You wake up at 7 a.m. You pour yourself a cup of coffee, don your most glamorous groutfit, and mentally prepare yourself for the dreadful, anxiety-inducing, soul-sucking job that awaits you. All because your boss is a cruel despot whose sole job description seems to require hovering over your desk like a stern schoolteacher, letting out only the occasional disapproving “harumph.”


But, hey, as bad as it feels to have a boss who’s mean to you every day, there are others who have it worse: A new study published by Michigan State University business scholars found that bosses who are inconsistent in how fairly they treat you cause more stress than bosses who are full-time jerks.

In the study, researchers set up a lab experiment in which participants engaged in a task and received consistently fair, consistently unfair, or inconsistent feedback from their “supervisors,” who were played by the researchers. After monitoring their heart rate, which is a common indicator of stress, the researchers concluded that it’s better to receive consistent treatment, fair or unfair, than to receive unpredictable, fickle treatment.

“Our findings essentially show that employees are better off if their boss is a consistent jerk rather than being a loose cannon who’s fair at times and unfair at other times,” Fadel Matta, lead author of the study, said. How does that Katy Perry song go? You’re hot then you’re cold, you’re yes then you’re no. Maybe all this time she was singing about her frustration with her boss’s management style.

Even without the study as evidence, the logic makes sense. Being praised one minute only to get shot down the next can do real damage to your self-esteem, and an anxious, stressed-out worker does not make a productive employee.

So even if your office is a personal hellscape that constantly barrages you with criticism, condescending looks, and disappointed emails, just remember: Someone with an inconsistent supervisor is having a harder day than you. And relish in that momentary reprieve.

  • Man’s dog suddenly becomes protective of his wife, Internet clocks the reason right away
    Dogs have impressive observational powers.Photo credit: Canva

    Reddit user Girlfriendhatesmefor’s three-year-old pitbull, Otis, had recently become overprotective of his wife. So he asked the online community if they knew what might be wrong with the dog.

    “A week or two ago, my wife got some sort of stomach bug,” the Reddit user wrote under the subreddit /r/dogs. “She was really nauseous and ill for about a week. Otis is very in tune with her emotions (we once got in a fight and she was upset, I swear he was staring daggers at me lol) and during this time didn’t even want to leave her to go on walks. We thought it was adorable!”

    His wife soon felt better, butthe dog’s behavior didn’t change.

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    Otis knew before they did. Canva

    Girlfriendhatesmefor began to fear that Otis’ behavior may be an early sign of an aggression issue or an indication that the dog was hurt or sick.

    So he threw a question out to fellow Reddit users: “Has anyone else’s dog suddenly developed attachment/aggression issues? Any and all advice appreciated, even if it’s that we’re being paranoid!”

    The most popular response to his thread was by ZZBC.

    Any chance your wife is pregnant?

    ZZBC | Reddit

    The potential news hit Girlfriendhatesmefor like a ton of bricks. A few days later, Girlfriendhatesmefor posted an update and ZZBC was right!

    “The wifey is pregnant!” the father-to-be wrote. “Otis is still being overprotective but it all makes sense now! Thanks for all the advice and kind words! Sorry for the delayed reply, I didn’t check back until just now!”

    Redditors responded with similar experiences.

    Anecdotal I know but I swear my dog knew I was pregnant before I was. He was super clingy (more than normal) and was always resting his head on my belly.

    realityisworse | Reddit

    So why do dogs get overprotective when someone is pregnant?

    Jeff Werber, PhD, president and chief veterinarian of the Century Veterinary Group in Los Angeles, told Health.com that “dogs can also smell the hormonal changes going on in a woman’s body at that time.” He added the dog may “not understand that this new scent of your skin and breath is caused by a developing baby, but they will know that something is different with you—which might cause them to be more curious or attentive.”

    The big lesson here is to listen to your pets and to ask questions when their behavior abruptly changes. They may be trying to tell you something, and the news may be life-changing.

    This article originally appeared last year.

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    Why mass shootings spawn conspiracy theories

    Mass shootings and conspiracy theories have a long history.

    While conspiracy theories are not limited to any topic, there is one type of event that seems particularly likely to spark them: mass shootings, typically defined as attacks in which a shooter kills at least four other people.

    When one person kills many others in a single incident, particularly when it seems random, people naturally seek out answers for why the tragedy happened. After all, if a mass shooting is random, anyone can be a target.

    Pointing to some nefarious plan by a powerful group – such as the government – can be more comforting than the idea that the attack was the result of a disturbed or mentally ill individual who obtained a firearm legally.


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