High school orientation is for finding your assigned locker and making sure the combination opens it, getting your schedule of classes, and signing a form that says, yes, you will follow the draconian dress code. But along with those typical activities, some parents are finding that some campuses are using orientation to give students information on an unexpected, but necessary, topic: surviving an active shooter.


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On Aug. 8, a Twitter user named Buffy the Psych Prof expressed disbelief that her daughter was trained at her high school orientation about what to do if someone has a firearm at school. The Twiter user, who says she works as a psychology professor, wasn’t exactly thrilled with how normalized it’s become in the U.S. to teach kids about what to do when someone has a gun at school.

She tweeted that her daughter had been trained in the ALICE — Alert, Lockdown, Inform, Counter, Evacuate — method. Since 2001, the Ohio-based ALICE Training Institute has taught this way of responding to an active shooter to about 1 million Americans.

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ALICE was created in 2001 by a law enforcement officer whose wife was an elementary school principal. Since then, students and staff at about 3,700 K-12 schools nationwide have been trained in the method. “Our vision is to empower all citizens with the skills and knowledge to respond when shots are fired,” says the ALICE Training Institute website. “If the police cannot be there in time to help, the next best thing is to prepare our civilian population to help themselves until public safety arrives.”

Buffy the Psych Prof wrote on Twitter that, during the ALICE training, her daughter “learned that she should throw books & desks & hide in order to save her life. Because that’s protection against an AR-15, right?”

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Moreso, Buffy was outraged over the message the training seemed to be giving the students. “‘It’s like they were preparing us for battle, not high school.’ MY KID SAID THAT,” she tweeted. She went on to make an observation that so many other Americans have made: “Look how normalized this has become.”

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As Buffy points out, school is hard enough without having to worry about getting shot. Now kids have this “added layer of fear and worry because people have a hard-on for a piece of metal designed to only do one thing: kill,” she wrote.

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Some folks might see the need for ALICE training and drills and applaud it because of the 233 school shootings in the United States since 2013. Meanwhile, the NRA is busy making ISIS-style recruitment videos, and teachers are misguidedly being trained to carry guns in school — so it can feel like active shooter drills are just an inevitable fact of life. But several fed-up parents and educators responded to Buffy, sharing that they find the psychological effects of active shooter drills on children problematic. One mom tweeted that her kid doesn’t always know that the drill isn’t real.

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A special education teacher tweeted that it takes her students “weeks to recover” from the drills.

“I signed up to teach grammar and Shakespeare, not how to shelter in place,” tweeted another educator.

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And a first-grade teacher’s struggle with keeping her students quiet is heartbreaking.

As a kid growing up in the Midwest, we had drills for natural disasters, like tornadoes, and for accidents, like fires. When I became a classroom teacher in Compton, California, in the late-1990s, we still had fire drills. In California, earthquakes replaced tornadoes as the natural disasters we prepared for, and active shooters drills were added in.

During a drill, I’d have to turn out the lights in my classroom, close the door, lock it, and silently gesture to my students to quickly get under their desks and stay quiet — as if a shooter was supposed to think that no one was in the room at 10:30 a.m. on a school day. To get a classroom of rambunctious 8-year-olds to do this within 30 seconds took plenty of practice.

A few years later, when I moved to a role where I observed teachers and provided professional development at schools throughout South Los Angeles, I was in a classroom when an active shooter was present in the surrounding neighborhood. The school was on lockdown for nearly two hours. I laid on a floor in a classroom with the teacher and her students for that entire time. Some of the children urinated on themselves, and I thought I might too.

On the ALICE Training Institute website, the company offers tips for educators on how they should best arrange their classrooms, just in case an active shooter situation happens. No. 3 on that list is: “Consider arranging a low bookshelf to create a path into the class.” That will, apparently, create a barrier that will temporarily block the view of the person with a gun. That is the normalization that Buffy and so many other folks have had enough of. But until America gets serious about gun safety, it seems the days of teachers only having to think about teaching — and kids like Buffy’s daughter only having to think about learning — really are over.

  • Man’s dog suddenly becomes protective of his wife, Internet clocks the reason right away
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    Reddit user Girlfriendhatesmefor’s three-year-old pitbull, Otis, had recently become overprotective of his wife. So he asked the online community if they knew what might be wrong with the dog.

    “A week or two ago, my wife got some sort of stomach bug,” the Reddit user wrote under the subreddit /r/dogs. “She was really nauseous and ill for about a week. Otis is very in tune with her emotions (we once got in a fight and she was upset, I swear he was staring daggers at me lol) and during this time didn’t even want to leave her to go on walks. We thought it was adorable!”

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    Girlfriendhatesmefor began to fear that Otis’ behavior may be an early sign of an aggression issue or an indication that the dog was hurt or sick.

    So he threw a question out to fellow Reddit users: “Has anyone else’s dog suddenly developed attachment/aggression issues? Any and all advice appreciated, even if it’s that we’re being paranoid!”

    The most popular response to his thread was by ZZBC.

    Any chance your wife is pregnant?

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    The potential news hit Girlfriendhatesmefor like a ton of bricks. A few days later, Girlfriendhatesmefor posted an update and ZZBC was right!

    “The wifey is pregnant!” the father-to-be wrote. “Otis is still being overprotective but it all makes sense now! Thanks for all the advice and kind words! Sorry for the delayed reply, I didn’t check back until just now!”

    Redditors responded with similar experiences.

    Anecdotal I know but I swear my dog knew I was pregnant before I was. He was super clingy (more than normal) and was always resting his head on my belly.

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    So why do dogs get overprotective when someone is pregnant?

    Jeff Werber, PhD, president and chief veterinarian of the Century Veterinary Group in Los Angeles, told Health.com that “dogs can also smell the hormonal changes going on in a woman’s body at that time.” He added the dog may “not understand that this new scent of your skin and breath is caused by a developing baby, but they will know that something is different with you—which might cause them to be more curious or attentive.”

    The big lesson here is to listen to your pets and to ask questions when their behavior abruptly changes. They may be trying to tell you something, and the news may be life-changing.

    This article originally appeared last year.

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