I don’t use Pinterest. In fact, when I first learned about the service, I mocked it. But in recent weeks, I’ve been surprised at the level of nasty internet backlash over what is essentially a bookmarking service for content that can be presented via jpg. And I’ve noticed that Pinterest’s critics tend to harp on one particular aspect of the service.


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There is no right way to do social. Pinterest is not Tumblr (a blogging platform with the social features of Twitter and Facebook). It’s not a social link-based bookmarking service like Delicious or, my preferred site, Pinboard. I’ll be the first to say that Pinterest’s platform doesn’t appeal to me right now—my visual social sharing tends to happen through original content on Instagram, rather than via third-party images.

But for many people, it works: Mashable reported yesterday that it drives more traffic than Google+ and LinkedIn combined and beats Reddit as a referrer. The commentary around Pinterest has mean-spiritedly focused on the types of people who are using it (and the content they share), at the expense of any engagement with how the service works—or doesn’t—for its community.

I’m all for critiquing a social network and even the type of sharing that it encourages. You know what social network I find ridiculous? Foursquare! You want me to sign up for a service where I’d volunteer to tell others that I’m getting a cocktail at the one decent, empty bar in Farragut North? You feel safe telling me the location of your house, and that you have arrived home for the evening? But then, I’ve had friends explain that it’s terribly useful for networking at conferences, or for getting half-off meals and free parking. Eventually, I joined, too. (Good luck getting me to check in at my apartment building, though).

I have to think deeper about social networks than most people do: I spend a good portion of my day job thinking about how the social web fits in with the work of reporting and disseminating the news. Snarking about the wedding dresses and cooking wares and artfully messy French-braids that populate Pinterest ignores the fact that these users are finding utility in how that site lets them share that content. Maybe it’s not the best showcase for your 2,000 word investigative piece on mortgage rates among 20-somethings. But for your slideshow of couples tying the knot at city hall, or collection of campaign memorabilia, it’s perfect.

It’s not enough to defend Pinterest on traffic numbers alone. But traffic does indicate that some not-small number of people are finding it an engaging network. It may not be beloved of the social media power user, and that’s ok. Not all networks need serve everyone. But social sharers would be wise to consider why one big group of internet users—many of them women—are flocking to this service, even if you ultimately decide that the resulting content and community is not to your taste.

There’s plenty to dive into about the usability of Pinterest, and I’m happy to have that debate. But please, let’s refrain from trashing the kitchen utensil pinners, or the brides-to-be.

  • Man’s dog suddenly becomes protective of his wife, Internet clocks the reason right away
    Dogs have impressive observational powers.Photo credit: Canva

    Reddit user Girlfriendhatesmefor’s three-year-old pitbull, Otis, had recently become overprotective of his wife. So he asked the online community if they knew what might be wrong with the dog.

    “A week or two ago, my wife got some sort of stomach bug,” the Reddit user wrote under the subreddit /r/dogs. “She was really nauseous and ill for about a week. Otis is very in tune with her emotions (we once got in a fight and she was upset, I swear he was staring daggers at me lol) and during this time didn’t even want to leave her to go on walks. We thought it was adorable!”

    His wife soon felt better, butthe dog’s behavior didn’t change.

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    Otis knew before they did. Canva

    Girlfriendhatesmefor began to fear that Otis’ behavior may be an early sign of an aggression issue or an indication that the dog was hurt or sick.

    So he threw a question out to fellow Reddit users: “Has anyone else’s dog suddenly developed attachment/aggression issues? Any and all advice appreciated, even if it’s that we’re being paranoid!”

    The most popular response to his thread was by ZZBC.

    Any chance your wife is pregnant?

    ZZBC | Reddit

    The potential news hit Girlfriendhatesmefor like a ton of bricks. A few days later, Girlfriendhatesmefor posted an update and ZZBC was right!

    “The wifey is pregnant!” the father-to-be wrote. “Otis is still being overprotective but it all makes sense now! Thanks for all the advice and kind words! Sorry for the delayed reply, I didn’t check back until just now!”

    Redditors responded with similar experiences.

    Anecdotal I know but I swear my dog knew I was pregnant before I was. He was super clingy (more than normal) and was always resting his head on my belly.

    realityisworse | Reddit

    So why do dogs get overprotective when someone is pregnant?

    Jeff Werber, PhD, president and chief veterinarian of the Century Veterinary Group in Los Angeles, told Health.com that “dogs can also smell the hormonal changes going on in a woman’s body at that time.” He added the dog may “not understand that this new scent of your skin and breath is caused by a developing baby, but they will know that something is different with you—which might cause them to be more curious or attentive.”

    The big lesson here is to listen to your pets and to ask questions when their behavior abruptly changes. They may be trying to tell you something, and the news may be life-changing.

    This article originally appeared last year.

  • Throughout history, women have stood up and fought to break down barriers imposed on them from stereotypes and societal expectations. The trailblazers in these photos made history and redefined what a woman could be. In doing so, they paved the way for future generations to stand up and continue to fight for equality.

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    Why mass shootings spawn conspiracy theories

    Mass shootings and conspiracy theories have a long history.

    While conspiracy theories are not limited to any topic, there is one type of event that seems particularly likely to spark them: mass shootings, typically defined as attacks in which a shooter kills at least four other people.

    When one person kills many others in a single incident, particularly when it seems random, people naturally seek out answers for why the tragedy happened. After all, if a mass shooting is random, anyone can be a target.

    Pointing to some nefarious plan by a powerful group – such as the government – can be more comforting than the idea that the attack was the result of a disturbed or mentally ill individual who obtained a firearm legally.


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