GOOD is featuring interviews of devoted members each week on good.is. Kevin Van Lierop is a civic hacker and social entrepreneur.


The last time I did good

I have a hard time taking credit for the good things I do. Like many in the good.is community, I’m probably too humble and happy enough to be able to help out and contribute where I can. No credit needed.

With that said, I sent out invitations to my neighbors the other day to plan a street party using Block Party in a Box*. I’m hoping to help connect everyone on my street so we can build a happier community.

Oh, and I called my mom the other day, which always is a good thing to do and something I don’t do enough.

A ‘Do’ I want to share with the world

Take pride in where you live.

For better or worse, the towns, cities, counties etc. where we wake up in the morning and fall asleep at night are the places we call home. While not perfect, these places are our homes and if we don’t take pride and ownership over them who will?

What I find most amazing about the places we call home is the fact that they are the one thing, above all else, that we have in common with each other in our cities. We may speak different languages, have different political or religious views, be of different ages etc. but if we live in the same place we are all citizens of that place; it is the one thing that connects us all.

We need to celebrate the places we live, increase awareness of them, take pride in them and be connected to them.

Worst advice I’ve ever gotten

“Don’t listen to what other people say about you.”

This is complete baloney.

You need to listen to what others are saying about you to help develop you as a person.

With that said, you need to be selective who you’re listening to.

Pay attention to the people you respect and admire and what they’re saying about you and the things you do. If you respect them enough you should respect their honest opinions too. Ignore the trolls and those that don’t show you the respect you deserve.

Haters gonna hate.

I ignored everyone for a period of time and it had an adverse affect. I wasn’t getting the feedback I needed or the emotion boost that I think we all require on some level. I tried to block out the bad voices by blocking out all of the voices. That was the wrong approach.

Book I’d recommend

I love reading and there’s a relationship with a physical book that I’ve never been able to recreate with its digital counterpart. While now I primarily read non-fiction (I re-read The Death and Life of Great American Cities every year) growing up my favourite read was Charlie and the Chocolate Factory. From time to time I’ll still pick it up to get lost in my own imagination.

With that said, the book I’d recommend isn’t technically a book.

The best thing I read each and every day is the Caesura Letters. It’s a daily publication that I get delivered to my inbox but you can purchase a physical, quarterly copy if you like.

It claims to be “a magazine dedicated to the art of finding new perspectives” and it is.

It’s the most insightful, digestible and thoughtful writing I consume on a daily basis. At the end of each week I feel like I’m better prepared, with a broader perspective on life, to take on the week to come. It seems a bit romantic, but this publication has changed my life.

I highly recommend the Caesura Letters to anyone looking to grow as an individual.

My manifesto

These questions really aren’t easy.

This is where I’m supposed to say something like:

Stay Calm Carry On.
Don’t stop believing.
[insert your favourite out of context line here]

Right?

I’ve written and re-written countless manifestos over the years but never have been able to find the words to articulate what it is I do and how I perceive things.

I came across this quotation just over two years ago from a (relatively) local civic leader and it really resonated with me.

“I give birth. Then I put it up for adoption. Once something is up and running, to me it seems so boring. For me, the interesting part is taking ideas in areas that need attention and finding a way to make a difference.” – Dave Meslin, The Star

I’ve always struggled with the nature of jumping from one thing to the next. I’ve been told that you need to stick with things, see them through to the end and marvel in all of the satisfaction and take credit for making them happen. This isn’t how I’ve ever operated and I don’t think will ever be.

I’ve found enjoyment, if only haphazard enjoyment, in starting things, seeing them start to move then jumping ship and letting others ride with whatever it is. For the longest time I thought something was wrong with this and tried to fight it, but now I’ve accepted that this is a part of who I am and what I do.

What you should care about right now

I don’t want to be a downer but I can’t help to be constantly thinking about what’s happening between the Ukraine and Russia lately.

This is not good. We all should care.

I’m a student of history and I can’t help but to feel as if the past 100 years haven’t taught us anything as a global community. I’m worried. I’m scared. And there isn’t a damn (can I say damn?) thing I can do about it either.

I often make the statement that I’ve been fortunate enough to not have experienced a large scale, global crisis like those that my grandparents lived through. The depression and the Great War(s) are things I never had to experience and while 9/11 certainly impacted the entire world it did so in a very different way.

I’m worried that what’s currently happening might lead to something worse and that if it does it signals that we haven’t collective learned from past choices and mistakes.

I really hope for everyone’s sake that I’m wrong. I tend to be wrong (see above question about education).

My biggest goal for 2014

I’m working towards living a more intentional life and having this influence the work I choose to complete. I’m striving to make an impact, both nationally and globally, while using my locality to experiment with ideas, fail gracefully and develop my creativity, all while improving the places I call home.

More tangibly, I’d like to build spend some time transforming Block Party in a Box, into what exactly, I don’t know.

I’m also working on launching a ‘place based wares company’ to increase civic pride where I live. This is part an excuse to create some swag for my home town that I’d like to wear, part an experiment in lean-business development and part not knowing exactly what I’m doing at any given moment.

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* full disclosure: I created Block Party in a Box.

  • Man’s dog suddenly becomes protective of his wife, Internet clocks the reason right away
    Dogs have impressive observational powers.Photo credit: Canva

    Reddit user Girlfriendhatesmefor’s three-year-old pitbull, Otis, had recently become overprotective of his wife. So he asked the online community if they knew what might be wrong with the dog.

    “A week or two ago, my wife got some sort of stomach bug,” the Reddit user wrote under the subreddit /r/dogs. “She was really nauseous and ill for about a week. Otis is very in tune with her emotions (we once got in a fight and she was upset, I swear he was staring daggers at me lol) and during this time didn’t even want to leave her to go on walks. We thought it was adorable!”

    His wife soon felt better, butthe dog’s behavior didn’t change.

    pregnancy signs, dogs and pregnancy, pitbull behavior, pet intuition, dog overprotection, Reddit stories, viral Reddit, dog instincts, canine emotions, dog owner tips
    Otis knew before they did. Canva

    Girlfriendhatesmefor began to fear that Otis’ behavior may be an early sign of an aggression issue or an indication that the dog was hurt or sick.

    So he threw a question out to fellow Reddit users: “Has anyone else’s dog suddenly developed attachment/aggression issues? Any and all advice appreciated, even if it’s that we’re being paranoid!”

    The most popular response to his thread was by ZZBC.

    Any chance your wife is pregnant?

    ZZBC | Reddit

    The potential news hit Girlfriendhatesmefor like a ton of bricks. A few days later, Girlfriendhatesmefor posted an update and ZZBC was right!

    “The wifey is pregnant!” the father-to-be wrote. “Otis is still being overprotective but it all makes sense now! Thanks for all the advice and kind words! Sorry for the delayed reply, I didn’t check back until just now!”

    Redditors responded with similar experiences.

    Anecdotal I know but I swear my dog knew I was pregnant before I was. He was super clingy (more than normal) and was always resting his head on my belly.

    realityisworse | Reddit

    So why do dogs get overprotective when someone is pregnant?

    Jeff Werber, PhD, president and chief veterinarian of the Century Veterinary Group in Los Angeles, told Health.com that “dogs can also smell the hormonal changes going on in a woman’s body at that time.” He added the dog may “not understand that this new scent of your skin and breath is caused by a developing baby, but they will know that something is different with you—which might cause them to be more curious or attentive.”

    The big lesson here is to listen to your pets and to ask questions when their behavior abruptly changes. They may be trying to tell you something, and the news may be life-changing.

    This article originally appeared last year.

  • Throughout history, women have stood up and fought to break down barriers imposed on them from stereotypes and societal expectations. The trailblazers in these photos made history and redefined what a woman could be. In doing so, they paved the way for future generations to stand up and continue to fight for equality.

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    Why mass shootings spawn conspiracy theories

    Mass shootings and conspiracy theories have a long history.

    While conspiracy theories are not limited to any topic, there is one type of event that seems particularly likely to spark them: mass shootings, typically defined as attacks in which a shooter kills at least four other people.

    When one person kills many others in a single incident, particularly when it seems random, people naturally seek out answers for why the tragedy happened. After all, if a mass shooting is random, anyone can be a target.

    Pointing to some nefarious plan by a powerful group – such as the government – can be more comforting than the idea that the attack was the result of a disturbed or mentally ill individual who obtained a firearm legally.


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