30 Days of GOOD (#30DaysofGOOD) is our monthly attempt to live better. This month we’re focused on improving the way we use technology.


This weekend’s Digital Makeover task encourages you to step away from the computer and go offline with something you’d normally do using technology. Your project between now and Sunday is to send someone an analog email—also known as “a letter.”

Yep, sit down with a pen and paper and handwrite a message to a friend or family member. Then pack it up in an envelope, address it, stamp it, and put it one of those blue boxes you sometimes see out on streetcorners. Crazy stuff, I know.

Why? To remember what it’s like to connect with people in a way that requires slowness and more deliberation. While many of us spend a good portion of our days sending messages to people (via email, text, chat, and the like), so much of our electronic correspondence feels temporary and tossed off. In a recent editorial, the San Francisco Chronicle’s John Diaz expands on this idea and argues for the importance of letter writing:

Neither a thousand tweets nor an e-mail of any length can quite match the power or poignancy of a handwritten letter. … You are giving the recipient your most valuable asset: your undivided attention. You also are providing a keepsake. Friends and family members may cherish a Facebook wall post or a thoughtful text, but neither will ever end up in a drawer of personal treasures.

There aren’t many rules for this task. Just write a letter and drop it in the mail. But if you feel like you would benefit from a little assistance, take a look at the links below.

Looking for letter-writing inspiration? Take it from some of the world’s best. Back around Valentine’s Day, Fast Company’s Co.Design compiled handwritten love letters from notable people ranging from Frida Kahlo to Michael Jordan.

If you’re like me, years of typing has taken its toll on your handwriting skills. (I started writing my letter for this task earlier today, and I realized that I was so out of practice that my hand actually hurt after just a few senstences!) Luckily, eHow has a good list of instructions and practical tips for improving your penmanship.

Then check out handwrittenletters.com, where you’ll find a history of letters (did you know that postage stamps first came into use in the 1840s?), an image gallery of letters from throughout the years, and a variety of videos that will help you become a master of written correspondence.

Once you’ve finished your letter this weekend, you may find that you enjoyed it so much that you want to send more. But who to write to? There are many sites devoted to helping you find pen pals from all over the world. WikiHow has a handy guide to finding new friends that you can keep up your letter-writing habit with.

  • Man’s dog suddenly becomes protective of his wife, Internet clocks the reason right away
    Dogs have impressive observational powers.Photo credit: Canva

    Reddit user Girlfriendhatesmefor’s three-year-old pitbull, Otis, had recently become overprotective of his wife. So he asked the online community if they knew what might be wrong with the dog.

    “A week or two ago, my wife got some sort of stomach bug,” the Reddit user wrote under the subreddit /r/dogs. “She was really nauseous and ill for about a week. Otis is very in tune with her emotions (we once got in a fight and she was upset, I swear he was staring daggers at me lol) and during this time didn’t even want to leave her to go on walks. We thought it was adorable!”

    His wife soon felt better, butthe dog’s behavior didn’t change.

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    Otis knew before they did. Canva

    Girlfriendhatesmefor began to fear that Otis’ behavior may be an early sign of an aggression issue or an indication that the dog was hurt or sick.

    So he threw a question out to fellow Reddit users: “Has anyone else’s dog suddenly developed attachment/aggression issues? Any and all advice appreciated, even if it’s that we’re being paranoid!”

    The most popular response to his thread was by ZZBC.

    Any chance your wife is pregnant?

    ZZBC | Reddit

    The potential news hit Girlfriendhatesmefor like a ton of bricks. A few days later, Girlfriendhatesmefor posted an update and ZZBC was right!

    “The wifey is pregnant!” the father-to-be wrote. “Otis is still being overprotective but it all makes sense now! Thanks for all the advice and kind words! Sorry for the delayed reply, I didn’t check back until just now!”

    Redditors responded with similar experiences.

    Anecdotal I know but I swear my dog knew I was pregnant before I was. He was super clingy (more than normal) and was always resting his head on my belly.

    realityisworse | Reddit

    So why do dogs get overprotective when someone is pregnant?

    Jeff Werber, PhD, president and chief veterinarian of the Century Veterinary Group in Los Angeles, told Health.com that “dogs can also smell the hormonal changes going on in a woman’s body at that time.” He added the dog may “not understand that this new scent of your skin and breath is caused by a developing baby, but they will know that something is different with you—which might cause them to be more curious or attentive.”

    The big lesson here is to listen to your pets and to ask questions when their behavior abruptly changes. They may be trying to tell you something, and the news may be life-changing.

    This article originally appeared last year.

  • Throughout history, women have stood up and fought to break down barriers imposed on them from stereotypes and societal expectations. The trailblazers in these photos made history and redefined what a woman could be. In doing so, they paved the way for future generations to stand up and continue to fight for equality.

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    Why mass shootings spawn conspiracy theories

    Mass shootings and conspiracy theories have a long history.

    While conspiracy theories are not limited to any topic, there is one type of event that seems particularly likely to spark them: mass shootings, typically defined as attacks in which a shooter kills at least four other people.

    When one person kills many others in a single incident, particularly when it seems random, people naturally seek out answers for why the tragedy happened. After all, if a mass shooting is random, anyone can be a target.

    Pointing to some nefarious plan by a powerful group – such as the government – can be more comforting than the idea that the attack was the result of a disturbed or mentally ill individual who obtained a firearm legally.


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