cognitive effort. As a result, people made more positive social judgments about the speaker.

    Accents that feel familiar after years of movies, television, and media unconsciously influence people. Audiences automatically attach credibility and trustworthiness to them. Simply put, people mistake familiarity for truth.

    A 2024 study found that Americans rate the standard British accent most positively, strongly associating it with traits like intelligence, status, and competence. The Northern English accent is viewed slightly less favorably. Scottish accents are considered strong and friendly. Meanwhile, the Welsh accent falls somewhere in the middle, depending on how well the listener recognizes it.

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    Accent bias sways people’s opinions

    The same instinct that makes one accent sound “trustworthy” can also make another sound “unreliable.” In real-world interactions, working-class accents can be perceived as less intelligent or less educated. This can affect hiring decisions and even workplace promotions.

    A 2024 study focusing on “Americanness” found that accented speakers were perceived as “less American.” In simulated hiring scenarios, they were less likely to be hired, demonstrating that an accent can override other judgments.

    When a person speaks, people instantly begin building a story about who they are. Many decide whether a voice sounds trustworthy long before consciously realizing it. Platis points out that a lifetime of exposure to social media, movies, and television has shaped that perspective.

    “Butcher’s accent is the most effective because it’s the only one many viewers don’t even recognize as a performance,” Platis said. Which basically means somewhere out there right now, a confident British accent is talking nonsense that feels totally believable.

  • Therapist shares 5 ways to be ‘less annoying’ in conversations and it’s a must-watch
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    Therapist shares 5 ways to be ‘less annoying’ in conversations and it’s a must-watch

    None of these habits are malicious. But they sure are annoying.

    Most people think they come across as helpful, engaged, and supportive in conversations. But according to one therapist, these talking habits may be sending a very different message than intended.

    Jeffery, a licensed therapist on TikTok, breaks down five common conversational mistakes people make that can come across as annoying. In the post, viewers didn’t just agree with the list. They began recognizing the same behaviors in friends, family, and even themselves.

    Making the conversation about yourself

    People can mistake sharing personal experiences for the perfect way to show empathy and compassion. It begins innocently enough when someone opens up about something personal. Unfortunately, the listener responds with a story of their own. Both people are trying to connect, but the focus has now completely shifted.

    “When someone constantly redirects conversations back to themselves, people start feeling unimportant,” Jeffery explains. “When every story somehow becomes about you, people stop feeling listened to and start feeling dismissed.”

    A 2023 experiment suggested that reciprocal disclosure increases interpersonal trust. However, an imbalance in the conversation can create feelings of one-sidedness. This “stealing of the spotlight” reduces connection.

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    Getting super defensive

    Few things shut down a conversation faster than defensiveness. Even simple misunderstandings can turn tense when people instinctively try to correct rather than understand.

    “If every single piece of feedback turns into an excuse or an argument, people eventually stop being honest with you,” Jeffery points out. “Constructive feedback and even some criticism is not always an attack. Sometimes people are simply trying to improve the relationship or communicate something important to you.”

    Psychologists describe this behavior as “psychological defensiveness.” Interestingly, a 2024 study found that defensiveness can be reduced if people are warned beforehand in the right way. Conversation works best when it is framed as a collaborative effort rather than an educational or teaching moment.

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    Drilling people after they apologize

    There is a delicate balance between asking for clarity after an apology and turning the conversation into an interrogation.

    “If someone apologizes and you accept it, but then you keep hammering them over the mistake afterward, it will become exhausting and very annoying,” Jeffery adds. “If people feel like apologizing never actually ends the conflict, they actually become less likely to take accountability in the future.”

    People often mistake feedback for a personal attack on their own truth. There’s a popular statement often attributed to Marcus Aurelius claiming that much of what we perceive is shaped by interpretation rather than fact. People can share their opinions. We don’t have to defend ourselves against all of them.

    Stop constantly complaining

    Everyone deserves an opportunity to vent. But when every conversation circles back to frustration without change, it can become emotionally exhausting for the listener. Over time, even the most supportive friends can start to pull back.

    “Talking about problems is normal,” says Jeffery. “But if almost every interaction revolves around negativity, people start associating you with emotional exhaustion. Nobody wants to leave conversations feeling drained every single time.”

    This pattern of constant, dissatisfied venting has even found its way into pop culture. Maybe you remember the infamous George Costanza from the award-winning show Seinfeld. His nonstop stream of complaints was a running joke about negativity. It’s fun to watch and laugh at, but far less enjoyable to encounter in real life.

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    One-upping people’s negative emotions

    Sometimes, someone takes a risk and shares a particularly challenging experience. In an attempt to show empathy, saying “I get it” might land more like “that’s not a big deal.” It’s important to offer emotional validation rather than comparison.

    “If someone opens up about something painful and your immediate reaction is to explain how you had it worse, it can make the other person feel completely invalidated,” Jeffery says. “They just want to feel heard and emotionally supported in that moment.”

    A 2023 study revealed that someone trying to relate can sometimes redirect attention away from the original speaker. People feel more supported when their emotions are directly acknowledged instead of reframed or one-upped.

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    The comments quickly turn to self-reflection

    Many people said Jeffrey’s list felt immediately familiar, whether in conversations with friends or in their own behavior. These annoying habits became surprisingly relatable once someone pointed them out. Here are some of those thoughts:

    “silently reposting this for one of my friends to find”

    “The first one has ended relationships for me, not because I do it, but because they did it. It’s absolutely exhausting.”

    “I know one of my friends are gonna tag me in this later”

    “I’ve noticed over the years that my annoying personality will surface when I’m trying to protect myself..”

    “I have such a hard time with #1 and I am so aware of it sometimes but I find it so difficult to not do when talking to someone.”

    “I do all of these maybe I should go back to therapy”

    What might be surprising is that many of these habits are things people slip into without realizing it. Jeffrey’s list doesn’t suggest people are intentionally difficult. He points out that annoying conversations can arise from good intentions, too. Allowing a person to be heard can matter more than offering advice that might fix the problem.

  • Wildlife reserves and gardens alike can be regrown thanks to dogs wearing backpacks with seeds
    Photo credit: Photo credt: @wilderlife8107 on YouTubeNative plants can be regrown thanks to dogs.

    Whether it’s a forest recovering from a wildfire or our own backyards, nature can use some help. Spreading seeds to ensure grass or wildflower growth can be a time-intensive process. However, there is one way that can be fun, quick, and help your dog get some exercise: strapping a backpack full of seeds onto them.

    The practice has been popularized internationally by sisters Francisca and Constanza Torres with their three dogs. Many forested areas of their native Chile were devastated by wildfires. The sisters came up with a plan to help reseed and regrow what had been burned down. The two would strap backpacks filled with grass and wildflowers seeds onto their border collies. The backpack had a small opening that would allow the seeds to fall out and spread as their dogs ran, jumped, and played throughout the area. 

    This helped the forests regrow while also providing the dogs exercise. The dogs were also able to walk into nooks and crannies human planters normally can’t access.

    An idea goes international

    The idea spread past countries and coastlines as a nature reserve in Lewes, East Sussex, England offered dog walkers backpacks with seeds. The walkers would strap the packs onto their furry friends as they went on nature walks to help rewild the area.

    “We’re really interested in rewilding processes, but they often involve reintroducing big herbivores like bison or wild horses,” said the project’s manager Dylan Walker to The Guardian in 2024. “In a smaller urban nature reserve it’s really hard to do those things. So, to replicate the effect that those animals have on the ecosystem we aimed to utilize the vast number of dog walkers that are visiting the nature reserve daily.”

    The concept itself was taken from nature. For centuries, wolves would have seeds caught in their fur. Over time, movement, and grooming, the seeds would be spread throughout other areas of the forest. The wolves acted as natural carriers for seeds much like bees are for pollen.

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    This technique doesn’t have to be reserved for wildfire recovery or regrowing public gardens. Your yard could benefit from it, too. While you could find a pack for your pup and fill it with seeds, there’s another way. Gardener Patrick Vernuccio suggests just filling a tea strainer with seeds and clipping it onto your dog’s collar. It should perform the same effect.

    If you have your dog help seed your yard, be sure that the plants you hope to grow are dog-friendly. Use non-toxic seeds for dogs such as roses, marigolds, and pansies among others. The ASPCA has a full list of plants that are unsafe for dogs to refer to when you’re unsure.

    Man’s best friend can also be man’s best gardening buddy.

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