Most of us hate dealing with salespeople. I’m not talking about the folks who help you find the right size shirt, I’m talking about the smarmy guy trying to unload the 1986 Subaru. And yet, if you’re an entrepreneur, you are a salesperson. Whether you’re dealing with employees, potential partners, or investors, you’re trying to sell people on your idea.To get comfortable with that idea, I once took a course in entrepreneurial selling. The professor was exactly the sort of guy you’d expect, and while some of his suggestions were downright shady, I did manage to learn a few things that have stuck with me. And they are:Your presentation is not about you.If someone has invited you to speak, it’s not because they care about you or your company; it’s because they care about themselves and their company and they think you might be able to help them. As such, your presentation shouldn’t simply be about what your product can do or how reliable your service is. It shouldn’t be a 10-minute bio of your accomplishments to show that you’re reputable. It’s about what you’re going to do for the people you’re talking to. That’s it. If you find yourself saying anything that in some way doesn’t benefit the audience, stop talking.Take questions at any time.Don’t ask your audience to hold questions until the end. It gives the message that your time is more important than theirs. If someone’s got a question, let them ask it. There will be times where you’ll be able to say, “We’re going to tackle that topic on the next slide.” But, on the whole, just stop what you’re doing and answer. Sure, it might interrupt the flow of your presentation for a second, but it’s important to be prepared to answer a question about your company off the cuff.Put the money up front.If there’s a point in your pitch that requires telling your audience how much your product or service is going to cost, put it out there early on. This goes for written proposals as well. Too many presenters seem to adopt the infomercial approach. They spend their time talking about all of the wonderful features-only to try and sneak the price in at the end (“For only three easy payments…”).The reaction to pricing is almost always the same-namely, “What? There’s no way in hell I’m paying that!” Even if they’re not offended, they’ll act the part in order to negotiate. (An aside: If anyone sees your price and immediately says “That sounds fair,” there’s a good chance you’re not charging enough.) So, let’s assume the audience is going to react negatively to your price. Would you rather end on it and leave the rotten taste in their mouths or get it over with and spend the rest of your time convincing them it’s worth it?Don’t “conclude.” If you’re looking to end strong, do yourself a favor and forget you’ve ever heard phrases like “In conclusion” and “In closing.” Remember what school was like? If class ended at noon, by 11:58, people were shoving their notebooks in their backpacks and getting ready to bolt. Old habits die hard. If they know the meeting’s coming to a close, they’re already thinking about lunch. Be hope-less.It seems that a lot of people tend to end presentations with something along the lines of “We hope you see why our nonprofit is the perfect partner for you” or “We hope you’ve learned something today.” I don’t mean to get all Yoda on you, but either accomplish your goal or don’t. Stop hoping. If you gave a kick-ass presentation, own it. Confidence is contagious.The Takeaway: No matter your expertise, any social entrepreneur’s job is to be Head Salesperson. You constantly need to convince people to put faith in your ability to help change the world. And while everyone has their own presentation styles, having a few rules of thumb might help you seal the deal.

  • Man’s dog suddenly becomes protective of his wife, Internet clocks the reason right away
    Dogs have impressive observational powers.Photo credit: Canva

    Reddit user Girlfriendhatesmefor’s three-year-old pitbull, Otis, had recently become overprotective of his wife. So he asked the online community if they knew what might be wrong with the dog.

    “A week or two ago, my wife got some sort of stomach bug,” the Reddit user wrote under the subreddit /r/dogs. “She was really nauseous and ill for about a week. Otis is very in tune with her emotions (we once got in a fight and she was upset, I swear he was staring daggers at me lol) and during this time didn’t even want to leave her to go on walks. We thought it was adorable!”

    His wife soon felt better, butthe dog’s behavior didn’t change.

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    Otis knew before they did. Canva

    Girlfriendhatesmefor began to fear that Otis’ behavior may be an early sign of an aggression issue or an indication that the dog was hurt or sick.

    So he threw a question out to fellow Reddit users: “Has anyone else’s dog suddenly developed attachment/aggression issues? Any and all advice appreciated, even if it’s that we’re being paranoid!”

    The most popular response to his thread was by ZZBC.

    Any chance your wife is pregnant?

    ZZBC | Reddit

    The potential news hit Girlfriendhatesmefor like a ton of bricks. A few days later, Girlfriendhatesmefor posted an update and ZZBC was right!

    “The wifey is pregnant!” the father-to-be wrote. “Otis is still being overprotective but it all makes sense now! Thanks for all the advice and kind words! Sorry for the delayed reply, I didn’t check back until just now!”

    Redditors responded with similar experiences.

    Anecdotal I know but I swear my dog knew I was pregnant before I was. He was super clingy (more than normal) and was always resting his head on my belly.

    realityisworse | Reddit

    So why do dogs get overprotective when someone is pregnant?

    Jeff Werber, PhD, president and chief veterinarian of the Century Veterinary Group in Los Angeles, told Health.com that “dogs can also smell the hormonal changes going on in a woman’s body at that time.” He added the dog may “not understand that this new scent of your skin and breath is caused by a developing baby, but they will know that something is different with you—which might cause them to be more curious or attentive.”

    The big lesson here is to listen to your pets and to ask questions when their behavior abruptly changes. They may be trying to tell you something, and the news may be life-changing.

    This article originally appeared last year.

  • Throughout history, women have stood up and fought to break down barriers imposed on them from stereotypes and societal expectations. The trailblazers in these photos made history and redefined what a woman could be. In doing so, they paved the way for future generations to stand up and continue to fight for equality.

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    Why mass shootings spawn conspiracy theories

    Mass shootings and conspiracy theories have a long history.

    While conspiracy theories are not limited to any topic, there is one type of event that seems particularly likely to spark them: mass shootings, typically defined as attacks in which a shooter kills at least four other people.

    When one person kills many others in a single incident, particularly when it seems random, people naturally seek out answers for why the tragedy happened. After all, if a mass shooting is random, anyone can be a target.

    Pointing to some nefarious plan by a powerful group – such as the government – can be more comforting than the idea that the attack was the result of a disturbed or mentally ill individual who obtained a firearm legally.


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