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“I’ve never been as wasteful as when my kids were young,” a friend whispered in a confessional tone when I was expecting my first baby. She remembered the thousands of diapers a baby will go through before potty training. What she didn’t warn me about was the onslaught of other must-have clutter that would sweep into my home as gifts: bottles, toys, multiple strollers, swings, furniture, sippy cups. What began as well-meaning gestures became a flood of plastic paraphernalia that would be used and then stowed in the attic or freecycled after my son met each new developmental milestone. As troubling reports about BPA and phthalates increased, I began to see the clutter not just as an overwhelming sea of excess, but also as a potential threat.

Emily Blakeney had the wherewithal to reflect upon these choices well in advance. “When I got pregnant with my first child in 2005,” she remembers, “it was probably the first time that I stopped in my tracks and thought about what I was putting in, on and around me, my baby and my husband.” Even the internet, at that time, had limited information about the products she used. So soon after her baby was born, naptime and other quiet moments were dedicated to researching diapers, bottles, food. “I was doing a ton of research, because I wasn’t liking what I was seeing that I had easy access to—plastic bottles, for example.” She began what she calls “very, very amateur product testing,” ordering goods and seeing what she liked. It was Blakeney’s first step toward becoming a curator of healthy, environmentally sound products.

By the time her daughter was two-and-a-half, Blakeney had opened Eden’s Green Closet, a shop named after her daughter that aimed to “change the face of consumerism for new and young parents” by offering a mix of gently used and sustainable goods. It was when Blakeney was pregnant with her second child that social entrepreneur Jody Sherman stepped into her shop with an idea—they could launch an online store together, much like her shop, designed for moms in search of healthy products.

That notion evolved over time into a growing online business now based in Las Vegas, with the memorable URL ecomom.com. Sherman is CEO and Blakeney serves as “Chief Mom Officer”—a role that has formalized the process of curation that she began years ago.

Every item at Ecomom passes a stringent set of protocols and is tested at home by Blakeney and her family. But before any product makes its way into the hands of Blakeney or her children, it must first pass an audit that includes questions ranging from an ingredient check (i.e. known carcinogens, endocrine disruptors, neurotoxins and the like eliminate products from the get-go).

Points are given for vegan products, packaging that is chlorine-free or FSC certified, and for companies that offer parental leave and flexible work hours for their employees. Blakeney is clear that the process may not be scientific, but for products that pass muster in the audit, she carefully cross-references each ingredient in chemical databases like those of the Environmental Working Group, also checking to see how chemicals react when combined. If deemed safe after that test, Blakeney tries a sample in her own home. If, for example, a laundry detergent doesn’t clean her kids’ clothes, it won’t make it onto Ecomom. Those that do well in the home test receive the “Ecomom Trusted” seal. Finally, with what might be described as ex post facto-style curation, Ecomom checks its entire inventory weekly for recalls, and though their selective process has not yet allowed a later-recalled item into their line, they save all users’ purchase histories in order to be able to contact them if a recall does occur.

Helping families stay healthy has become a model for a different way of doing business. The glut of plastic, disposable or short-term baby goods that fill nurseries across the country are part of a broader consumption cycle. “I think that it really is going to take businesses a long time to catch up with changing their model from disposable and convenient to long-lasting, non-toxic, healthy, valued and valuable products,” says Blakeney.

At the same time that Ecomom has created a logistical model to help families find quality products so they fill their homes with less stuff, there are far too many families living with not nearly enough. From its beginnings, Ecomom annually made charitable donations, but just writing a check “didn’t do anything for our customers.” The company’s founders learned that millions of American kids under the age of five grow up without adequate nutrition—“which is absolutely alarming,” says Blakeney.

The company decided to connect the two. Launching the program “It’s All Good,” Ecomom began donating one day’s supply of baby food to six participating food pantries for any purchase, in any amount, made on the site. According to Blakeney, the program has already donated over 80,000 days’ worth of food and will reach 100,000 by the end of this year.

It’s an effort to increase accessibility to the same GMO-free, organic baby food Ecomom sells on its site. Those who staff food pantries know just how rare it is to receive donations of baby food at all. St. Joseph Center’s Food Pantry in Venice, California serves hundreds of households that have very small children at home, and according to St. Joseph’s executive director Va Lecia Adams, Ecomom is the only regular source of baby food the organization has. “Every parent wants the very best thing for their children,” Adams explains, “and our families really appreciate that the baby food Ecomom donates is healthy and organic.”

For all the stuff parents are nudged into buying for our kids, most of us just want to provide happiness and health. When measured in meals given to babies who need them, Ecomom’s ethos of healthy mindfulness helps put the consumption of baby gear in context. Their approach helps its customers take a step back, gather what they trust from companies that share their values—give a meal to a family that needs it—and leave the rest.

Illustration by Zoe-Zoe Sheen

  • Man’s dog suddenly becomes protective of his wife, Internet clocks the reason right away
    Dogs have impressive observational powers.Photo credit: Canva

    Reddit user Girlfriendhatesmefor’s three-year-old pitbull, Otis, had recently become overprotective of his wife. So he asked the online community if they knew what might be wrong with the dog.

    “A week or two ago, my wife got some sort of stomach bug,” the Reddit user wrote under the subreddit /r/dogs. “She was really nauseous and ill for about a week. Otis is very in tune with her emotions (we once got in a fight and she was upset, I swear he was staring daggers at me lol) and during this time didn’t even want to leave her to go on walks. We thought it was adorable!”

    His wife soon felt better, butthe dog’s behavior didn’t change.

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    Otis knew before they did. Canva

    Girlfriendhatesmefor began to fear that Otis’ behavior may be an early sign of an aggression issue or an indication that the dog was hurt or sick.

    So he threw a question out to fellow Reddit users: “Has anyone else’s dog suddenly developed attachment/aggression issues? Any and all advice appreciated, even if it’s that we’re being paranoid!”

    The most popular response to his thread was by ZZBC.

    Any chance your wife is pregnant?

    ZZBC | Reddit

    The potential news hit Girlfriendhatesmefor like a ton of bricks. A few days later, Girlfriendhatesmefor posted an update and ZZBC was right!

    “The wifey is pregnant!” the father-to-be wrote. “Otis is still being overprotective but it all makes sense now! Thanks for all the advice and kind words! Sorry for the delayed reply, I didn’t check back until just now!”

    Redditors responded with similar experiences.

    Anecdotal I know but I swear my dog knew I was pregnant before I was. He was super clingy (more than normal) and was always resting his head on my belly.

    realityisworse | Reddit

    So why do dogs get overprotective when someone is pregnant?

    Jeff Werber, PhD, president and chief veterinarian of the Century Veterinary Group in Los Angeles, told Health.com that “dogs can also smell the hormonal changes going on in a woman’s body at that time.” He added the dog may “not understand that this new scent of your skin and breath is caused by a developing baby, but they will know that something is different with you—which might cause them to be more curious or attentive.”

    The big lesson here is to listen to your pets and to ask questions when their behavior abruptly changes. They may be trying to tell you something, and the news may be life-changing.

    This article originally appeared last year.

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    Pointing to some nefarious plan by a powerful group – such as the government – can be more comforting than the idea that the attack was the result of a disturbed or mentally ill individual who obtained a firearm legally.


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