There’s nothing like sharing a great meal to help a crowd loosen up and turn strangers into friends. But if you’re new to town (wherever that may be), it may be hard to find the right crowd to get dinner with, or the right friend to organize a meal and invite you. Enter Grubwithus, a new web platform for people eager to socialize around a delicious meal with a self-selecting group of people.


The Los Angeles-based website was founded by Eddy Lu and Daishin Sugano, who—tired of tech careers in the corporate world—decided to open franchises of a cream puff company in Los Angeles and then Chicago. Passionate about food, they were challenged by their hectic schedules to meet people in their adopted hometown in a comfortable, natural way. Lu and Sugano reached out to several Chicago restaurants to host Grubwithus’ first public dinners for locals seeking new friends. The project launched as a company in the summer of 2010. Now it operates nationally and recently closed its Series A round of funding for $5 million.

Here’s how it works: users (referred to as grubbers) can visit their city’s Grubwithus page to check out the meals on offer. In Los Angeles, a city with an active user base, the possibilities range from meeting young people new to L.A., to networking with entrepreneurs, to talking shop with restaurant industry leaders, to mingling with singles. If none of those options sounds appealing, users can opt for the “Create Your Own” feature to set up their own meal in a neighborhood of their choice.

Diners pay a fixed price in advance to book a spot at a multi-course meal. Once they’ve paid, attendees just show up at the the restaurant at the arranged time and enjoy themselves. “There is no format. No agenda, no assigned seating,” explains Amy Partridge, director of communications for Grubwithus. “Sit down, find where you’re comfortable. The meal is served family style. It’s a social lubricant. People at the very least can find a conversation by asking someone to pass a dish.”

According to Partridge, Grubwithus maintains relationships with a roster of restaurants in each city where it operates. The restaurant agrees to prepare a family style meal for the party of grubbers and hold a table based on how many register for the meal. “It’s essentially guaranteed revenue for [the restaurants],” Partridge says. “It’s group business and its generally on nights that the restaurants are a bit slower. It’s been a very positive marketing tool.” Grubwithus keeps the lights on by charging a service fee per reservation.

Partridge says the company can already pat itself on the back for connecting several diners with job offers through Grubwithus meals. Perhaps the one problem with the service is that if it’s successful, grubbers will no longer need it and coordinate meals on their own with new friends. According to Partridge, that happened with at least one super-user in Chicago. After coming to Grubwithus meals every two weeks, “all of a sudden he stopped coming to our meals. We reached out to him and said, ‘We miss you.’”

Turns out he had met his girlfriend at a meal. His response: “‘We’ve been doing just parties of two.’”

Image courtesy of Grubwithus

  • Man’s dog suddenly becomes protective of his wife, Internet clocks the reason right away
    Dogs have impressive observational powers.Photo credit: Canva

    Reddit user Girlfriendhatesmefor’s three-year-old pitbull, Otis, had recently become overprotective of his wife. So he asked the online community if they knew what might be wrong with the dog.

    “A week or two ago, my wife got some sort of stomach bug,” the Reddit user wrote under the subreddit /r/dogs. “She was really nauseous and ill for about a week. Otis is very in tune with her emotions (we once got in a fight and she was upset, I swear he was staring daggers at me lol) and during this time didn’t even want to leave her to go on walks. We thought it was adorable!”

    His wife soon felt better, butthe dog’s behavior didn’t change.

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    Otis knew before they did. Canva

    Girlfriendhatesmefor began to fear that Otis’ behavior may be an early sign of an aggression issue or an indication that the dog was hurt or sick.

    So he threw a question out to fellow Reddit users: “Has anyone else’s dog suddenly developed attachment/aggression issues? Any and all advice appreciated, even if it’s that we’re being paranoid!”

    The most popular response to his thread was by ZZBC.

    Any chance your wife is pregnant?

    ZZBC | Reddit

    The potential news hit Girlfriendhatesmefor like a ton of bricks. A few days later, Girlfriendhatesmefor posted an update and ZZBC was right!

    “The wifey is pregnant!” the father-to-be wrote. “Otis is still being overprotective but it all makes sense now! Thanks for all the advice and kind words! Sorry for the delayed reply, I didn’t check back until just now!”

    Redditors responded with similar experiences.

    Anecdotal I know but I swear my dog knew I was pregnant before I was. He was super clingy (more than normal) and was always resting his head on my belly.

    realityisworse | Reddit

    So why do dogs get overprotective when someone is pregnant?

    Jeff Werber, PhD, president and chief veterinarian of the Century Veterinary Group in Los Angeles, told Health.com that “dogs can also smell the hormonal changes going on in a woman’s body at that time.” He added the dog may “not understand that this new scent of your skin and breath is caused by a developing baby, but they will know that something is different with you—which might cause them to be more curious or attentive.”

    The big lesson here is to listen to your pets and to ask questions when their behavior abruptly changes. They may be trying to tell you something, and the news may be life-changing.

    This article originally appeared last year.

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