When international travelers think of great food during their adventures, many reflect on that amazing home cooked meal that a serendipitously acquired acquaintance prepared, or perhaps that friend of a friend that took you in after too many touristy restaurants. But have any of you ever thought of cooking for the people and communities that you visit? Jay Kannaiyan has. The long term motorcycle traveler makes it a point to spread goodness through cooking for the locals he visits with through his travels.

Early in his journey, Jay realized that cooking was an important part of his background that he could share with others while curing himself of homesickness. What started off for Jay as a CouchSurfing suggestion for showing gratitude for a free stay, developed into a lifelong passion of working his way into strange kitchens all around the world. “By cooking,” says Jay, “I gained an amazing insight: food breaks down a lot of barriers: cultural, lingual, or social.”

The ingredients that Jay feels comfortable with are very broad and he typically uses whatever is locally available. “In almost any vegetable market in the world, it’s easy to find onions, tomatoes, ginger, and garlic.” However, the most important thing that Jay brings with him are the spices that are dried and ground by his mother in Chennai, India. He has these shipped in a rather circuitous route to wherever he is in the world and stashes them in specially made containers on his motorbike.


Although liking good food is universal, ‘good’ can be defined differently in the various cultures that Jay has interacted with. For example, chili isn’t for everyone, so Jay reduces or even eliminates it from his curries and loads up on roasted garlic, ginger, and onions. The site of Jay bursting into someone’s kitchen to start preparing his famous chicken curry sounds strange to many of us, even more so for a woman to let a strange biker into her house because her husband just met him on the road. “Many a skeptical woman has questioned me on the amount of onions and garlic that I use, but their doubt vanishes when they take that first bite,” laughs Jay.

Indeed, it is that transformation when a food skeptic suddenly realizes the sensation of a new and tasty experience. Best of all reflects Jay, “I notice a change in how people view me. I’m not simply a traveler, or a vagabond on a bike, but I’m moving through cultures and leaving behind satiated palettes. As an Indian, I think this is the best impression I can leave behind in these far-flung cultures that I’ve traveled through.’

So a truly new insight is awakened within us: that cooking for others can be the path to a deeper experience during your travels. On your next trip, advises Jay, don’t be shy and just be a guest—offer to cook something for your hosts to bring about an exciting, and genuine connection during your trip.

Tell us about your traveling cooking stories: where did you cook a special meal for your hosts or friends while you were visiting? What meaning did the ingredients or way of preparation hold for you, and what was the local reaction to your culinary delights?

Alice Gugelev is the Director of DoGoodAsYouGo.org, transforming the adventure travel sector by including volunteering as a standard part of every traveler’s plans.

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  • Man’s dog suddenly becomes protective of his wife, Internet clocks the reason right away
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    Reddit user Girlfriendhatesmefor’s three-year-old pitbull, Otis, had recently become overprotective of his wife. So he asked the online community if they knew what might be wrong with the dog.

    “A week or two ago, my wife got some sort of stomach bug,” the Reddit user wrote under the subreddit /r/dogs. “She was really nauseous and ill for about a week. Otis is very in tune with her emotions (we once got in a fight and she was upset, I swear he was staring daggers at me lol) and during this time didn’t even want to leave her to go on walks. We thought it was adorable!”

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    Girlfriendhatesmefor began to fear that Otis’ behavior may be an early sign of an aggression issue or an indication that the dog was hurt or sick.

    So he threw a question out to fellow Reddit users: “Has anyone else’s dog suddenly developed attachment/aggression issues? Any and all advice appreciated, even if it’s that we’re being paranoid!”

    The most popular response to his thread was by ZZBC.

    Any chance your wife is pregnant?

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    The potential news hit Girlfriendhatesmefor like a ton of bricks. A few days later, Girlfriendhatesmefor posted an update and ZZBC was right!

    “The wifey is pregnant!” the father-to-be wrote. “Otis is still being overprotective but it all makes sense now! Thanks for all the advice and kind words! Sorry for the delayed reply, I didn’t check back until just now!”

    Redditors responded with similar experiences.

    Anecdotal I know but I swear my dog knew I was pregnant before I was. He was super clingy (more than normal) and was always resting his head on my belly.

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    So why do dogs get overprotective when someone is pregnant?

    Jeff Werber, PhD, president and chief veterinarian of the Century Veterinary Group in Los Angeles, told Health.com that “dogs can also smell the hormonal changes going on in a woman’s body at that time.” He added the dog may “not understand that this new scent of your skin and breath is caused by a developing baby, but they will know that something is different with you—which might cause them to be more curious or attentive.”

    The big lesson here is to listen to your pets and to ask questions when their behavior abruptly changes. They may be trying to tell you something, and the news may be life-changing.

    This article originally appeared last year.

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