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The shortest distance between two people is a story. I am a fourth generation Japanese American queer filmmaker who started imMEDIAte Justice, a Los Angeles-based nonprofit, when I was 21-years-old. I’ve been launching theory into action ever since.


imMEDIAte Justice was catalyzed by the idea that we could transform the cultural landscape by putting a camera in the hands of those who had been historically victimized, demonized, and made invisible by media. In 2010, we received a grant from the Pepsi Refresh Project and began summer workshops training queer young women of color in film production and sexuality education. Our documentary films screened at the Human Rights Watch Film Festival and started being used in high school classrooms to talk about issues surrounding gender and sexuality.

I recently had the pleasure of working with the nine fellows in GOOD’s Pathfinder Fellowship program. In just a few hours, these young people wrote down on paper their deepest fears and shared them with each other. They translated their life stories into poetry and filmed one another against a colorfully painted background at The Hub in downtown Los Angeles. By the end of the workshop we called each other “second family” to remind ourselves that, no matter how painful things got in life, we had each other. We talked about the power of telling our stories. How with a story we can reinvent ourselves. How we can recast ourselves from villains to protagonists in the master narrative and reclaim our humanity. We talked about the healing and restorative nature of story. How changing the story around our lives and our people changes the future.

There was something raw, honest, and dangerous about the truths that were shared in the imMEDIAte Justice workshop. They changed the way we saw ourselves. Writing and speaking the truth gave us our freedom back and we hope it transforms you:

“We are society’s cautionary tales. The girls who got pregnant, the boys who got into gangs. The ones who slipped through the cracks. But life didn’t end when society turned their back on us. We found another way to live. We found a new path. A new strength. A resilience that could not be broken by the disappointment, the judgement, the shame, the failure. We found each other.

I am not your success story or your nightmare. I am an ordinary person with struggles and triumphs willing to bear my heart and tell my story. I’m not the criminal you hear about on the news or another rape statistic. I am a son. I am a sister. I am a person on the verge of flight. Someone who has transformed sorrow into a story that makes me freer every time I tell it. A story I must keep telling by any means necessary to remember who I am. I’m not waiting to be saved I want to be heard. So if you want to help share my story.”

Using film gives workshop participants who had once felt silenced a platform to amplify their voice. We now have chapters in Kampala, Uganda, Dindigul, India, and Beijing, China, with girls that were cutting out the middle men (news) and recording their own direct from the source stories about gender-based violence in their communities. imMEDIAte Justice has grown into a network of girls from all over the world who have a lot to say, and now with a camera in hand, they know how to say it. Please watch the bravery of the Pathfinder Fellows and share it with your friends and family.

  • Man’s dog suddenly becomes protective of his wife, Internet clocks the reason right away
    Dogs have impressive observational powers.Photo credit: Canva

    Reddit user Girlfriendhatesmefor’s three-year-old pitbull, Otis, had recently become overprotective of his wife. So he asked the online community if they knew what might be wrong with the dog.

    “A week or two ago, my wife got some sort of stomach bug,” the Reddit user wrote under the subreddit /r/dogs. “She was really nauseous and ill for about a week. Otis is very in tune with her emotions (we once got in a fight and she was upset, I swear he was staring daggers at me lol) and during this time didn’t even want to leave her to go on walks. We thought it was adorable!”

    His wife soon felt better, butthe dog’s behavior didn’t change.

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    Otis knew before they did. Canva

    Girlfriendhatesmefor began to fear that Otis’ behavior may be an early sign of an aggression issue or an indication that the dog was hurt or sick.

    So he threw a question out to fellow Reddit users: “Has anyone else’s dog suddenly developed attachment/aggression issues? Any and all advice appreciated, even if it’s that we’re being paranoid!”

    The most popular response to his thread was by ZZBC.

    Any chance your wife is pregnant?

    ZZBC | Reddit

    The potential news hit Girlfriendhatesmefor like a ton of bricks. A few days later, Girlfriendhatesmefor posted an update and ZZBC was right!

    “The wifey is pregnant!” the father-to-be wrote. “Otis is still being overprotective but it all makes sense now! Thanks for all the advice and kind words! Sorry for the delayed reply, I didn’t check back until just now!”

    Redditors responded with similar experiences.

    Anecdotal I know but I swear my dog knew I was pregnant before I was. He was super clingy (more than normal) and was always resting his head on my belly.

    realityisworse | Reddit

    So why do dogs get overprotective when someone is pregnant?

    Jeff Werber, PhD, president and chief veterinarian of the Century Veterinary Group in Los Angeles, told Health.com that “dogs can also smell the hormonal changes going on in a woman’s body at that time.” He added the dog may “not understand that this new scent of your skin and breath is caused by a developing baby, but they will know that something is different with you—which might cause them to be more curious or attentive.”

    The big lesson here is to listen to your pets and to ask questions when their behavior abruptly changes. They may be trying to tell you something, and the news may be life-changing.

    This article originally appeared last year.

  • Throughout history, women have stood up and fought to break down barriers imposed on them from stereotypes and societal expectations. The trailblazers in these photos made history and redefined what a woman could be. In doing so, they paved the way for future generations to stand up and continue to fight for equality.

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    Why mass shootings spawn conspiracy theories

    Mass shootings and conspiracy theories have a long history.

    While conspiracy theories are not limited to any topic, there is one type of event that seems particularly likely to spark them: mass shootings, typically defined as attacks in which a shooter kills at least four other people.

    When one person kills many others in a single incident, particularly when it seems random, people naturally seek out answers for why the tragedy happened. After all, if a mass shooting is random, anyone can be a target.

    Pointing to some nefarious plan by a powerful group – such as the government – can be more comforting than the idea that the attack was the result of a disturbed or mentally ill individual who obtained a firearm legally.


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