It’s hard to know how to react after an event like the horrific massacre in Aurora, Colorado last night. We can send public messages of support and concern for the victims and their friends and family. We can make private pledges to keep those people who were terrorized, injured, or killed in our thoughts. We can advocate for laws that prevent people as horribly lost as 24-year-old James Eagan Holmes, whatever their motives and backstories, from getting their hands on powerful weapons. Those are worthwhile things to do, surely, but they can also seem a little inadequate.


For those of us in the media, the question is more complicated still. News outlets, and especially bloggers and commentators, feel that it is their role (if not their professional obligation) to say something relevant about events like this one. Moreover, the something that they say should be new. And if it pleases other media people, and gets passed around and discussed and garners some traffic, that wouldn’t hurt. So you have this awkward, stiff-legged rush among the commentariat to find some “angle” on the story as quickly as possible without looking too undignified.

A few of us at GOOD were talking about this tragedy ourselves. Is this an opportunity to make a point about gun violence? Is that petty under the circumstances? Should we try to honor the victims somehow? Should we—can we—try to understand the perpetrator? Should we just stay out of it?

And then we realized this: People need blood.

When you get shot, you bleed, and keeping gunshot victims alive and stable requires that hospitals have adequate supplies of blood on hand. Whether or not they do depends on whether people like you and me, who are healthy and have blood to spare, think to give some up every once in a while.

I don’t like needles. I fainted the last time I got blood drawn (and that was just a small amount). I also had plans for a champagne brunch tomorrow. But I’ll likely be late for that, if I make it at all, because I plan to go donate blood tomorrow, along with other members of GOOD. We’re in Los Angeles. The blood we give won’t make it into the veins of the 38 wounded in Aurora, but it’ll mean that our communities are just a little better prepared for the next tragedy.

So here’s our “angle” for now: If you want to do something meaningful, one way is to schedule an appointment to donate blood, especially if you’re near Aurora and have O- or A- blood. There’s clear information about how to do that on the American Red Cross website, including a tool that will help you find a place to donate blood locally and information for first-time donors (and tips for overcoming a fear of needles).

Image from one of the wounded, via Reddit

  • Man’s dog suddenly becomes protective of his wife, Internet clocks the reason right away
    Dogs have impressive observational powers.Photo credit: Canva

    Reddit user Girlfriendhatesmefor’s three-year-old pitbull, Otis, had recently become overprotective of his wife. So he asked the online community if they knew what might be wrong with the dog.

    “A week or two ago, my wife got some sort of stomach bug,” the Reddit user wrote under the subreddit /r/dogs. “She was really nauseous and ill for about a week. Otis is very in tune with her emotions (we once got in a fight and she was upset, I swear he was staring daggers at me lol) and during this time didn’t even want to leave her to go on walks. We thought it was adorable!”

    His wife soon felt better, butthe dog’s behavior didn’t change.

    pregnancy signs, dogs and pregnancy, pitbull behavior, pet intuition, dog overprotection, Reddit stories, viral Reddit, dog instincts, canine emotions, dog owner tips
    Otis knew before they did. Canva

    Girlfriendhatesmefor began to fear that Otis’ behavior may be an early sign of an aggression issue or an indication that the dog was hurt or sick.

    So he threw a question out to fellow Reddit users: “Has anyone else’s dog suddenly developed attachment/aggression issues? Any and all advice appreciated, even if it’s that we’re being paranoid!”

    The most popular response to his thread was by ZZBC.

    Any chance your wife is pregnant?

    ZZBC | Reddit

    The potential news hit Girlfriendhatesmefor like a ton of bricks. A few days later, Girlfriendhatesmefor posted an update and ZZBC was right!

    “The wifey is pregnant!” the father-to-be wrote. “Otis is still being overprotective but it all makes sense now! Thanks for all the advice and kind words! Sorry for the delayed reply, I didn’t check back until just now!”

    Redditors responded with similar experiences.

    Anecdotal I know but I swear my dog knew I was pregnant before I was. He was super clingy (more than normal) and was always resting his head on my belly.

    realityisworse | Reddit

    So why do dogs get overprotective when someone is pregnant?

    Jeff Werber, PhD, president and chief veterinarian of the Century Veterinary Group in Los Angeles, told Health.com that “dogs can also smell the hormonal changes going on in a woman’s body at that time.” He added the dog may “not understand that this new scent of your skin and breath is caused by a developing baby, but they will know that something is different with you—which might cause them to be more curious or attentive.”

    The big lesson here is to listen to your pets and to ask questions when their behavior abruptly changes. They may be trying to tell you something, and the news may be life-changing.

    This article originally appeared last year.

  • Throughout history, women have stood up and fought to break down barriers imposed on them from stereotypes and societal expectations. The trailblazers in these photos made history and redefined what a woman could be. In doing so, they paved the way for future generations to stand up and continue to fight for equality.

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    Why mass shootings spawn conspiracy theories

    Mass shootings and conspiracy theories have a long history.

    While conspiracy theories are not limited to any topic, there is one type of event that seems particularly likely to spark them: mass shootings, typically defined as attacks in which a shooter kills at least four other people.

    When one person kills many others in a single incident, particularly when it seems random, people naturally seek out answers for why the tragedy happened. After all, if a mass shooting is random, anyone can be a target.

    Pointing to some nefarious plan by a powerful group – such as the government – can be more comforting than the idea that the attack was the result of a disturbed or mentally ill individual who obtained a firearm legally.


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