When I was in eighth grade, my social studies teacher Mr. McIntyre used to always tell us, “It’s much better to be pissed off than pissed on.” Even though the thought of being urinated on made me gag, I usually laughed when he said that. But Mr. McIntyre never had to answer the question students at Brooklyn’s Science Skills Center High School are asking: What happens when you’re both pissed off and pissed on?

For the past month, the high school—which is several stories tall and serves more than 600 students—has denied students access to all but one bathroom to curb misbehaving and vandalism. Students have had to wait 20 minutes at a time to use one filthy, urine-covered bathroom. A clean, accessible bathroom is a basic right. This is quite obvious for those of us with even half a conscience—denying students the right to use the bathroom is corporal punishment. And while teachers are constantly told that instructional time must be maximized, how much learning is taking place in a class of teens who can’t use the bathroom all day?

It wasn’t until the New York media got wind of the story last week—and more than 200 angry students signed a petition asking for more bathrooms—that the school decided to reopen two more. Thanks to that generosity, there are now three bathrooms on campus for more than 600 students. Educators are constantly told that schools need to be run more like businesses. Can you imagine any business with 200 employees using each bathroom?

School administrators defended themselves saying that budget cuts forced them to lay off the school aide who used to supervise the bathrooms. Because of issues with boys fighting in the bathrooms, they said it was too dangerous to keep them open. While that may be a problem, it shouldn’t prevent the majority from using a restroom that’s perfectly functioning.


Given that budget cuts are impacting high schools nationwide, it’s safe to say that what happened at this school in Brooklyn probably isn’t an isolated incident. It’s also safe to say that this kind of thing wouldn’t be tolerated in a wealthier school: Lawsuits would fly, and all the money the school district saved by cutting campus aides would be paid out in settlements.

It remains to be seen whether Science Skills will revert back to its one bathroom policy once the media hype dies down, or if the principal will face any disciplinary action for what’s been happening there. Our students already feel ostracized, underfunded, overtested, underserved, overinvestigated, undermined, and misunderstood. Now, their school leadrs won’t even let them use the bathroom. Many students may not have cared much about school before, but now that they’re pissed off and pissed on, would anyone be surprised if they care even less now?

Photo via (cc) Flickr user Liz Henry

  • Man’s dog suddenly becomes protective of his wife, Internet clocks the reason right away
    Dogs have impressive observational powers.Photo credit: Canva

    Reddit user Girlfriendhatesmefor’s three-year-old pitbull, Otis, had recently become overprotective of his wife. So he asked the online community if they knew what might be wrong with the dog.

    “A week or two ago, my wife got some sort of stomach bug,” the Reddit user wrote under the subreddit /r/dogs. “She was really nauseous and ill for about a week. Otis is very in tune with her emotions (we once got in a fight and she was upset, I swear he was staring daggers at me lol) and during this time didn’t even want to leave her to go on walks. We thought it was adorable!”

    His wife soon felt better, butthe dog’s behavior didn’t change.

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    Otis knew before they did. Canva

    Girlfriendhatesmefor began to fear that Otis’ behavior may be an early sign of an aggression issue or an indication that the dog was hurt or sick.

    So he threw a question out to fellow Reddit users: “Has anyone else’s dog suddenly developed attachment/aggression issues? Any and all advice appreciated, even if it’s that we’re being paranoid!”

    The most popular response to his thread was by ZZBC.

    Any chance your wife is pregnant?

    ZZBC | Reddit

    The potential news hit Girlfriendhatesmefor like a ton of bricks. A few days later, Girlfriendhatesmefor posted an update and ZZBC was right!

    “The wifey is pregnant!” the father-to-be wrote. “Otis is still being overprotective but it all makes sense now! Thanks for all the advice and kind words! Sorry for the delayed reply, I didn’t check back until just now!”

    Redditors responded with similar experiences.

    Anecdotal I know but I swear my dog knew I was pregnant before I was. He was super clingy (more than normal) and was always resting his head on my belly.

    realityisworse | Reddit

    So why do dogs get overprotective when someone is pregnant?

    Jeff Werber, PhD, president and chief veterinarian of the Century Veterinary Group in Los Angeles, told Health.com that “dogs can also smell the hormonal changes going on in a woman’s body at that time.” He added the dog may “not understand that this new scent of your skin and breath is caused by a developing baby, but they will know that something is different with you—which might cause them to be more curious or attentive.”

    The big lesson here is to listen to your pets and to ask questions when their behavior abruptly changes. They may be trying to tell you something, and the news may be life-changing.

    This article originally appeared last year.

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    Why mass shootings spawn conspiracy theories

    Mass shootings and conspiracy theories have a long history.

    While conspiracy theories are not limited to any topic, there is one type of event that seems particularly likely to spark them: mass shootings, typically defined as attacks in which a shooter kills at least four other people.

    When one person kills many others in a single incident, particularly when it seems random, people naturally seek out answers for why the tragedy happened. After all, if a mass shooting is random, anyone can be a target.

    Pointing to some nefarious plan by a powerful group – such as the government – can be more comforting than the idea that the attack was the result of a disturbed or mentally ill individual who obtained a firearm legally.


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