Four boys, best friends, walk through a school cafeteria carrying their lunch trays. One of them is dared to pour water on another friend already seated and eating. Fast forward: Water down the back leads to chasing, pushing and several trays of spilled food. In that moment, there are two choices for a middle school principal: call the pranksters into his office. Or call the school resource officer, escalating the incident from a silly, ill-thought dare to a disciplinary action.


My son’s assistant principal chose door number one. He recognized the stunt as goofy teens stumbling and tripping their way from elementary to high school, talked to the boys about impulse control, and assigned them the humiliating and ego-deflating task of cleaning the cafeteria tables for one week. In other words, he had the discretion to dish out an appropriate punishment to meet the offense.

This is how all schools should work. But zero tolerance policies remove discretion from school officials, and too many teens and kids much younger than my son are receiving harsh penalties for mischievous but far from malicious behavior.

Zero tolerance has been around since the 1980s, with the theory that mandated, punitive discipline for select offenses would pay off with safer schools. But its popularity has less to do with its effects than its get-tough image. There is little data to prove the effectiveness of zero tolerance policies, and it has proven to be “a minefield of unintended consequences.

Over the years, the list of transgressions has expanded from guns, drugs and fights to “soft offenses” like disrespect, insubordination, even four-year-olds’ temper tantrums. The result is school districts across the country where suspensions and expulsions are the penalty for minor infractions like talking back, with exclusionary discipline applied disproportionately to minority students.

UCLA’s Civil Rights Project uncovered a staggering trend after studying data from over 26,000 middle and high schools: more than 2 million secondary school students—one in nine—are suspended every year, a majority for violating minor school rules. This can lead students to stay back a grade, drop out of school, or get in trouble with the law.

To bring some sanity to a broken system, Secretary of Education Arne Duncan and Attorney General Eric Holder have announced new discipline guidelines calling on schools to “abandon…overly zealous discipline policies that send students to court instead of the principal’s office.” The new federal guidance intends to balance school safety with the shocking overuse of suspension, expulsion or arrest and address a vicious pattern: black students, especially boys, bearing the brunt of these policies.

It represents a common-sense approach to a systemic problem. Yet in typical hyperbolic fashion, some accused the Administration’s new guidelines of undermining discipline, setting up a dystopia where “punishing some innocent students could turn out to be very good policy.” Of course, it is the ultimate irony that education reformers who push school vouchers as an equal opportunity to a quality education would also endorse “one strike and you’re out” policies pushing black and Hispanic students out of school and into the streets. These self-professed champions of education equality willfully ignore the inequity of a tussle over a note in class, then handcuffs.

Too many of today’s minority students will be tomorrow’s prisoners, sucked up into America’s criminal justice system. How long will we allow black and Hispanic children to be punished more harshly than white children for the same offenses? How long will we continue to let schools be the pipeline to prison for black and Hispanic youth? Being a black male means you’re a suspectwhether you’re shopping for a belt or waiting for a bus. Does the racial profiling start in our schools? These are questions that deserve serious thought and serious discussion by teachers and school administrators.

Middle school is that awkward stage of life when having a zit is equivalent to Armageddon and parents wonder whether their children have been possessed by aliens. The students don’t exhibit an abundance of reason. Thankfully in my son’s case, when faced with a discipline issue, the adult did not follow the kids’ example. As has been said before by education leaders, “It is adult behavior that has to change.

African-American student at school image via Shutterstock.

  • Man’s dog suddenly becomes protective of his wife, Internet clocks the reason right away
    Dogs have impressive observational powers.Photo credit: Canva

    Reddit user Girlfriendhatesmefor’s three-year-old pitbull, Otis, had recently become overprotective of his wife. So he asked the online community if they knew what might be wrong with the dog.

    “A week or two ago, my wife got some sort of stomach bug,” the Reddit user wrote under the subreddit /r/dogs. “She was really nauseous and ill for about a week. Otis is very in tune with her emotions (we once got in a fight and she was upset, I swear he was staring daggers at me lol) and during this time didn’t even want to leave her to go on walks. We thought it was adorable!”

    His wife soon felt better, butthe dog’s behavior didn’t change.

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    Otis knew before they did. Canva

    Girlfriendhatesmefor began to fear that Otis’ behavior may be an early sign of an aggression issue or an indication that the dog was hurt or sick.

    So he threw a question out to fellow Reddit users: “Has anyone else’s dog suddenly developed attachment/aggression issues? Any and all advice appreciated, even if it’s that we’re being paranoid!”

    The most popular response to his thread was by ZZBC.

    Any chance your wife is pregnant?

    ZZBC | Reddit

    The potential news hit Girlfriendhatesmefor like a ton of bricks. A few days later, Girlfriendhatesmefor posted an update and ZZBC was right!

    “The wifey is pregnant!” the father-to-be wrote. “Otis is still being overprotective but it all makes sense now! Thanks for all the advice and kind words! Sorry for the delayed reply, I didn’t check back until just now!”

    Redditors responded with similar experiences.

    Anecdotal I know but I swear my dog knew I was pregnant before I was. He was super clingy (more than normal) and was always resting his head on my belly.

    realityisworse | Reddit

    So why do dogs get overprotective when someone is pregnant?

    Jeff Werber, PhD, president and chief veterinarian of the Century Veterinary Group in Los Angeles, told Health.com that “dogs can also smell the hormonal changes going on in a woman’s body at that time.” He added the dog may “not understand that this new scent of your skin and breath is caused by a developing baby, but they will know that something is different with you—which might cause them to be more curious or attentive.”

    The big lesson here is to listen to your pets and to ask questions when their behavior abruptly changes. They may be trying to tell you something, and the news may be life-changing.

    This article originally appeared last year.

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    Why mass shootings spawn conspiracy theories

    Mass shootings and conspiracy theories have a long history.

    While conspiracy theories are not limited to any topic, there is one type of event that seems particularly likely to spark them: mass shootings, typically defined as attacks in which a shooter kills at least four other people.

    When one person kills many others in a single incident, particularly when it seems random, people naturally seek out answers for why the tragedy happened. After all, if a mass shooting is random, anyone can be a target.

    Pointing to some nefarious plan by a powerful group – such as the government – can be more comforting than the idea that the attack was the result of a disturbed or mentally ill individual who obtained a firearm legally.


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