He was normally the one defending the lane. Etan Thomas, a 6’10 former professional basketball player created a social media firestorm when he posted a picture to his Facebook page claiming that a white woman on an Amtrak train refused to share her seat with the black, 38-year-old, New York native.


The problem wasn’t that she said no, claiming that the seat was already taken. It’s what happened next:

“So I go to the next seat. Now, less than 2 mins later a man (who happens to be white) asks if he can sit there and she says why sure let me move my stuff. So I have to say something so I ask ummmmm did you just not want ME to sit next to you ? Were you scared ? Not comfortable with a Black Man sitting next to you?”

The women in the seat reportedly rebuffed Thomas’ accusation, saying he was playing the “race card” and saying she had dated a black man in college.

Also for the record, Thomas says the incredibly uncomfortable, but “nice guy” in the picture says he politely offered to move so Thomas could have the seat, which the ex-athlete declined. Instead, Thomas wanted to make a teaching moment out the situation and told the woman he was going to take a photo and share it with his social media following. Angry, the woman called over the conductor. Only problem is the conductor happened to be a fan of Thomas, even thanking him for his work in the community.

The post has now been shared nearly 40,000 times on Facebook alone and become the subject of articles in major news sites like ESPN, where Thomas is probably more accosted to seeing his name pop up in box scores. Still, it’s not a totally new situation for Thomas to be in. As The Root notes, Thomas is a “universally accepted all-around great guy,” who helps out student athletes and is even a published poet. He’s also a human being. Someone, like all people, who deserves a seat at the table, or on the train, without being subjected to drama. Still, he’s found a way to bring attention to an uncomfortable situation, one that can hopefully remind people to be more respectful of their fellow commuters. Besides, you never know when that person might just happen to be famous.

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  • Man’s dog suddenly becomes protective of his wife, Internet clocks the reason right away
    Dogs have impressive observational powers.Photo credit: Canva

    Reddit user Girlfriendhatesmefor’s three-year-old pitbull, Otis, had recently become overprotective of his wife. So he asked the online community if they knew what might be wrong with the dog.

    “A week or two ago, my wife got some sort of stomach bug,” the Reddit user wrote under the subreddit /r/dogs. “She was really nauseous and ill for about a week. Otis is very in tune with her emotions (we once got in a fight and she was upset, I swear he was staring daggers at me lol) and during this time didn’t even want to leave her to go on walks. We thought it was adorable!”

    His wife soon felt better, butthe dog’s behavior didn’t change.

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    Otis knew before they did. Canva

    Girlfriendhatesmefor began to fear that Otis’ behavior may be an early sign of an aggression issue or an indication that the dog was hurt or sick.

    So he threw a question out to fellow Reddit users: “Has anyone else’s dog suddenly developed attachment/aggression issues? Any and all advice appreciated, even if it’s that we’re being paranoid!”

    The most popular response to his thread was by ZZBC.

    Any chance your wife is pregnant?

    ZZBC | Reddit

    The potential news hit Girlfriendhatesmefor like a ton of bricks. A few days later, Girlfriendhatesmefor posted an update and ZZBC was right!

    “The wifey is pregnant!” the father-to-be wrote. “Otis is still being overprotective but it all makes sense now! Thanks for all the advice and kind words! Sorry for the delayed reply, I didn’t check back until just now!”

    Redditors responded with similar experiences.

    Anecdotal I know but I swear my dog knew I was pregnant before I was. He was super clingy (more than normal) and was always resting his head on my belly.

    realityisworse | Reddit

    So why do dogs get overprotective when someone is pregnant?

    Jeff Werber, PhD, president and chief veterinarian of the Century Veterinary Group in Los Angeles, told Health.com that “dogs can also smell the hormonal changes going on in a woman’s body at that time.” He added the dog may “not understand that this new scent of your skin and breath is caused by a developing baby, but they will know that something is different with you—which might cause them to be more curious or attentive.”

    The big lesson here is to listen to your pets and to ask questions when their behavior abruptly changes. They may be trying to tell you something, and the news may be life-changing.

    This article originally appeared last year.

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    Why mass shootings spawn conspiracy theories

    Mass shootings and conspiracy theories have a long history.

    While conspiracy theories are not limited to any topic, there is one type of event that seems particularly likely to spark them: mass shootings, typically defined as attacks in which a shooter kills at least four other people.

    When one person kills many others in a single incident, particularly when it seems random, people naturally seek out answers for why the tragedy happened. After all, if a mass shooting is random, anyone can be a target.

    Pointing to some nefarious plan by a powerful group – such as the government – can be more comforting than the idea that the attack was the result of a disturbed or mentally ill individual who obtained a firearm legally.


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