In our A City Education series, City Year corps members share their experiences working as tutors and mentors in schools in hopes of closing the opportunity gap and ending the dropout crisis.

Homework help, outside time, lesson and snack: unless there’s a special event going on, the students in City Year Los Angeles‘ afterschool program at Normandie Avenue Elementary School can count on this routine.


The word “routine” doesn’t usually inspire much excitement, but my teammates and I take pride in our ability to provide one. Our focus on consistency permeates everything from our uniforms to our chants to our 7:15 a.m. morning circles.

A conversation I had with a staff member earlier this month highlighted the importance of consistency. She mentioned that she has seen a rise in behavioral problems at Normandie; from what she can tell, the economy has played a significant role in the change.

Economic hardship affects communities all across the United States, but the reality is that some areas get hit harder than others. South Los Angeles—Normandie’s area—is one of them.

With unemployment high, many parents are facing financial difficulties, and more often than not, children feel the effects of their parents’ worries. Though elementary-aged children aren’t well-versed in financial terms, they’re incredibly sensitive to stress—and to the uncertainty that comes with it.

Moreover, that stress doesn’t simply stay at home. At school, it crops up in many different forms, from lack of focus to outright defiance.

The result? Schools have to be extra diligent in making sure students have the structure they need. Supporting that goal is an integral part of City Year’s mission.

First and foremost, consistency is all about showing up. Like many college students, I didn’t always take care of myself during my undergraduate years. I now make sure to sleep well and drink vitamin C packets religiously. I’ve accepted that I’m not just responsible for myself anymore. If I expect my students to arrive at school ready to learn, I have to arrive at school ready to help them.

We also set clear rules and expectations for our students. In the afterschool program, we give them stars, warnings, and strikes to show them when they’re impacting others in a positive way and when they’re spreading negativity. We do our best to praise the little things, like picking up extra trash—especially if a student seems to be having a tough time. If a student gets in trouble, we make sure he or she understands what went wrong and how to improve.

Finally, we run an afterschool program designed to enhance whatever students might be lacking. No quiet place to finish up classwork? We set up a space for students to concentrate and get one-on-one help. Nowhere to expend extra energy? That’s what the balls and jump ropes are for.

We can’t control what students face outside of Normandie. It’s not up to us. Nevertheless, we can ensure that while students are at school, they can see our bright yellow jackets and know they’re in safe hands.

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  • Man’s dog suddenly becomes protective of his wife, Internet clocks the reason right away
    Dogs have impressive observational powers.Photo credit: Canva

    Reddit user Girlfriendhatesmefor’s three-year-old pitbull, Otis, had recently become overprotective of his wife. So he asked the online community if they knew what might be wrong with the dog.

    “A week or two ago, my wife got some sort of stomach bug,” the Reddit user wrote under the subreddit /r/dogs. “She was really nauseous and ill for about a week. Otis is very in tune with her emotions (we once got in a fight and she was upset, I swear he was staring daggers at me lol) and during this time didn’t even want to leave her to go on walks. We thought it was adorable!”

    His wife soon felt better, butthe dog’s behavior didn’t change.

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    Otis knew before they did. Canva

    Girlfriendhatesmefor began to fear that Otis’ behavior may be an early sign of an aggression issue or an indication that the dog was hurt or sick.

    So he threw a question out to fellow Reddit users: “Has anyone else’s dog suddenly developed attachment/aggression issues? Any and all advice appreciated, even if it’s that we’re being paranoid!”

    The most popular response to his thread was by ZZBC.

    Any chance your wife is pregnant?

    ZZBC | Reddit

    The potential news hit Girlfriendhatesmefor like a ton of bricks. A few days later, Girlfriendhatesmefor posted an update and ZZBC was right!

    “The wifey is pregnant!” the father-to-be wrote. “Otis is still being overprotective but it all makes sense now! Thanks for all the advice and kind words! Sorry for the delayed reply, I didn’t check back until just now!”

    Redditors responded with similar experiences.

    Anecdotal I know but I swear my dog knew I was pregnant before I was. He was super clingy (more than normal) and was always resting his head on my belly.

    realityisworse | Reddit

    So why do dogs get overprotective when someone is pregnant?

    Jeff Werber, PhD, president and chief veterinarian of the Century Veterinary Group in Los Angeles, told Health.com that “dogs can also smell the hormonal changes going on in a woman’s body at that time.” He added the dog may “not understand that this new scent of your skin and breath is caused by a developing baby, but they will know that something is different with you—which might cause them to be more curious or attentive.”

    The big lesson here is to listen to your pets and to ask questions when their behavior abruptly changes. They may be trying to tell you something, and the news may be life-changing.

    This article originally appeared last year.

  • Throughout history, women have stood up and fought to break down barriers imposed on them from stereotypes and societal expectations. The trailblazers in these photos made history and redefined what a woman could be. In doing so, they paved the way for future generations to stand up and continue to fight for equality.

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    Why mass shootings spawn conspiracy theories

    Mass shootings and conspiracy theories have a long history.

    While conspiracy theories are not limited to any topic, there is one type of event that seems particularly likely to spark them: mass shootings, typically defined as attacks in which a shooter kills at least four other people.

    When one person kills many others in a single incident, particularly when it seems random, people naturally seek out answers for why the tragedy happened. After all, if a mass shooting is random, anyone can be a target.

    Pointing to some nefarious plan by a powerful group – such as the government – can be more comforting than the idea that the attack was the result of a disturbed or mentally ill individual who obtained a firearm legally.


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