No job is immune from the mundane.


It may be a long early morning commute or sitting through the fifth presentation of the same material in two days. Our ability to find interest, purpose — and even meaning — in these moments can enable us to play the long game with our career and to endure and learn from essential skill-building jobs that may be kind of boring.

So, what can you do to get over these boring moments?

There are two parts to this practice that can transform any job.

The first part begins by noticing the details. When we are bored, our natural tendency is to do the exact opposite. We zone out and resign ourselves to loop-thinking, questioning our choices, or letting our minds wander. Instead, go the other direction. Pay extra attention to the mundane parts.

For example, if your task is to photocopy and fold 500 booklets, pay attention to the arc that your hand makes when taking things from the photocopier to the table and back. Challenge yourself try to make your movements as smooth and uniform as possible. The benefits of this type of thinking don’t reveal themselves in 10 minutes, they reveal themselves over a sustained period of time.

Sustaining this type of practice doesn’t feel like more work, it actually transforms these boring moments into something new and sets you up for the second part of this practice:

Asking a question and finding the answer within the details and insights you have begun to uncover.

Your question can be anything.

It can be something profound and philosophical — if you tend toward that type of thinking — or it can be as simple as figuring out what you want to eat for lunch.

In his book “The Shallows,” Nicholas Carr uses the term “combining machines” to explain our brain’s ability to take disparate types of information and find unique connections between them. This is the magic of our neural networks, composed of hundreds of thousands of overlapping wires crossing and sending signals back and forth. By asking a question of this previously meaningless activity and continuing to do so over time, you will find an answer and the insight may be surprising.

As we pursue “nonlinear careers,” we need to take unconventional steps to find and build careers that sustain and nourish us. It is why I wrote the book “50 Ways to Get a Job: An Unconventional Guide to Finding Work on Your Terms,” and it is the grounding that this exercise rests on.

Here are some steps, one by one, that will help you transform even the most boring of moments.

PART 1: NOTICE THE DETAILS

  1. Identify your moment of boredom

Identify one moment in your everyday routine that currently has no meaning. Set constraints around this moment of boredom — these could be physical constraints or time-based constraints.

  1. Decide what to focus on

Choose one aspect of your boring moment to focus on. This step narrows your range of potential outcomes, helping you manage the creative challenge of finding meaning in the mundane.

  1. Notice the details

Begin noticing the details. Notice the smells, sounds, sights, or temperature. Pay attention to the way that you move or attempt to notice the materials present and how they relate to each other.

  1. Continue for two weeks

Practice this for two weeks. If you lose interest after the first week chose another boring moment to explore and recommit to this new topic of focus for another two weeks.

PART 2: ANSWER A QUESTION

  1. Choose a question

Your question can be anything — simple, philosophical, or timely. You also have permission to change your question as you begin to get answers. The question shouldn’t have anything directly to do with the specific moment you chose above.

  1. Give the task power

Give power to the moment that you chose in Part 1. Treat it as something that contains an important answer a task that is worth revering. This moment holds the answer, but first, you have to believe it: You have to give this moment power. Entertain the belief that your coffee run or time in the copy room could hold the answer to a question that you’ve been struggling with your whole life.

  1. Ask the question

This part that will feel like a stretch. You may feel embarrassed or awkward at first, but that will change over time. Ask yourself what can this task teach you about the question that you are asking? What answers does it hold — think laterally. However simple the task may be, whether it is walking out the door or answering phones, know there is something to be learned. Look for answers in the way that you are doing the task; how your body moves or feels throughout it. Look for answers in the outcomes and results of your work. Consider folding paper, let your mind move from the specific — the act of folding and creasing paper — to the general — where did the trees that were used to make this paper come from? How can the paper-making process inform your inquiry?

The answers we come to are not the important part of this exercise. The important part of this practice comes from the act of noticing, and the realization that even in the most boring of moments there is something we can learn. There is a career to be built and we are already in the middle of it.

  • Man’s dog suddenly becomes protective of his wife, Internet clocks the reason right away
    Dogs have impressive observational powers.Photo credit: Canva

    Reddit user Girlfriendhatesmefor’s three-year-old pitbull, Otis, had recently become overprotective of his wife. So he asked the online community if they knew what might be wrong with the dog.

    “A week or two ago, my wife got some sort of stomach bug,” the Reddit user wrote under the subreddit /r/dogs. “She was really nauseous and ill for about a week. Otis is very in tune with her emotions (we once got in a fight and she was upset, I swear he was staring daggers at me lol) and during this time didn’t even want to leave her to go on walks. We thought it was adorable!”

    His wife soon felt better, butthe dog’s behavior didn’t change.

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    Otis knew before they did. Canva

    Girlfriendhatesmefor began to fear that Otis’ behavior may be an early sign of an aggression issue or an indication that the dog was hurt or sick.

    So he threw a question out to fellow Reddit users: “Has anyone else’s dog suddenly developed attachment/aggression issues? Any and all advice appreciated, even if it’s that we’re being paranoid!”

    The most popular response to his thread was by ZZBC.

    Any chance your wife is pregnant?

    ZZBC | Reddit

    The potential news hit Girlfriendhatesmefor like a ton of bricks. A few days later, Girlfriendhatesmefor posted an update and ZZBC was right!

    “The wifey is pregnant!” the father-to-be wrote. “Otis is still being overprotective but it all makes sense now! Thanks for all the advice and kind words! Sorry for the delayed reply, I didn’t check back until just now!”

    Redditors responded with similar experiences.

    Anecdotal I know but I swear my dog knew I was pregnant before I was. He was super clingy (more than normal) and was always resting his head on my belly.

    realityisworse | Reddit

    So why do dogs get overprotective when someone is pregnant?

    Jeff Werber, PhD, president and chief veterinarian of the Century Veterinary Group in Los Angeles, told Health.com that “dogs can also smell the hormonal changes going on in a woman’s body at that time.” He added the dog may “not understand that this new scent of your skin and breath is caused by a developing baby, but they will know that something is different with you—which might cause them to be more curious or attentive.”

    The big lesson here is to listen to your pets and to ask questions when their behavior abruptly changes. They may be trying to tell you something, and the news may be life-changing.

    This article originally appeared last year.

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    Why mass shootings spawn conspiracy theories

    Mass shootings and conspiracy theories have a long history.

    While conspiracy theories are not limited to any topic, there is one type of event that seems particularly likely to spark them: mass shootings, typically defined as attacks in which a shooter kills at least four other people.

    When one person kills many others in a single incident, particularly when it seems random, people naturally seek out answers for why the tragedy happened. After all, if a mass shooting is random, anyone can be a target.

    Pointing to some nefarious plan by a powerful group – such as the government – can be more comforting than the idea that the attack was the result of a disturbed or mentally ill individual who obtained a firearm legally.


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