People have gotten into the habit of wanting habits.

Everyday there’s a new application or piece of hardware that helps gamify our daily routines to make us better. One of my favorite recent examples was an app called Zombies Run!, an audio-based game that synchs up an oral story with the time and distance of your running. The more (and faster) you run, the less you get eaten by Zombies.

I loved this app… for about two weeks. Then I stopped running again.

There are tons of gamification tools out there that exist on your digital devices and, yes, there are plenty of studies showing that quantifying your progress tends to improve results. But sometimes technology is a big distraction. Often it’s part of the reason we’re not doing the good things we should be. When we rely on devices that can easily distract us from the things they are intended to help with, we can get off course.

With that in mind, here are some sample ideas on how to game yourself and your habits without relying on apps.

1. Only use cash.

Many bad habits are a result of credit cards. More specifically, not directly seeing your money being spent. Try to think through some of your bad habits that involve plastic and start paying for them with cash. Let’s say you want to eat out less each week and cook more? Take the average last few months of spending on food (including restaurants and groceries) and take half of that amount in cash out of the bank. Start paying for every food purchase that way and see if your behavior shifts.

2. Temporarily ban yourself from technology.

Pick one hour each day to unplug your wireless internet and hide your phone (no, this can’t be while you’re sleeping). The “Fear of Missing Out” epidemic has particularly affected those of the Millennial Generation and, unfortunately, humans are simply not built to multi-task. Whatever it is you’re trying to accomplish, technology has the potential of being your biggest enemy. Yes apps can help you improve your habits more efficiently, but they also trigger you to look at your phone or computer… which leads to many other distractions like email/Twitter/Facebooking. This teacher really nailed down the process with her students.

3. Pavlov yourself with guilty pleasures.

The experiments of Pavlov involved conditioning a creature (famously, dogs) to associate certain behaviors with things that gave them pleasure. We all have guilty pleasures (mine are manly TV shows like The Walking Dead and Sons of Anarchy). Force yourself to take the positive new action you want before you allow yourself to get your treat. So, no Real Housewives or Fashion Police until you run five miles. This works great when it comes to work as well. A great little technique called “Pomodoro” helps reward you by just focusing your time in different ways. For many of us, checking our email or Twitter has become a reward. Use this feeling of relief in short bursts while you focus on the more important stuff the majority of the time.

4. Make yourself accountable online (eventually).

A great example of this is 40 Days of Dating. A pair of friends with pretty awful past dating experiences decided to date each other and document the whole thing (through a friend). While this lives on the web, it’s really less about apps and more about exposing themselves to thousands of people and feeling pressured to better themselves. They’re making themselves accountable online, (thus propelling the experiment forward), but they’re not actively managing it or allowing it to get in the way.

5. Create your own game.

Most gamification apps use the same types of tactics focused on rewards. Buddy up with a friend or loved one and establish these types of offline rewards for yourselves. Whether it’s weight loss, keeping up with a productive hobby, or reading more, you can have some fun and create your own tangible reward system with your friends. Have a $5 secret prize you hide and then reveal to each other when the first goal is complete. Then one for $7, then for $10—you get the picture. And if you don’t want to spend a bunch of money, just make each other stuff or seek out trinkets at thrift shops that you can give each other. The surprise and thoughtfulness of the rewards is enough to keep you motivated.

Ultimately, all the examples above are just thought-starters. The overarching point is that you don’t necessarily need an app or a piece of technology to make you a “better you.” They are fun and they can help, but don’t let them act as a placebo for getting you closer to the problem you’re trying to solve.


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    Reddit user Girlfriendhatesmefor’s three-year-old pitbull, Otis, had recently become overprotective of his wife. So he asked the online community if they knew what might be wrong with the dog.

    “A week or two ago, my wife got some sort of stomach bug,” the Reddit user wrote under the subreddit /r/dogs. “She was really nauseous and ill for about a week. Otis is very in tune with her emotions (we once got in a fight and she was upset, I swear he was staring daggers at me lol) and during this time didn’t even want to leave her to go on walks. We thought it was adorable!”

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    Girlfriendhatesmefor began to fear that Otis’ behavior may be an early sign of an aggression issue or an indication that the dog was hurt or sick.

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    The potential news hit Girlfriendhatesmefor like a ton of bricks. A few days later, Girlfriendhatesmefor posted an update and ZZBC was right!

    “The wifey is pregnant!” the father-to-be wrote. “Otis is still being overprotective but it all makes sense now! Thanks for all the advice and kind words! Sorry for the delayed reply, I didn’t check back until just now!”

    Redditors responded with similar experiences.

    Anecdotal I know but I swear my dog knew I was pregnant before I was. He was super clingy (more than normal) and was always resting his head on my belly.

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    So why do dogs get overprotective when someone is pregnant?

    Jeff Werber, PhD, president and chief veterinarian of the Century Veterinary Group in Los Angeles, told Health.com that “dogs can also smell the hormonal changes going on in a woman’s body at that time.” He added the dog may “not understand that this new scent of your skin and breath is caused by a developing baby, but they will know that something is different with you—which might cause them to be more curious or attentive.”

    The big lesson here is to listen to your pets and to ask questions when their behavior abruptly changes. They may be trying to tell you something, and the news may be life-changing.

    This article originally appeared last year.

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