In the wake of Donald Trump’s win on Tuesday night, supporters of Hillary Clinton (and basic human decency) have been scrambling to reconcile the fact millions of Americans chose a bigot to be our president. Many have referenced the Cracked piece published in October titled “How Half of America Lost Its F**cking Mind.” As writer Jason Pargin explains of urban elites’ need to recognize white, rural voters, “It feels good to dismiss people, to mock them, to write them off as deplorables. But you might as well take time to try to understand them, because I’m telling you, they’ll still be around long after Trump is gone.”


Bernie Sanders voiced a similar sentiment in his response to Donald Trump’s victory, saying, “Donald Trump tapped into the anger of a declining middle class that is sick and tired of establishment economics, establishment politics, and the establishment media.” While that may be true, these attempts at understanding the plight of rural voters fail to acknowledge the colossal selfishness underlying white American support of Trump.

Patrick Thornton, the senior director of user experience at CQ Roll Call, started a Twitter thread on Thursday delving in to the lack of empathy in white, rural America as a result of homogeneity, isolation, and detachment. In his initial tweet, he writes, “I’m from the rural Midwest. All of this talk about coastal elites needing to understand more of America has it backwards.” As someone from the Midwest, Thornton’s personal experience adds legitimacy to his argument that Americans living in “white bubbles” need to challenge themselves to see beyond their limited worldviews.

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Many Twitter users responded with their own experience living in America’s white bubbles, pointing out that they’re not always buried in forgotten swaths of the Midwest.

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Thornton further points out that economic woes are no excuse for failing to see fellow Americans as human beings deserving of equal treatment.

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The thread has already gained a lot of traction on Twitter. It’s started a discussion that diverges from the common argument disappointed urbanites have been having: How did this happen? Where did we go wrong? In an opinion piece published on Roll Call shortly after the thread took off, Thornton writes,

“What we are seeing is a reaction to a rapidly changing world. A world that is becoming more connected. A world that is more diverse. A world where education and skills are necessary for good jobs. Change has not been kind to the Midwest and rural America. And rather than embrace it, rural and white working class Americans are twisting and turning, fighting it every step of the way. … This doesn’t mean that coastal Americans can’t empathize more with their fellow Americans and try to find solutions to these problems (nor does it mean that there aren’t many struggling working class people in coastal states). And it certainly doesn’t mean coastal Americans haven’t contributed to this divisiveness. … We are all real Americans, and it’s time we start empathizing with one another more.”

For those of us who believe in the simple truth that all human beings deserve basic civil rights, we are angry. We are in disbelief that so many flatly reject this fundamental notion. But this fear and frustration is just a small taste of what countless others have been struggling with their entire lives—those who have had to bear the burden of white privilege. We can push ourselves to see how someone could be immune to the intense suffering of others, but if any real progress is going to be had, the stretching of beliefs has to happen on both sides. I’m talking to you, white America. It’s time to extend yourselves.

  • Man’s dog suddenly becomes protective of his wife, Internet clocks the reason right away
    Dogs have impressive observational powers.Photo credit: Canva

    Reddit user Girlfriendhatesmefor’s three-year-old pitbull, Otis, had recently become overprotective of his wife. So he asked the online community if they knew what might be wrong with the dog.

    “A week or two ago, my wife got some sort of stomach bug,” the Reddit user wrote under the subreddit /r/dogs. “She was really nauseous and ill for about a week. Otis is very in tune with her emotions (we once got in a fight and she was upset, I swear he was staring daggers at me lol) and during this time didn’t even want to leave her to go on walks. We thought it was adorable!”

    His wife soon felt better, butthe dog’s behavior didn’t change.

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    Girlfriendhatesmefor began to fear that Otis’ behavior may be an early sign of an aggression issue or an indication that the dog was hurt or sick.

    So he threw a question out to fellow Reddit users: “Has anyone else’s dog suddenly developed attachment/aggression issues? Any and all advice appreciated, even if it’s that we’re being paranoid!”

    The most popular response to his thread was by ZZBC.

    Any chance your wife is pregnant?

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    The potential news hit Girlfriendhatesmefor like a ton of bricks. A few days later, Girlfriendhatesmefor posted an update and ZZBC was right!

    “The wifey is pregnant!” the father-to-be wrote. “Otis is still being overprotective but it all makes sense now! Thanks for all the advice and kind words! Sorry for the delayed reply, I didn’t check back until just now!”

    Redditors responded with similar experiences.

    Anecdotal I know but I swear my dog knew I was pregnant before I was. He was super clingy (more than normal) and was always resting his head on my belly.

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    So why do dogs get overprotective when someone is pregnant?

    Jeff Werber, PhD, president and chief veterinarian of the Century Veterinary Group in Los Angeles, told Health.com that “dogs can also smell the hormonal changes going on in a woman’s body at that time.” He added the dog may “not understand that this new scent of your skin and breath is caused by a developing baby, but they will know that something is different with you—which might cause them to be more curious or attentive.”

    The big lesson here is to listen to your pets and to ask questions when their behavior abruptly changes. They may be trying to tell you something, and the news may be life-changing.

    This article originally appeared last year.

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    Why mass shootings spawn conspiracy theories

    Mass shootings and conspiracy theories have a long history.

    While conspiracy theories are not limited to any topic, there is one type of event that seems particularly likely to spark them: mass shootings, typically defined as attacks in which a shooter kills at least four other people.

    When one person kills many others in a single incident, particularly when it seems random, people naturally seek out answers for why the tragedy happened. After all, if a mass shooting is random, anyone can be a target.

    Pointing to some nefarious plan by a powerful group – such as the government – can be more comforting than the idea that the attack was the result of a disturbed or mentally ill individual who obtained a firearm legally.


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