Most people have some type of Thanksgiving tradition. It might be frying a turkey with your faithful dog Cuddles, hosting a “friendsgiving” for your buds who are far from home, or devouring homemade pumpkin pie with three generations of your family. Regardless of how you spend your day, hopefully you’re among those who take some time on Thanksgiving to reflect on what they’re grateful for.


When you take a step back and realize how thankful you are for what you have, it’s often natural to feel the urge to give. Taking time this weekend to think strategically about how your skills, passions and financial contributions can be utilized during the holiday season is a great way to be productive while waiting for your third serving of mashed potatoes to digest.

Here are five ways to give more than your thanks this year:

  • Volunteer Time: Start a new holiday tradition by volunteering with your family or friends over Thanksgiving weekend. Serve dinner at a soup kitchen (year-round!) or forgo Black Friday shopping to visit with residents of nursing homes.
  • Adopt a Family: As the holidays approach, many organizations run programs to provide gifts for families in need. Always envied friends with nieces and nephews to shop for? Here’s the perfect excuse to play with all of the “it” toys for the year while helping brighten a child’s holiday. Your local chapter of the Salvation Army can put you in touch with programs and Amazon is running an online Toy Drive with the Today Show.
  • Donate Money: With the start of 2013 only 39 days away, this holiday is a good time to plan your end-of-year charitable contributions. Most nonprofits will run year end campaigns, but research your favorite organizations to see where your funds can be best used.
  • Run a Turkey Trot: Not only does it help negate holiday baked goods, Turkey Trots and other races usually benefit charity. The YMCA hosts 5k races on Thanksgiving around the country to benefit their programs.
  • Invite extra guests for dinner: The holidays are definitely a time where “the more the merrier” rings true. Have a co-worker who can’t make the trip home for Thanksgiving? Have her join your meal—you never know, she could be the next Ina Garten and wow your family with her homemade stuffing.

As you reflect on what you are thankful for on Thursday, remember that thanks is only half of this holiday. Think of those who aren’t as lucky and find a fun and rewarding way to help.

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  • Man’s dog suddenly becomes protective of his wife, Internet clocks the reason right away
    Dogs have impressive observational powers.Photo credit: Canva

    Reddit user Girlfriendhatesmefor’s three-year-old pitbull, Otis, had recently become overprotective of his wife. So he asked the online community if they knew what might be wrong with the dog.

    “A week or two ago, my wife got some sort of stomach bug,” the Reddit user wrote under the subreddit /r/dogs. “She was really nauseous and ill for about a week. Otis is very in tune with her emotions (we once got in a fight and she was upset, I swear he was staring daggers at me lol) and during this time didn’t even want to leave her to go on walks. We thought it was adorable!”

    His wife soon felt better, butthe dog’s behavior didn’t change.

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    Otis knew before they did. Canva

    Girlfriendhatesmefor began to fear that Otis’ behavior may be an early sign of an aggression issue or an indication that the dog was hurt or sick.

    So he threw a question out to fellow Reddit users: “Has anyone else’s dog suddenly developed attachment/aggression issues? Any and all advice appreciated, even if it’s that we’re being paranoid!”

    The most popular response to his thread was by ZZBC.

    Any chance your wife is pregnant?

    ZZBC | Reddit

    The potential news hit Girlfriendhatesmefor like a ton of bricks. A few days later, Girlfriendhatesmefor posted an update and ZZBC was right!

    “The wifey is pregnant!” the father-to-be wrote. “Otis is still being overprotective but it all makes sense now! Thanks for all the advice and kind words! Sorry for the delayed reply, I didn’t check back until just now!”

    Redditors responded with similar experiences.

    Anecdotal I know but I swear my dog knew I was pregnant before I was. He was super clingy (more than normal) and was always resting his head on my belly.

    realityisworse | Reddit

    So why do dogs get overprotective when someone is pregnant?

    Jeff Werber, PhD, president and chief veterinarian of the Century Veterinary Group in Los Angeles, told Health.com that “dogs can also smell the hormonal changes going on in a woman’s body at that time.” He added the dog may “not understand that this new scent of your skin and breath is caused by a developing baby, but they will know that something is different with you—which might cause them to be more curious or attentive.”

    The big lesson here is to listen to your pets and to ask questions when their behavior abruptly changes. They may be trying to tell you something, and the news may be life-changing.

    This article originally appeared last year.

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    Why mass shootings spawn conspiracy theories

    Mass shootings and conspiracy theories have a long history.

    While conspiracy theories are not limited to any topic, there is one type of event that seems particularly likely to spark them: mass shootings, typically defined as attacks in which a shooter kills at least four other people.

    When one person kills many others in a single incident, particularly when it seems random, people naturally seek out answers for why the tragedy happened. After all, if a mass shooting is random, anyone can be a target.

    Pointing to some nefarious plan by a powerful group – such as the government – can be more comforting than the idea that the attack was the result of a disturbed or mentally ill individual who obtained a firearm legally.


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