I became pregnant this year. Five months into it, I learned that my little girl Mya had Triploidy Syndrome—a rare and lethal chromosomal disease. I can’t put into words how heartbroken I was. But right when I was on the verge of letting this destroy me, I chose not to be a victim.


Mya allowed me to fully understand the love all mothers have for their children. She ignited my passion for the importance of honoring children, and valuing their lives and the lessons they could teach us. In the past decade I’ve become more aware of global problems. Tsunamis, wars, earthquakes, economic collapses, revolutions, widespread disease, oil spills, radiation. What in the world is going on? Is there another way?

My friend Mike Wike and I keep asking ourselves these questions, and Tomorrow’s Roundtable is what we’ve come up with to address them. We want to create a media platform to give children a chance to be heard in this world. It’s a cause-driven documentary series that uses the ideas of children to help solve the world’s most imperative social and environmental challenges. Why children? Well, they have so much to teach us and these are four of the lessons I’ve learned from them so far:

1. Think in Simple Ways

In prepping our series, I’ve talked to many children. One thing I’ve noticed is how simply and clearly they think. Kids constantly solve problems, because they constantly ask sincere questions. Kids are famous for asking questions in a series of “Whys” – and this is such a powerful way to get to the root of a problem. It’s like tracing a chord back to the wall. Children see the naked truth. They don’t add layers of complexity. After all, it’s the child inside every innovator who sees what could be.

2. Play With Others

Children are natural collaborators. They show up with a game and ask, “Who wants to play?” This breaks down walls between people and opens up possibilities. Businesses, nonprofits, communities, and leaders can learn a lot from that. That’s why we bring together children, celebrities, companies, charities, communities, and ultimately the crowd in our series.

But how do we ensure that the solutions stay implemented? We invite non-profits that already have programs in place in a target community and a deep understanding of the issues. They receive additional resources and sponsorships from companies we work with. The problems continue to be addressed for years to come because the sponsors keep paying for the campaigns as long as the docu-series generates content featuring their brands in the story. This way revenues flow to fixing the problem year after year.

3. Decide With Your Heart

In making decisions, adults tend to be influenced by market research, societal pressures, and financial motivations. Children use a different type of intelligence in making the big decisions, like, Does it feel good? Childhood provides us with a moral compass. As busy adults with agendas and motives, we sometimes overlook the heartfelt solutions to some of these complex issues. Whether it’s just to“Give more hugs to the people you love” or to“Share your food so you feel a bit happier,” feelings have a load of truth to them.

4. See the Good in Everything

My pregnancy taught me that there is always a silver lining. Adults tend to avoid the rain, children tend to play in it. Children run and jump through this world, and that approach alone might make all the difference. What if we all saw the world as a playground?

The Indiegogo campaign for Tomorrow’s Roundtable will run until December 10, 2013, which would’ve been my little angel Mya’s birthday. This date marks what I’ve learned from her, which is to always see the good in everything. Our first episode will allow us to launch an education revolution. If this project speaks to your heart, please consider sharing this video with five friends or contributing a few bucks to it. Click here to add it to your To-Do list.

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This project is part of GOOD’s series Push for Good—our guide to crowdsourcing creative progress.

  • Man’s dog suddenly becomes protective of his wife, Internet clocks the reason right away
    Dogs have impressive observational powers.Photo credit: Canva

    Reddit user Girlfriendhatesmefor’s three-year-old pitbull, Otis, had recently become overprotective of his wife. So he asked the online community if they knew what might be wrong with the dog.

    “A week or two ago, my wife got some sort of stomach bug,” the Reddit user wrote under the subreddit /r/dogs. “She was really nauseous and ill for about a week. Otis is very in tune with her emotions (we once got in a fight and she was upset, I swear he was staring daggers at me lol) and during this time didn’t even want to leave her to go on walks. We thought it was adorable!”

    His wife soon felt better, butthe dog’s behavior didn’t change.

    pregnancy signs, dogs and pregnancy, pitbull behavior, pet intuition, dog overprotection, Reddit stories, viral Reddit, dog instincts, canine emotions, dog owner tips
    Otis knew before they did. Canva

    Girlfriendhatesmefor began to fear that Otis’ behavior may be an early sign of an aggression issue or an indication that the dog was hurt or sick.

    So he threw a question out to fellow Reddit users: “Has anyone else’s dog suddenly developed attachment/aggression issues? Any and all advice appreciated, even if it’s that we’re being paranoid!”

    The most popular response to his thread was by ZZBC.

    Any chance your wife is pregnant?

    ZZBC | Reddit

    The potential news hit Girlfriendhatesmefor like a ton of bricks. A few days later, Girlfriendhatesmefor posted an update and ZZBC was right!

    “The wifey is pregnant!” the father-to-be wrote. “Otis is still being overprotective but it all makes sense now! Thanks for all the advice and kind words! Sorry for the delayed reply, I didn’t check back until just now!”

    Redditors responded with similar experiences.

    Anecdotal I know but I swear my dog knew I was pregnant before I was. He was super clingy (more than normal) and was always resting his head on my belly.

    realityisworse | Reddit

    So why do dogs get overprotective when someone is pregnant?

    Jeff Werber, PhD, president and chief veterinarian of the Century Veterinary Group in Los Angeles, told Health.com that “dogs can also smell the hormonal changes going on in a woman’s body at that time.” He added the dog may “not understand that this new scent of your skin and breath is caused by a developing baby, but they will know that something is different with you—which might cause them to be more curious or attentive.”

    The big lesson here is to listen to your pets and to ask questions when their behavior abruptly changes. They may be trying to tell you something, and the news may be life-changing.

    This article originally appeared last year.

  • Throughout history, women have stood up and fought to break down barriers imposed on them from stereotypes and societal expectations. The trailblazers in these photos made history and redefined what a woman could be. In doing so, they paved the way for future generations to stand up and continue to fight for equality.

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    Why mass shootings spawn conspiracy theories

    Mass shootings and conspiracy theories have a long history.

    While conspiracy theories are not limited to any topic, there is one type of event that seems particularly likely to spark them: mass shootings, typically defined as attacks in which a shooter kills at least four other people.

    When one person kills many others in a single incident, particularly when it seems random, people naturally seek out answers for why the tragedy happened. After all, if a mass shooting is random, anyone can be a target.

    Pointing to some nefarious plan by a powerful group – such as the government – can be more comforting than the idea that the attack was the result of a disturbed or mentally ill individual who obtained a firearm legally.


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