Set in Romantic-era Prussia, director Jessica Hausner’s Amour Fou deliberately de-romanticizes every aspect of the real-life suicide pact it depicts. On the shores of a lake outside Berlin on November 21, 1811, Frankfurt-born writer and philosopher Heinrich von Kleist drew a pistol and killed Henriette Vogel (the terminally ill wife of another man) and then himself.


Like Romeo and Juliet, Amour Fou’s central couple falls victim to cruel irony and miscommunication, but whereas Shakespeare’s star-crossed lovers seemed to gain some small serenity in their shared death bed, Vogel (Birte Schnöink) and Kleist (Christian Friedel) remain in death as they were in life: constricted within the coils of an aristocracy that’s becoming more anachronistic each day. “Puppets,” as Kleist describes his milieu, “moving to a fixed choreography.” But while the poet Kleist is the more dramatic of the pair, Hausner’s film focuses more on Vogel’s suffocating existence.

Bound by duties as a daughter, mother, and wife, Vogel finds herself identifying, though she can’t quite say why, with the titular character in Kleist’s The Marquise of O, a mysteriously impregnated widow raped in her sleep by a suitor she previously fancied. This in spite of her husband Friedrich’s insistence that “incidents of that kind rarely happen.” Unfortunately, his ignorance about the prevalence of rape seems as timeless as his ignorance about his wife’s depression. Her doctor, following a diagnostic bloodletting, guesses that “anxious and sad” Vogel suffers from a “female complaint” and a “spiritual disorder.” Replies Friedrich, preoccupied with his commission to collect a new tax from the working class: “Thank god it isn’t serious.” Under hypnosis, she confesses she’s been experiencing ordinary horror on the regular. “The flowers,” she says, “frighten me.” To her, their sickly sweet smell is nothing but a reminder of the eventual decay of everything she holds dear. Unable to remember what she’s told them upon awakening, she asks her husband what she said. “Nothing important,” he reassures her.

With a husband like that, who needs murder-suicide obsessed flings? Kleist, soon after meeting her, tells Vogel she is “bereft of friends,” and helpfully elaborates, “No one loves you.” Lying awake at night in the twin bed positioned away from Friederich’s at a 90-degree angle, Vogel begins to see the validity in these arguments. But alas, Kleist’s remedy for her despondency isn’t to create a new future together, but rather end the present all together. “Would you care to die with me?” he asks. “If you love me, you will do this for me.”

Whatever romantic edge existed is soon blunted, as it’s quickly revealed that this is not the first time Kleist has made such a proposal, nor the first time it’s been refused. His cousin Maria, soon to wed another, was his original intended, but Maria, it seems, is even cynical about her nihilism. “I agree that life is meaningless and people are cruel,” she concedes, “but there’s no need to let it bother you so much.”

Unlike Maria, Vogel, feeling a clear sense of obligation, if not outright love, gradually warms to the notion of expressing fiery passion by way of a chilly tombstone, especially as her doctors’ diagnoses grow significantly grimmer. By that time, however, it’s become obvious the doomed couples’ proclamations of mutual ardor and dying devotion are as meaningless in this coffin-black comedy as the Prussian aristocracy’s efforts to “cling to their privilege like a dog to a bone.” Both are pathetic pantomimes that seem to fool no one, their perpetrators least of all. Only sardonic Maria appears willing to speak the truth. “In the end,” she cautions Kleist, “everybody has to die alone.”

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  • Man’s dog suddenly becomes protective of his wife, Internet clocks the reason right away
    Dogs have impressive observational powers.Photo credit: Canva

    Reddit user Girlfriendhatesmefor’s three-year-old pitbull, Otis, had recently become overprotective of his wife. So he asked the online community if they knew what might be wrong with the dog.

    “A week or two ago, my wife got some sort of stomach bug,” the Reddit user wrote under the subreddit /r/dogs. “She was really nauseous and ill for about a week. Otis is very in tune with her emotions (we once got in a fight and she was upset, I swear he was staring daggers at me lol) and during this time didn’t even want to leave her to go on walks. We thought it was adorable!”

    His wife soon felt better, butthe dog’s behavior didn’t change.

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    Girlfriendhatesmefor began to fear that Otis’ behavior may be an early sign of an aggression issue or an indication that the dog was hurt or sick.

    So he threw a question out to fellow Reddit users: “Has anyone else’s dog suddenly developed attachment/aggression issues? Any and all advice appreciated, even if it’s that we’re being paranoid!”

    The most popular response to his thread was by ZZBC.

    Any chance your wife is pregnant?

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    The potential news hit Girlfriendhatesmefor like a ton of bricks. A few days later, Girlfriendhatesmefor posted an update and ZZBC was right!

    “The wifey is pregnant!” the father-to-be wrote. “Otis is still being overprotective but it all makes sense now! Thanks for all the advice and kind words! Sorry for the delayed reply, I didn’t check back until just now!”

    Redditors responded with similar experiences.

    Anecdotal I know but I swear my dog knew I was pregnant before I was. He was super clingy (more than normal) and was always resting his head on my belly.

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    So why do dogs get overprotective when someone is pregnant?

    Jeff Werber, PhD, president and chief veterinarian of the Century Veterinary Group in Los Angeles, told Health.com that “dogs can also smell the hormonal changes going on in a woman’s body at that time.” He added the dog may “not understand that this new scent of your skin and breath is caused by a developing baby, but they will know that something is different with you—which might cause them to be more curious or attentive.”

    The big lesson here is to listen to your pets and to ask questions when their behavior abruptly changes. They may be trying to tell you something, and the news may be life-changing.

    This article originally appeared last year.

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    Why mass shootings spawn conspiracy theories

    Mass shootings and conspiracy theories have a long history.

    While conspiracy theories are not limited to any topic, there is one type of event that seems particularly likely to spark them: mass shootings, typically defined as attacks in which a shooter kills at least four other people.

    When one person kills many others in a single incident, particularly when it seems random, people naturally seek out answers for why the tragedy happened. After all, if a mass shooting is random, anyone can be a target.

    Pointing to some nefarious plan by a powerful group – such as the government – can be more comforting than the idea that the attack was the result of a disturbed or mentally ill individual who obtained a firearm legally.


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