In our week-long series, Now and Then, GOOD writers each choose a beloved piece of pop culture from back in the day and pit it against its modern-day equivalent, with a fresh pair of adult eyes. May the best zeitgeist win.

I was 11 when Snoop Dogg’s first album, Doggystyle, came out. That was gangsta rap’s heyday, when MTV still played music videos by people like Snoop, Dr. Dre, Warren G, and the Dogg Pound Gangstaz, much to the dismay of my mother. At that time my mom was a principal at a middle school serving mostly low-income minorities in Tucson, Arizona. For her, gangs and the violence they wrought were an everyday reality, not entertainment. When I asked her if she’d buy me Doggystyle in a Wherehouse music store one afternoon, it was as if I’d asked her to buy me crack or a switchblade. “Absolutely not!” she gasped. That day, I had to make do with Digable Planets.


It turned out that Digable Planets were actually pretty great, and I listened to “Rebirth of Slick” on repeat until my Discman broke. Nevertheless, my illicit love for the foulmouthed Doggfather remained, and years later, when I stopped relying on my parents for all my money, I bought Doggystyle.

If you’re a rap fan, you know Doggystyle is a great record. And even if you’re not a rap fan, if you grew up in the ‘90s, chances are you nodded your head at least once to a Doggystyle hit: “Gin and Juice,” “Murder Was the Case,” “Doggy Dogg World,” “Tha Shiznit,” “Who Am I (What’s My Name)?”—practically every song sounded engineered to be played loudly in a teenager’s first car, with Wendy’s wrappers crunching underneath tapping feet. My favorite, however, was “Ain’t No Fun (If the Homies Can’t Have None).”

Ever ridden in your gross older brother’s car? Ever been to a beer-drenched frat party? Ever played lacrosse? If you’ve ever done any of those things, or their approximations, it’s very likely you’ve encountered “Ain’t No Fun.” The 12th track on Doggystyle, “Ain’t No Fun” stands out as the most misogynistic song on the record; quite the feat for an album that also contains “Gz Up, Hoes Down.” The song begins with Nate Dogg singing, “When I met you last night baby/ Before you opened up your gap/ I had respect for you lady/ But now I take it all back.” And things only get worse from there.

Like teenagers shouting at a movie screen, “Ain’t No Fun” is collaborative derision, with several members of “The Dogg Pound” chiming in to share their distaste for “bitches.” Kurupt raps that he doesn’t give a fuck about women because they always want his money. Snoop advises everyone to not trust hoes, who have a tendency to “get scandalous” and “pull voodoo.” Warren G says all women need to give him oral sex immediately. The chorus anchoring each verse is simple: “It ain’t no fun if the homies can’t have none.” Translation: “I don’t like having sex with women unless all my friends get to have sex with them, too.”

Putting it all to paper nowadays makes it sound pretty revolting. I was less shocked when I was dancing to “Ain’t No Fun” in college, bourbon staining my shirt and much of the floor around me. Back then, shouting along to misogynistic, homophobic, violent rap lyrics was as normal as trying to drink three beers in 30 seconds. That is to say, normal for my college experience, but certainly not smart or thoughtful.

When I moved to Los Angeles late last year, several years after graduating college, I started listening to a band named Odd Future, led by a charismatic teenager who called himself Tyler, the Creator. A few months later Tyler and his group would be household names, but when I found them they were little more than a small cadre of L.A. kids trying to make it big in hip hop—probably not too unlike Snoop Dogg and his friends two decades ago. I liked Odd Future’s dirty beats and interesting rhyme patterns, and I liked the DIY ethic they seemed to bring to their music. But then I paid attention to the lyrics.

On one Odd Future song, the lyrics describe Taylor Swift getting kidnapped and held hostage. On another, Tyler says he won’t wear a mask to attack a woman because “I want the ho to know it’s me.” On another, Earl Sweatshirt, probably the most talented rapper in Odd Future, says he’d like to feed acid to a woman before taping her mouth shut and putting her in the trunk of his car. The rape fantasies abound and all women are “bitches,” some of them were even deserving of death.

I tried my best to listen to Odd Future anyway. I tried to enjoy the music behind the lyrics and the complex, indirect rhyme schemes. I tried to appreciate the group’s energy. I tried to cheer on their abhorrence of music industry convention. But eventually all my thoughts came back to the fact that, to really listen to Odd Future, I’d have to listen to lots of songs about raping and murdering women. Did I want to be almost 30 and listening to a kid scream “Bitch, suck dick!” on a song of the same name? I thought of my mom. I decided Odd Future wasn’t for me.

Why was I so into “Ain’t No Fun” but now can’t tolerate Odd Future’s woman-hating? I’ve stopped turning off my brain when I listen to music. One of the greatest things about music is that it doesn’t really ask you to think. People call it the universal language because so much of it is about how it makes you feel. When I was younger, it was easy to separate my physical impulses from my mind—Snoop sounded fun and made me feel fun, so I screamed Snoop. Nowadays I know women who have been raped. I know women who have been beaten up by men. I know women who have suffered true humiliation at the hands of guys who thought they were nothing but bitches. In New York, I once saw a guy shove a woman into traffic during an argument. Violence and misogyny are no longer musical devices to me; they’re real problems that make the world a truly worse place.

Sometimes I wish I could go back to the days when it was easy to enjoy a Snoop song about treating women like garbage, but I can’t. As much as I’m glad there was a time when I found joy in stupidity, I’m twice as happy that I now know you shouldn’t lose respect for a woman because she has sex with you, as Nate Dogg would have had me believe. I sold my copy of Doggystyle to Amoeba Records years ago. I’ve still got that Digable Planets album, though.

  • Man’s dog suddenly becomes protective of his wife, Internet clocks the reason right away
    Dogs have impressive observational powers.Photo credit: Canva

    Reddit user Girlfriendhatesmefor’s three-year-old pitbull, Otis, had recently become overprotective of his wife. So he asked the online community if they knew what might be wrong with the dog.

    “A week or two ago, my wife got some sort of stomach bug,” the Reddit user wrote under the subreddit /r/dogs. “She was really nauseous and ill for about a week. Otis is very in tune with her emotions (we once got in a fight and she was upset, I swear he was staring daggers at me lol) and during this time didn’t even want to leave her to go on walks. We thought it was adorable!”

    His wife soon felt better, butthe dog’s behavior didn’t change.

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    Otis knew before they did. Canva

    Girlfriendhatesmefor began to fear that Otis’ behavior may be an early sign of an aggression issue or an indication that the dog was hurt or sick.

    So he threw a question out to fellow Reddit users: “Has anyone else’s dog suddenly developed attachment/aggression issues? Any and all advice appreciated, even if it’s that we’re being paranoid!”

    The most popular response to his thread was by ZZBC.

    Any chance your wife is pregnant?

    ZZBC | Reddit

    The potential news hit Girlfriendhatesmefor like a ton of bricks. A few days later, Girlfriendhatesmefor posted an update and ZZBC was right!

    “The wifey is pregnant!” the father-to-be wrote. “Otis is still being overprotective but it all makes sense now! Thanks for all the advice and kind words! Sorry for the delayed reply, I didn’t check back until just now!”

    Redditors responded with similar experiences.

    Anecdotal I know but I swear my dog knew I was pregnant before I was. He was super clingy (more than normal) and was always resting his head on my belly.

    realityisworse | Reddit

    So why do dogs get overprotective when someone is pregnant?

    Jeff Werber, PhD, president and chief veterinarian of the Century Veterinary Group in Los Angeles, told Health.com that “dogs can also smell the hormonal changes going on in a woman’s body at that time.” He added the dog may “not understand that this new scent of your skin and breath is caused by a developing baby, but they will know that something is different with you—which might cause them to be more curious or attentive.”

    The big lesson here is to listen to your pets and to ask questions when their behavior abruptly changes. They may be trying to tell you something, and the news may be life-changing.

    This article originally appeared last year.

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    Why mass shootings spawn conspiracy theories

    Mass shootings and conspiracy theories have a long history.

    While conspiracy theories are not limited to any topic, there is one type of event that seems particularly likely to spark them: mass shootings, typically defined as attacks in which a shooter kills at least four other people.

    When one person kills many others in a single incident, particularly when it seems random, people naturally seek out answers for why the tragedy happened. After all, if a mass shooting is random, anyone can be a target.

    Pointing to some nefarious plan by a powerful group – such as the government – can be more comforting than the idea that the attack was the result of a disturbed or mentally ill individual who obtained a firearm legally.


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